Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

This week, every question you've ever had about how to maximize return on your online dating profile answered. Kim interviews Julie Spira, America's top online dating expert and digital matchmaker. Julie has spent her career mastering online dating from the early days of chatrooms, to the explosion of dating apps on the market today. No matter what platform you're using, if you're building your pr...

Are you interested in just having fun, growing into a relationship, or something else? It's up to you!  This week on  Coaching with Kim  you will learn   how to tell if you're sending the right signals and how to determine your pacing in a new relationship. In this episode, you'll meet Sue -- she got married when she was 20 and divorced 31 years later.  Now she's single, revamping her wardrobe, pu...

Stop being a shapeshifter and find the real you! This week, Kim talks about shapeshifting, or the ability to morph into what others want to see in order to be liked or praised. You may have recognized this phenomenon in others, or yourself. While shapeshifting can be a positive (it comes with incredible sales skills!), but it's impossible to maintain balanced relationships when one person is hidin...

Kim and former shy guy Myke Macapinlac, founder of Social Confidence Mastery, discuss how the right outfit and little confidence can change everything for you. Myke is a lifestyle entrepreneur and social dynamic specialist who helps shy guys become socially confident. This week, Kim and Myke talk about how the clothing you wear impacts your world.  And ladies you'll LOVE hearing a man's perspectiv...

This week on Coaching with Kim: a man's perspective!  Kim talks with Stephen, a guy who's navigating his way through the casual dating space. Right now, he's trying to figure out how to balance diving in too deep too soon and taking it slow with the women he's seen recently. Stephen grew up in a family that wasn't super emotionally open. Kim talks through how this has likely manifested itself in h...

It's that time of year again - stores are overflowing with heart shaped boxes of chocolate, teddy bears and bouquets of roses. Don't panic!  The Valentine's Day frenzy doesn't have to make you feel insecure, lonely, or unsexy.  Remember, feeling sexy is all about how you view yourself... and it's all up to you.  In this week's episode, Kim gives some important tips about how you can feel and look...

Dr. Ish Major has been decoding the way men think and act in dating and relationships for his entire career. A board-certified psychiatrist and resident relationship expert on  WEtv's  Marriage Bootcamp , Dr. Ish has obviously seen his share of broken relationships! In today's episode, Kim and Ish discuss how men and women both assume they know exactly what the opposite sex wants - and nothing cou...

Do people accuse you of being "too nice?"  This week is all about getting over that "nice syndrome" so many of us suffer from. And no, this doesn't mean you being aloof or hurtful to people!  It means, learning to express your needs and wants confidently without having to tiptoe around people you worry may disagree with you.  Kim discusses how getting over your "nice syndrome" can help foster bett...

This week, Kim talks to a matchmaking heavy hitter, CEO of eHarmony, Grant Langston. Grant has been with eHarmony since the beginning and has racked up a TON of knowledge and useful tips . He breaks down some of eHarmony's research on the science of compatibility and discusses what happy couples have in common that unhappy couples don't. Kim talks through understanding and recognizing every type o...

On this week's episode of Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Sandy about confidently expressing your needs and wants. Sandy talks about her childhood, where she grew up learning to prioritize the needs of others due to her mother's cancer diagnoses. Like many people do, she carried this behavior on into adulthood and discovered that when it comes to romantic relationships - solely prioritizing the...

This week, Kim interviews Empowerment Strategist and host of the Fit 2 Love Podcast, JJ Flizanes. Kim and JJ discuss body image and the myths we tell ourselves that trap us into feeling insecure. JJ shares some useful tips for thinking about food and cravings, shifting your mindset towards awareness, and recognizing the power you hold internally to help you change your life. And to put these skill...

Just in time for the onslaught of holiday parties - this week, Kim interviews body language expert, Lisa Mitchell. This season is all about mixing, mingling and celebrating and what better way to step up your game at cocktail hour with some practical body language tips to improve your social interactions. Clueing into body language cues and non verbal communication are essential skills to enhancin...

We've all had the experience of looking in the mirror and picking out all the aspects of our bodies that we hate. In this week's episode, you'll hear from Kim directly about a few actionable tips you can take right now to makeover your body image for the better! Learning to focus on the features of your body that you love can give you confidence in how you carry yourself and is the first step to a...

It's time for another round of coaching with Kim! In this week's episode, Kim talks to Jae about how to initiate conversations, open up emotionally and getting comfortable with being vulnerable sooner. You'll hear Kim role play with Jae live how to use her secret Social Engagement Formula to do that. Yes, it's about meeting someone you connect with, but it's also about allowing yourself to express...

Breakups. We've all had them - and even if you know it's the right move, it's never easy.  Kim  discusses and advises about breakups, among other relationship issues with former TV's  Married At First Sight  expert, Rachel DeAlto.  Rachel, a fellow relationship expert, motivational speaker and TV personality gets personal about her own breakup and how she's handled the aftermath. 

Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you're on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you're more likely to try something you wouldn't normally, because hey, you're on vacation right? When you apply that logic to yo...

Let's face it, first time social interactions can be… awkward and sometimes difficult.  Social dynamics expert, entrepreneur and host of the Art of Charm podcast, Jordan Harbinger knows better than anyone how to overcome those jitters. On this week's episode, Kim and Jordan reminisce about the awkward situation when they first met, and how their personal journeys have taught them what they know ab...

After coming out of a long-term relationship, or even a marriage, it can feel like you're not only learning to date again, but you're also getting to know yourself as a single person again. This week, Kim talks about how dating yourself, celebrating yourself, and getting to know who you are, separate from your ex-partner, is crucial to feeling sexy in your singlehood.

Today is the first episode of Charisma Quotient's new segment:  Coaching With Kim . Kim brings her client Holley on the line to do some laser focused coaching on everything from how to be a busy woman and still date, to holding your ground while remaining feminine.  And there are some surprising realizations Holley makes about how her past is connected to her current struggles.

Dating online is like pulling the lever on the slot machine - it's so addictive because you never know what you're going to get. And, that's not necessarily a bad thing. When you have access to all the millions of fish in the sea, take advantage of it and date someone you would normally never choose! This week, Kim talks about the benefits of diversifying your online dating portfolio, stepping out...

This week, Kim interviews fellow midwesterner, Dr. Terri Orbuch Ph. D., also known as "The Love Doctor" about how to keep love alive for years. She's a professor at the University of Michigan, her work has been featured in every major publication, and she's been the director of an NIH study following 373 couples for nearly 3 decades. Needless to say, Dr. Terri knows what she's talking about when i...

Did you know that the definition of "flirting" is "to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, for amusement rather than with serious intention"? This episode is all about challenging yourself to flirt for fun without fear! Who hasn't had anxiety over walking up to a cute guy at a bar and striking up a conversation? Kim breaks down how to let loose, throw caution to the wind and...