Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Dating is tough for everyone!  But what if you knew there were common mistakes that you might be making when trying to attract a partner?  There are repetitive behavioral patterns that show up in us over and over again. When you're able to recognize your patterns and challenges, you can make adjustments as needed to get a different result. This week, Kim talks through her 5 Dating Archetypes she h...

Do you ever hear those pesky voices in your head that say, "You're not good enough," "You're not doing it right," or "No one wants to hear what you have to say?" On this candid and vulnerable episode of Coaching with Kim, you'll get an inside look into how to turn down the volume on these messages that hold you back from being yourself, staying present and making a genuine connection with others o...

This week, Kim interviews Ryan Moran, an entrepreneur, founder of  Capitalism.com  and the host of the Freedom Fast Lane Podcast. This show is all about how to create an abundance mindset in your love life, especially when it looks like your options are scarce. Ryan and Kim have a candid conversation about how challenging and painful moments in our lives prompt us to identify patterns we want to c...

On this week's show, Kim talks all about how perfectionism is holding you back from putting yourself out there in the dating world. Are you reluctant to build a dating profile because you're waiting to take the perfect profile photo? Are you avoiding opportunities to meet new people because you're feeling self conscious or unconfident in your appearance? This episode will teach you that for whatev...

We all deal with adversity in our lives to varying degrees. But no matter what challenges you face, how you push past your pain makes all the difference. This week, Kim has a powerful conversation with Steven Maresca. Steven is an incredible resource and motivator for anyone looking to change their life through fitness. But, Steven isn't just your average fitness trainer. You'll hear him tell his...

  On this episode, Coaching with Kim, you'll meet Danielle who's noticed a pattern in her relationships and is ready for a big shift. Kim and Danielle's coaching session focuses on "Attachment Theory", a psychological model that defines interpersonal relationships and how we respond when we feel unsafe, hurt, or fearful. There are 3 types of attachment styles Kim discusses on the show so you'll he...

You know that exhilarating feeling when you meet someone new who showers you with compliments, makes you feel sexy confident and you can't get enough? But then, out of nowhere, almost as fast as everything started, the relationship is over and you're a wreck. We've all had some level of experience with these "tornado" relationships. In this episode, Kim talks about how to spot the difference betwe...

This week, Kim interviews wellness expert, Josh Trent. Josh hosts the Wellness Force Radio Podcast and has spent 15 years in the health and wellness industry. He's on a mission to help people live life well through developing physical and emotional intelligence. This conversation is packed with great information and gets intense, fast! Josh shares his personal journey of dealing with anxiety and d...

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Marion -- all the way from France! Marion is a school teacher, who got divorced 10 years ago, and has dated several men over the years since her split. Now, she's dating an amazing guy she really likes and can see a future with, but there are a few red flags and she needs some advice on. This guy just got out of his marriage and Marion is worried that s...

One day you and your guy are texting back and forth and then, suddenly - you never hear from him again. On this week's episode Kim talks all about  ghosting , why men do it, how to recognize the signs, and how to deal with the aftermath. You'll learn there are only a few reasons why men disappear without notice and almost all of them disqualify these men from being good partners for you.  Kim brea...

Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you're on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you're more likely to try something you wouldn't normally, because hey, you're on vacation right? When you apply that logic to yo...

Fear manifests itself in so many ways in relationships. There's the fear of intimacy, the fear of abandonment, the fear of being alone and countless others. This week Kim talks to Melanie Curtis - author, speaker and fierce life coach, about how to take a leap of faith and crush your fears!  Melanie has been skydiving more than 10,000 times - something that would terrify most of us - but that mean...

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim talks to Dena, who's having trouble trusting the men she dates. This episode is all about how to trust others, without giving away your power. Dena is struggling with some ghosts of her past - two divorces and an experience with infidelity. She embodies the role of "giver" in all areas of her life and has attracted men who are "takers". In the past, she's fallen...

This week Kim interviews Benjamin Ritter, host of the Live for Yourself podcast. Ben is a leader in public health and an executive and personal consultant with a focus in dating and relationships. Benjamin and Kim talk about their personal experiences with BIG, life-altering changes. Kim deep dives into the topic of how states of change can alter your perspective and that practice should be encour...

Have you ever dated a narcissist? Well if you have, you're not alone!  This week, Kim discusses how to spot narcissists from a mile away and how to avoid them!  If you're on a date with a suspected narcissist, Kim shares some great tips on how to weed them out.  Here's the thing, if you're a natural caregiver, you're more inclined to be accommodating and give in to their selfish needs. Kim talks a...

This week on Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Easter, who's struggling to feel recognized and appreciated at work. Although Easter currently has a loving relationship with a supportive partner, Kim dovetails into how patterns at work relate to relationships and social confidence in your life overall. Kim and Easter talk through Easter's upbringing in a socially isolated, strict religious househol...

Kim talks with Vedic Astrologer and Relationship Coach, Carol Allen about what goes into attracting a relationship that will last.  Vedic astrology is an old Indian system that is said to be much more predictive of your love life than your run of the mill magazine horoscope. Kim and Carol have a lively and personal conversation about getting confident and clear on what you want in a relationship,...

It's never too late to find love! This week Kim dispells the myth that you can't find love after 40. You can! You know the old tropes, "There are no good men out there!" and "All women are crazy!" Neither of these are true and your belief in them is holding you back from dating successfully. If you're having trouble believing that you are capable of dating after 40, this episode is the first step...

Back by popular demand, Kim has an candid conversation with friend of the show, Jordan Harbinger. Jordan opens up to Kim about his experience leaving Art of Charm and creating his new show, The Jordan Harbinger Show. Kim talks through how big changes in our lives can feel just like a major breakup. When something that consumes a huge part of your life is suddenly gone, whether it's a job, or a rel...

On this week's coaching episode, Kim does a deep dive with Melissa about how ghosts from the past can haunt new relationships. Melissa is in a new relationship with a great guy and things are going well. But...she can't shake off the anxiety that bubbles up when she doesn't hear from him.  In fact, 24 hours without a text is causing her to feel like the relationship is ending! Kim talks through so...

This week, Kim discusses the emotional and physical responses to breakups that make us feel unsexy, unconfident and totally alone. And who better to discuss how to regain your spark, than dating expert and creator of Sexy Confidence, Adam LoDolce!  Adam and Kim have a lively discussion in how committing to action is essential for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. When you're stuck in a po...

On this week's show, Kim talks through all the ways you could be holding yourself back from finding your next relationship. Whether you need a push to get out of the house to meet new people and expose yourself to the energy of the opposite sex, or you need to practice feeling flirty and sexy with a new outfit - Kim has you covered. This episode takes a deep dive into reclaiming your power and sho...

This week Kim interviews the unstoppable Bill Wooditch - a sales expert, speaker and best-selling author. Kim talks to Bill about how he motivated himself to change through his journey, how he was able to direct his focus and push through when failure seemed like the only option. They talk about how to identify and use both internal and external motivators to propel out of your comfort zone and to...

This week a powerful and emotional live coaching episode with Kim's client, Anne.  She's mastered the art of getting guys to the first date, but when it comes to securing the second one, she's stumped!  Kim uncovers the REAL reasons why Anne can't get past the first encounter and why she can't find chemistry with any guy she meets.  And it's not what you might think!  Here Kim helps Anne face some...

Does the thought of trying to curate the perfect online dating profile sound worse than a root canal? If so, don't worry…you are not alone!  This week, Kim's got you covered as she takes you through the Dos and Don'ts of Virtual Dating.  You'll learn simple tips on how to create an attention grabbing profile that will impress your next match. Kim talks about how to make a positive and lasting firs...