Charis Your Life with Charis Santillie

After a year and a half away, I’m back — and my life looks completely different. In this episode, I share the major transitions that collided all at once: • my dad’s passing and navigating the many “firsts” that followed • leaving my marriage • moving back to the Pacific Northwest • and the wild timing of creating my “Fearless Transitions” talk right before walking through some of the biggest tran...

Charis chats with Tim Brand, founder and CEO of Many Hands, a nonprofit impacting lives across three countries. Tim shares his journey from the nonprofit world to dedicating his life to philanthropy, driven by a big vision. The essential elements of living congruently, making impactful choices, and the emotional journey of writing his book, 'Standing on the Shoulders.' This inspiring conversation...

Charis chats with Bill Protzmann, founder of Musimorphic, to explore music's profound impact on mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Bill shares his personal journey from a challenging past of suicidal thoughts to becoming a beacon of hope through music therapy. They discuss how music can be a powerful tool for self-care, recovery, and personal development. This is a must-listen...

I'm excited to share our latest episode of Charis Chats, where I had the pleasure of sitting down with the incredibly talented Katie Ann Powell, a professional harpist who has played for over 20 years in 7 different countries. She’s also a financial counselor…money and music…quite a combo, right?! She is truly one of a kind. From hearing about her magical beginnings with the harp at a VERY young a...

I recently stumbled upon this mind-blowing phone hack in a podcast, and it's been an absolute game-changer for me. You know how our phones have this sneaky way of sucking us in, making us spend way more time on them than we'd like? Well, this hack is like the ultimate secret weapon against that. Picture this: You're scrolling through your phone, checking emails, browsing social media, doing all th...

Meet Ral West, a seasoned entrepreneur whose story of resilience, innovation, and unwavering determination spans four decades. Starting in Alaska's vibrant tourism industry, Ral and her husband built and sold a thriving business to Alaska Airlines. Along the way, they overcame market shifts and financial hurdles, emerging stronger and more determined than ever. Join me as Ral shares her exciting j...

A client recently shared that I am “skilled at interrogating reality.” Here’s the thing: Our understanding of reality isn't singular or absolute—it's shaped by our unique perspectives and experiences.  The truth usually lies in the gray areas, and often even exists in a paradox. Every interaction, challenge, or mundane moment is an opportunity to test your own lens and filtering system. Curio...

Just like navigating while driving a car, sometimes we make a wrong turn and feel like we missed an opportunity. But what if we approached these moments with the same non-judgmental mindset as our navigation apps?  There are no wrong turns in life, only reroutes. Every decision and outcome, planned or not, is part of your own adventure. Think about a time when something didn't go as planned—m...

I know many of you are facing the challenges of getting the best support for your aging loved ones.  Ensuring that our family members are well cared for often requires more than just love and patience—it really requires preparedness and understanding, especially in areas like long-term care planning and managing finances. Join me as Nancy sheds light on critical aspects such as navigating car...

Imagine a compass in your hand. This is the compass of your life.  Now, ask yourself, where is the magnet that orients this compass? Is it deep within you, or is it somewhere outside of you? Are you seeking direction and validation from external sources? Do you find yourself chasing moving targets, whether it's approval from others, career success, or social media recognition? Join me as we u...

Have you ever seen an ant trapped by a circle drawn on a piece of paper? Many of our own barriers are like that. Think about your constraints—are they real or self-imposed?  Consider this: What if they're just like the marker lines, not limits? Challenge your boundaries. Take that step beyond. Join me as we embrace the courage to challenge the status quo and take that first step outside the s...

Meet Rick Hale, a modern Renaissance man with a diverse array of talents including entrepreneurship, writing, music, and art, alongside his passions for boating and fishing. Rick's dedication to building businesses and inspiring others shines through his work. He's a driving force behind a Keller Williams real estate group boasting 1500 agents who achieved remarkable success, selling over 10,000 h...

Are you ready to be flawsome ? In this episode, I explored the Japanese philosophy of Wabi Sabi, which celebrates imperfection and the beauty found in the ordinary and aged. The concept of Kintsugi, where broken objects are repaired with gold, exemplifies the Wabi Sabi philosophy by highlighting flaws rather than hiding them.  Join me in embracing Wabi Sabi and adopting a "flawsome" attitude,...

What do you truly have control over? What are the key elements of trust? How do you nurture inner peace? Join me in choosing trust over control this week. Let's listen to that inner voice, loosen our grip, and discover the magic of life's moments. What you’ll learn: Why trust is the opposite of control The subtle shifts that lead to greater resilience Practical strategies for embracing trust in yo...

Welcome to a monumental milestone – Episode 100 of our podcast! 🎉 Can you believe it? We've shared laughter, tears, and countless moments of inspiration together on this journey, and I'm deeply grateful for each and every one of you who has been a part of it. In honor of this milestone, I want to share a concept by Scott Boddie that has deeply resonated with me: "Don't just connect the dots, draw...

In this episode, Charis Santillie discusses the shift from impersonal “you” to personal “I” language in conversations, exploring its universal framing and benefits. She also shares useful techniques to encourage this change and enhance authenticity in daily life. (0:00) Introduction (1:40) The transition from impersonal to personal language (3:27) The universal framing of experiences (5:06) Techni...

In this episode, Charis Santillie explores the world of online and offline algorithms, and the brain’s Reticular Activating System (RAS). She emphasizes the importance of brain training and focus, discusses the Wheel of Fear and Wheel of Freedom, and provides tips to retrain your RAS to curate your reality. What you’ll learn: How your attention shapes your reality How the brain’s Reticular Activat...

Wendy Harrop curates opportunities for women to say YES to themselves through workshops, retreats, and farm stays at her historic B&B on a small flower farm in rural MA and on culinary trips to France. She is also the host of the “say YES to yourself!” podcast.  In this episode, Charis Chats with Wendy about her transition from a wedding planner to a bed and breakfast host. They discuss t...

Felicia Bender. Ph. D. - The Practical Numerologist is devoted to helping people uncover their life's purpose - and so much more - with Numerology. She is the author of Redesign Your Life: Using Numerology To Create The Wildly Optimal You, Master Numbers 11, 22, 33: The Ultimate Guide & The Ultimate Guide To Practical Numerology: Mapping Your Path & Purpose. Felicia is featured in many med...

Charis Chats with Sarah Parise about her wellness journey and her 12-week program for moms. They discuss the power of community in fitness, the role of self-care and meal prep in daily routines. Sarah shares her 7-day reset program and other resources for lifestyle transformation. Sarah Parise is an ACE Certified Personal Trainer, Wellness Coach, Yoga Instructor, business owner, but most important...

I don’t have a super green thumb when it comes to gardening and plants, yet I have managed to learn the specific water and sun needs for the indoor plants we have so that I’ve been able to keep them alive. There's one specific plant that has received some extra love and attention from me lately and today I realized that the experience I've had with this plant over the last few months is a great me...

I've found that usually, it's not just one specific thing that causes us to feel overwhelmed. It's often all the zillion little things that have added up, and that we've convinced ourselves that we really have to do. So today, I'm going to share with you some useful tips to move from overwhelmed to empowered. What You’ll Learn:  What PQ Reps are and how they can help you soothe yourself from...

In this episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the book "The Gap and The Gain" by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy. I explore the nuances of measuring success, exploring the shift from chasing external validations to finding internal satisfaction. Drawing parallels with coaching principles and Fearless Living®, I share insights into the impact of acknowledging our growth and reframing expectations...

Lisa Smith is the Founder and Owner of Integrative Wellness Center, a Functional Medicine Nutrition Practice in Indiana, PA and host of the Pretty Well Podcast. Lisa helps people transform their health and lives by providing them with holistic personalized nutrition and lifestyle guidance so they can finally get well and have boundless energy...for GOOD. She’s a wife and mom of two awesome big kid...