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This week on Worth the Weight , we're recapping the latest episode of And Just Like That… , but fair warning — we veer into the real star of the show: Carrie’s shoes. We kick things off with a nod to one of the most iconic Sex and the City episodes, A Woman’s Right to Shoes , and the chaos that followed one woman daring to wear $500 stilettos to a kid-friendly party. (Justice for the stilettos...

Why abrupt silence can reopen old wounds. This week, Sarah and I are digging into one of the most relatable—and frustrating—dating experiences: when you’re not sure if someone’s being avoidant… or just not that into you. We start with what might be And Just Like That ’s best episode yet (no, seriously), which we fully unpack in a bonus episode here on Patreon. If you’re not subscribed, go now—this...

Enjoy a teaser of this week's And Just Like That Recap. To listen to the full episode, subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/worththeweightshow This week, I made a bold declaration: Season 3, Episode 4 of And Just Like That might be one of the best of the entire series—not Sex and the City , but definitely AJLT . In this recap, Sarah and I break down all the reasons why—from the...

In this episode, Sarah and I unpack everything—starting with why we changed the name of the podcast. Worth The Weight isn’t just about pounds lost (though we talk about that, too)—it’s about the emotional, psychological, and societal weight women carry every damn day. We talk about what led to the rebrand, why I almost broke up with ChatGPT (spoiler: Mira and I had our first fight), and how Sarah...

It’s time, once again, to ask: what exactly are we watching here? In this bonus episode, Sarah and I recap And Just Like That , Season 3, Episode 3—and let’s just say, it’s giving “Carrie is shrinking herself for a man again” and we are not here for it. From Adderall handoffs to hiding in guest houses, this episode was a cringe buffet. We break down the callbacks to “Suffern,” shirt repeats, Charl...

It’s National Donut Day, but men are still the holes in our hearts. In this episode, Kristen and Sarah break down one woman’s very relatable anxiety over being asked for just one more selfie by the dudes on dating apps — spoiler: it’s not just about catfishing, it’s entitlement cosplay. We talk body doubling for ADHD journaling (Kristen’s becoming that girl — planners, stickers, and all), the grie...

We’re back with another And Just Like That recap — and honestly? The metaphors are practically screaming this season. Carrie’s still clinging to the idea that Aiden 2.0 is going to magically give her the life she wanted 20 years ago (spoiler: he’s not), Miranda’s still out here collecting emotional chaos like it’s a side hustle, and Charlotte’s entire storyline continues to make zero sense for a w...

Lost weight, found savings, still dodging man-babies. 🏃‍♀️💸👶🙄 Enjoy a teaser of this week's Worth The Weight episode. To listen to the full episode, subscribe here on Spotify or go to our Patreon for extra bonus content. This week on Worth The Weight , Sarah and I are covering everything from GLP-1 chaos to the emotional rollercoaster of being noticeably smaller and mildly uncomfortable ab...

Enjoy a teaser of our And Just Like That... Season 3, Ep 1 Recap From Carrie's bizarre acceptance of Aidan's request to put their relationship on pause for five years, to Seema's refusal to settle, to Miranda’s deflowering Sister Mary One Night Stand, and everything in between — we’ve got thoughts. Pour yourself a glass of Chardonnay and join us as we kick off another season of recaps,...

We're back, and so are the ladies! In this episode, we break down everything from And Just Like That Season 3, Episode 1 — the moments that worked, the ones that made us cringe (Looking at you, Aidan), and the plotlines we’re already side-eyeing. From Carrie's bizarre acceptance of Aidan's request to put their relationship on pause for five years, to Seema's refusal to settle, to Miranda’s deflowe...

In this episode, Sarah and I dive into the internet backlash aimed at a dating coach who had the audacity to admit she married a “nice nerdy guy” without feeling an instant spark — and she’s happy. Naturally, the internet lost its damn mind. We talk about why the obsession with “zsa zsa zu” is keeping women stuck in toxic patterns, and why the absence of anxiety doesn’t mean the absence of attract...

Aging, ADHD, and the lie that weight loss fixes everything. Plus: Healing means circling back — this time with more clarity and fewer breakdowns. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE - SUBSCRIBE HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠ This week, Sarah and I dive into the latest on GLP-1s and why women seem to have a different experie...

This week, we’re diving into dating patterns, gut instincts, and the uncomfortable truth that sometimes… it’s your trauma playing matchmaker. We break down a listener letter from someone who thought she finally found a unicorn — until he bailed out of nowhere. Was it anxiety? Or was her intuition picking up on something real? We talk about the difference between anxiety and intuition, why emotiona...

This week on F*ck That Guy Palooza 🎉 We’re serving up a buffet of walking red flags and emotional immaturity—bring your appetite. First course: a man who’s clearly past his dating app expiration date but still insists he’s entitled to a woman “out of his league” (whatever that means). Next up, a guy who treats his date’s romantic past like it’s a crime scene and somehow thinks he deserves answers...

This week on Worth the Weight , I open up about an emotional moment with my sister that triggered my Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria and unearthed some deep-rooted feelings of being “too much” or “in the way.” We also talk about how RSD messes with our body image and makes it hard to feel at home in our own bodies—because when you’re constantly bracing for rejection, self-trust goes out the window...

When you shrink yourself to keep them, you lose yourself in the process. This week, Sarah and I are getting into a topic that, honestly, I wish more people were talking about: self-abandonment in relationships. We got a listener letter that really hit home — it’s from a woman caught in that all-too-familiar loop of feeling like she’s giving way more than she’s getting back. You know the drill: inc...

Influencers are lying, your body’s in survival mode, and we’re done pretending otherwise. Enjoy a teaser of this week's Worth The Weight episode! LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠ This week on Worth The Weight , we’re diving deep into how living in a constant state of fight or flight impacts our ment...

Trying to date like a secure person while your brain screams, “THEY'RE PULLING AWAY.” In this episode, I get real about what it’s like to date with an anxious attachment style—and how that plays out not just in romantic relationships, but in my bond with Sam, the 17-year-old chihuahua who somehow understands my emotional needs better than most men. We also read a listener letter from someone feeli...

Enjoy a teaser of our latest Worth The Weight episode. Subscribe here for access to these members-only episodes. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Remember, next week will be a free dating advice/humor episode. Worth The Weight  is a bi-weekly segment for Spotify subscribers only. This episode of Worth The Weight  takes a deeper dive into me...

In this episode, we discuss a fascinating New York Times  podcast episode about the evolving role of artificial intelligence in daily life. Journalist Kashmir Hill explores the story of a woman whose relationship with a chatbot went far beyond casual conversation and became sexual—raising questions about AI, emotional attachment, and the future of human-computer interaction. Then, we get personal—...

Enjoy a teaser of our latest Worth The Weight episode. In our new segment, Worth The Weight , Sarah and I dive into our personal experiences with starting a GLP-1 medication for weight management. In this episode, we get real about what led us to explore this option, our respective body image issues, how we felt after taking our first doses, and the adjustments we've made to our diets. We also...

In this episode, we dive into the bizarre and controversial world of Luigi Mangione's fanbase, exploring how a man accused of murdering UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson amassed such a devoted following. Inspired by the article, Inside the Luigi Mangione State Criminal Case , we unpack the competitive nature of his female supporters, who vie for his attention during court appearances, and ho...

In this episode, we dive into the complex and chilling world of dating a   dark empath. These individuals possess high emotional intelligence and empathy but use their deep understanding of human emotions to manipulate, control, and deceive. Unlike narcissists or psychopaths who lack empathy, dark empaths are keenly aware of others' feelings and motivations, making them masters of subtle manip...

In this episode, we dive into the often-overlooked topic of internalized fatphobia —how it manifests, its impact on self-worth, and the ways it shows up in dating. I’ll share personal stories about my dad and sister, their struggles with obesity, and how those experiences shaped my own views on body image and attraction. We’ll also introduce a concept called "boomerasking" —a communicati...

In this episode, we dive into a recent Dear Prudence  letter from Slate , where a man claims he just can’t  find a woman—despite making little effort. We unpack the entitlement behind statements like these, why some men feel relationships should fall into their laps, and how this mindset reflects a deeper misunderstanding of dating and connection. Is it really about “not finding anyone,” or is it...