Chaos, Crumbs and Clarity

In today's episode of Chaos, Crumbs and Clarity, we're unpacking why we need to stop clapping for basic decency . You know the script. A man texts back within twenty-four hours and we're screenshotting it to the group chat. A man plans a date more than three hours in advance and we call him a unicorn. A man manages to listen, pay attention, and behave like a fully formed adult, and our...

In today's episode of Chaos, Crumbs and Clarity, we're unpacking the Wine Aunt manifesto . You know the trope. The childfree woman of a certain age who is meant to be quietly tragic, the cautionary tale at the family Christmas, the spare without a seat. The whole tired narrative that says if you didn't pass anything on biologically, you somehow missed the point of being a woman. But he...

In today's episode of Chaos, Crumbs and Clarity , we're unpacking the midlife crisis myth. You know the one. The narrative that says women in their forties are supposed to be falling apart, panicking about relevance, desperately reinventing themselves before it's too late. We're told we should be burnt out, lonely with our cats, spiralling into some kind of existential breakdown th...