Catch the Dragonfly

After going no contact and being betrayed by our undercover agent, we finally had some space from Dragonfly's lies and drama. We maintained a friendship and moved on with our lives... but with time comes reflection, and things started to look a little different with some space. Conversations about a serious incident let to some sleuthing... and what came next shocked.... no one. #truecrime #conart...

We had trusted Sophie to help us warn a woman who was being conned by Dragonfly. But it seemed that she wasn’t as immune to narcissistic charm as she had insisted. Sophie had started to give #PickMe energy, but nothing could have prepared us for the reasoning behind her ideology. As Jules’ last conversation with her spirals, Sophie reveals a startling family secret that explains everything. The st...

URGENT APPEAL: help us warn his new victim This is another episode that you’ll want to watch on YouTube. When Kiki tries to reach out to Dragonfly (Nicholas Firefly) to give him an opportunity to share his side of the story, a whirlwind of events unfolded, which led to this episode: a PSA, an appeal for help to locate his new victim. In this episode we will share footage of the attempt to contact...

Sophie was already connected to Dragonfly from a Facebook group friendship. She recognised him from a PSA and offered to help us investigate whether he was conning Belinda, the woman he met on the ferry. But as the weeks go on, the signs start piling up. Pick-me logic. Excusing harmful behaviour. Blaming women. And then… flirting with Dragonfly??? What was meant to be surveillance becomes somethin...

If you’re listening on audio only, trust us: this is the one you’ll want to watch on YouTube. The video version is packed with 37 receipts: screenshots, photos, message threads, and evidence that turns this episode into an absolute forensic deep-dive into Dragonfly’s tangled web. Kiki’s reading from a psychic turns from a funny aside into a genuinely jaw-dropping plot point. Meanwhile, Dragonfly r...

You will love getting to know more about Wendy in part 2 of our forbidden interview with her. We hear more about Wendy’s perspective and motivations as we dive deeper into what family life was really like behind Dragonfly’s carefully crafted mask. Wendy paints a clear picture of what it meant to share a home with someone who was at best, chronically lazy, and at worst, dangerously violent. She ref...

This is the interview Dragonfly doesn't want you to hear. In this powerful two-part interview, we sit down with Wendy, Dragonfly’s ex-wife. She’s social worker, domestic violence advocate, and respected member of her community. For eight years, Wendy lived a life with Dragonfly that was built on lies. She was conned into a marriage founded entirely on false pretences, enduring years of emotional,...

This is a very special update about things that have occurred THIS WEEK in the Dragonfly saga. Events have taken a truly bizarre turn. Kiki and Jules break down the surreal new developments, unpacking what might be going through Dragonfly’s mind when he decided to make this move. After weeks of joking about trying to get listeners on North Stradbroke Island, it looks like we’ve finally done it… ju...

A woman who knows Dragonfly offers to go undercover to find out whether he's deep into conning a new victim, or just making up some fictional dates with women. She's confident, curious, and eager to help. But the more she reports back, the murkier things get. By the end, just as things start to spiral, it's Jules' turn to receive a message that meant much more than we could have realised. #truecri...

In this episode, we begin reaching out to the others who are caught in his web of lies. Some want to talk. Others disappear. Then we try to warn the woman he’s with now, hoping she’ll see the truth. But some truths only make sense in hindsight. While our warning is dismissed, and it feels like the story has nowhere left to go, it takes a turn we never saw coming. #truecrime #conartist #romancescam...

Dragonfly is a master manipulator who weaves charm, deceit and confusion into his web. We explore the personality traits and tactics he uses to lure others in, examining what might drive his behaviour and why his influence is so dangerously captivating. #truecrime #conartist #romancescam #storytime #whotfdidimarry #australia Disclaimer:
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I'd found my life's big romance. A charming farmer with a heart of gold. Then, almost overnight, the illusion shattered. What I thought was a fairytale unravelled into something far more twisted, and took me back to someone who I thought would be staying in my past. #truecrime #conartist #romancescam #storytime #whotfdidimarry #australia Disclaimer:
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In this trailer, we introduce the themes at the heart of the season: the charm of a con artist, the allure of a romance scam, the ache of missed connections, and the hidden cost of believing in someone who was never who they claimed to be. Subscribe now and step into a story where every truth has a shadow.