Chef Von, Torrian L Baskerville, J'ay

Catch My Black and Gay

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Join J'ay, Torrian, and Chef Von,three strong individually opinionated friends, debate today’s pop culture, politics, and lifestyles while spotlighting the intersection of black and gay identities. The conversations held are sometimes intense but always comical and eyebrow-raising. Catch My Black and Gay Podcast, a weekly bite-size podcast will have you inspired to keep an open mind with your views on life.

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Chef Von, Torrian L Baskerville, J'ay

Episodes

So... Are We Choosing Gay? 07.07.2026 46:34

Inspired by a recent episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, the conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about sexuality, identity, religion, family expectations, and the complicated ways LGBTQ+ people are represented in media. What starts as reality TV commentary evolves into an honest and vulnerable conversation about growing up gay, navigating shame, acceptance, parenthood, and t...

Rock Bottom In House Shorts 30.06.2026 40:24

In one of our most vulnerable conversations yet, Chef Von opens up about addiction, mental health, recovery, and the friends who helped him find his way back to himself. It's an honest, emotional, and at times hilarious reminder that healing isn't linear, but showing up for yourself is always worth it. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media pla...

We Missed Yall 23.06.2026 43:44

After nearly three years, the crew is finally back—and picking up right where they left off. In this episode, Jay, Chef Von, and Torrian reconnect, reflect on their time away, and ease back into their signature unfiltered chemistry. From hilarious behind-the-scenes struggles with dusty equipment and tech issues to real conversations about career transitions, personal growth, and evolving friendshi...

Shut Up...Bissh 19.12.2023 26:46

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Potlucks, Mac and Cheese, and DUI's 05.12.2023 24:03

Do you put raisins in your coleslaw? Do you put eggs in your mac and cheese? In this episode, the guys discuss their holiday dinners. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us...

What Do I Say to Him Next? 28.11.2023 53:12

Have you ever dated someone that is living with HIV? In this episode, the guys get educated on what its like to date someone living with HIV and how to use inclusive language when speaking on this topic. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Jo...

We'll Start Over Next Week 21.11.2023 12:28

Chef Von and Torrian have a spar with words, leaving this episode to come in to an abrupt ending. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG -...

I Want Preferential Treatment 14.11.2023 33:54

Do you like to skip your the line when you go out? Do you believe that celebrities should be given preferential treatment at establishments? The guys debate how they like to be treated when going out. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join...

We Had A Time... DC 07.11.2023 45:08

In this episode, the guys discuss their infamous Washington DC trip that recently took place. An unexpected encounter with an unwanted guest leaves the guys shook. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voice...

Miss Kitty 31.10.2023 40:38

In this episode the guys discuss the civl case between Dwight Howard and Stephen Harper. Can the accused be the real victim? Are there messages missing from the plaintiff? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us...

My Mother 24.10.2023 36:54

The guys are back and have an insight chat about their growing relationships with their moms and how they healed from the trauma they experienced. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7...

Slaving for a Company 25.07.2023 26:00

In this episode, the guys discuss the sacrifice one makes working in Corporate America. Has Corporate America stopped you from starting your own business? What do you do when you're tired of a job? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the...

It's F'ing Over 18.07.2023 48:24

Should the person you're dating tell you that they have an ONLYFANS? When should the person you're dating disclose their sexual health status? The guys debate this topic, and you might be surprised by their responses. Always Fun, Always Shady, Always Black, & Always Gay. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay...

Fighting At Pride 11.07.2023 44:34

In this episode, the guys debate how they feel the LGBTQ+ Community should show up for PRIDE. Should kids attend PRIDE events? Is the LGBTQ+ Community over-sexualized? Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a v...

What Did You Just Call Me? 27.06.2023 27:08

In this episode, the guys discuss DIY projects, stealing, and someone using a not-so-nice word. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @...

Are You An Accomplice? 20.06.2023 40:07

In this episode, the guys discuss what responsibilities celebrities have in being true ally's to the LGBTQ community. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social m...

How Are You Late, and Rushing Me? 13.06.2023 41:56

In this episode, the guys hold Jay accountable for a date night gone wrong. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay ...

That's A Non-Negotiable 06.06.2023 42:48

In this episode, the guys discuss what they are willing to accept and not accept while dating someone. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms...

Deleting Nudes 23.05.2023 21:18

What do you do with the nudes that are sent to you? Find out what the guys do when nudes are sent to them. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platfo...

I Need Therapy 16.05.2023 31:10

J'ay realizes that he needs therapy and shares what led him to this decision. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay...

Too Old to Date 09.05.2023 20:08

What's the oldest you would date? The guys discuss what's too old for them to date. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblack...

Trouble at Work 02.05.2023 47:16

In this episode, the host's detail issues they're having with diversity and inclusion in the workplace. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms...

Am I Striking That From the Record 25.04.2023 43:26

In this episode, the guys discuss if dating someone with substance abuse issues is a deal breaker for dating. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media pla...

One Gotta Go 18.04.2023 44:36

The guys play a game of "One Gotta Go" Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: h...

That's An Apology 11.04.2023 40:28

In this episode, the guys discuss what it means to apologize to a friend genuinely. Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 971-410-7111 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblackandgay Twitter- @catchmyblackgay Website: https://catchmyblackandgay.com Join the conversation and leave us a voicemail at 818-855-7180 Follow us on all social media platforms IG - @catchmyblack...