Calmer in 5

We all understand that being kljnd is viewed favorably by society.  But what does that mean, if anything?  As we all know, it will serve us to only acknowledge and appreciate all the aspects of ourselves as we define them, not society.  So the question is, what does kndness mean to you.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free...

Many people turn to meditation to help them become calmer; and that's not a bad plan. But it won't always work without the right motivation, and it will never work the same for everyone. Let's finish out the week talking about calm and meditation. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a...

This week I have been answering the top five questions people have about becoming calmer. Since a poll was too involved and would take too long, I decided to opt for everyone's best solution; ask Chat GPT. While today's question is a bit like Monday's there is a little bit of nuance to it. The question? How do I stay calm in chaotic environments? Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain...

Today, and all this week, I have enlisted the help of Chat GPT. I wanted to answer the top questions people had about becoming calmer. Day three has us thinking about ways to become calmer with the things we do every day. Even though that list is really long, how about I tell you my top three. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom...

Today, and all this week, I have enlisted the help of Chat GPT. I wanted to answer the top questions people had about becoming calmer. Next up? Why do I get anxious when I try to relax? Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com/zencommuter...

Today, and all this week, I have enlisted the help of Chat GPT. I wanted to answer the top questions people had about becoming calmer. For the next five days I will be answering those questions. Let's start with…How do I calm down in stressful situations? Come listen   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation) THANK...

From the day we are born we are judged…and it doesn't let up. If you don't have a method for helping you understand your self worth, then you are bound to base your value on the myriad ratings from the people around you. The trouble is, you lose your sense of calm when your misperceived self-worth is in contrast to what value you have as decided by you. Let's talk about it.   Links from the Episod...

In our society we are often told to hide or disavow certain emotions; like anger, sadness or anxiety. We are encouraged to only show the parts of us that are lighter and upbeat. But what do you think happens when you mask how you are truly feeling? Not only does it become incredibly tiring, it contributes massively to our level of unrest. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to e...

We definitely have the ability to make choices in our lives; to do what we feel is best. But it may be important to know that there is also something guiding us in the background.  Before we even took human form, in my belief, our souls decided what they wanted to experience.  So they know the destination, and they leave it up to us as to how to get there.  But sometimes if we get lost, they orche...

It's safe to say that how you start the day sets the tone for the rest of the day. So wouldn't it be better to spend some time each morning preparing yourself for the day; calmly, I mean. That was rhetorical btw. Let me share with you how I do it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be...

Our minds can hold us captive if we don't take steps to reign them in. Today I talk about the beauty that presents itself when we take a moment to stop and bring ourselves fully into this moment. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS FOR LISTENING! Be a part of the show! Send me a message: speakpipe.com...

It is part of who we are to want to be part of a group, to belong. All of us want to be recognized and seen. But the ways we go about that can either bring us the peace of belonging, while other ways will upset our calm and the calm of those around us. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   THANKS...

Regret can be a tough pill to swallow. But it doesn't have to be; at least not one type of regret. If there is someone (maybe many more) that you care about deeply, love. have you let them know how you feel? If not, maybe it would be a good idea. That way, in the event something happens, you won't rue not letting them know. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of...

When was the last time you saw a commercial, any commercial, where the people were not smiling, laughing and having a great time? There aren't many. It's because we are told we should be happy; urged to always appear to be joyous. But what happens when we don't feel that way? Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Th...

I was out for a walk the other day and felt my mind and body overcome by an alternate experience. I won't delve into it here, but I will say that I was living in another place. The moment passed somewhat quickly but then it led me to a question…Where should I be? As you may have guessed, the answer came just as quickly. Come listen for the answer, and how it can impact your level of calm as well....

  How old we are is one of the oldest societal agreements we all buy into. Which each passing your, some people become depressed; wishing they were younger. Much unlike other attachments, youth is a bit more "elusive". It's not as attainable as a car or. big house. So why don't we talk about ways to live outside the paradigm of aging. Come on. :0) Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain...

We think that every decision we make is of our own choosing. Which is correct. But there are many aspects of you making decisions, and some of them are unknown to you…unless you listen. Today I share a story about how I was able to tune into the voice of my soul, and how you can do it too. Enjoy. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Th...

We attribute many labels to who we are. The goal is simple; to help us, and the world, understand who we are. But all those labels were assigned, and they don't actually make up who you are. But to our point today, sometimes those labels get in the way of us experiencing a calmer, more peaceful life. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation...

The very essence of mindfulness is to be rooted in the present moment. But if you are so firmly attached to this moment, then how do you set goals for the future. It can be done; and today I talk about how. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   Become a super-fan of ZEN commuter and Calmer in 5 and receive bon...

In many cultures weekends are prized. After a long week working, the thought is…"Finally, two days to do what I want to do". Wouldn't it be a bit more relaxing if that same level of excitement and calm came at any time during the week? It can. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   Become a...

I'm pretty sure they are things that you are grateful for. But are there more things that you can think of? Today I share an exercise with you that will help you expand your perspective and grow your gratitude muscle. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Consultation)   Become a super-fan of ZEN commuter and Cal...

Unless you're a magician, you can't change the way things are. And yet, even with that understanding, many people create anxiety by trying to force things to be different than what they are. in those same moments, they are not just seeing it differently, they are constantly keeping that angst going by ruminating on something that is make-believe. There is another way. Links from the Episode: Learn...

There are some heavy-duty words that could create some uneasiness. And they are not the ones you would think about. Like…Legacy, Dharma or Destiny. They seem innocuous enough, almost noble. But if we think too hard about them, or what they mean, we can get a little restless. There is a way to rethink them to become calmer. Let's think about it. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to eas...

Quite simply, by understanding we are all one, you limit much angst and loneliness. But since we are all human, we are prone to forgetting our oneness. And in forgetting, we may cast judgments against other people. It's not serving for us, so what do we do when that happens? Today I talk about one aspect of non-duality, and what to do in the event we cast a judgment. Links from the Episode: Learn...

How do you feel when you are trying something new; before you have mastered it. If you are like most people, you are a little nervous, maybe a bit stressed. But how do you feel when you have mastered something? It doesn't scare you, right? Well, today I talk about going through that inventory of your abilities so you can become calmer. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety...