Calmer in 5

Welcome to Calmer in 5 . Today's episode is a powerful reminder: you are not broken. So often, we move through life believing there's something wrong with us—something that needs fixing. But the truth is, you are whole just as you are. When we begin to understand and embrace that truth, we stop fighting ourselves. And in that space of self-acceptance, calm naturally begins to rise. Links from the...

On today's episode of Calmer in 5 , we're exploring the powerful connection between self-compassion and calm . When we're unkind to ourselves—through harsh self-talk or impossible expectations—it quietly fuels anxiety and stress. But the good news is, self-compassion is a skill you can grow. I'll share three simple ways to begin treating yourself with more kindness, so you can feel more grounded,...

Welcome to Calmer in Five , where the start to a calmer life is just five minutes away. Today I talk about bringing yourself into the moment to appreciate all the gifts that surround you. And there are a multitude around each of at any moment. Tune in to hear how to access all of them. Links from the Episode! Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Free Co...

Welcome to Calmer in Five , where the start to a calmer life is just five minutes away. Today I talk about taking a look at your life and determining what your defaults are. Don't worry, it's not your whole life, but for now, just a couple of years. We all have personality traits and emotions that we express more than others. But the question is, do these "defaults" add to your level of calm. Let'...

Welcome to Calmer in Five , the show that helps you shift into a more peaceful mindset in just five minutes. Today, we're exploring three simple ways to move from doing mode to being mode—a shift that can ease anxiety, sharpen your awareness, and bring more calm into your day. If you're feeling stuck in productivity overdrive, this quick reset is for you.   Links from the Episode! Learn how to eas...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 . Thanks for taking a moment to pause with me today. There's an energy in pity that creates distance—it places one person above another, even if unintentionally. It separates us, when what we often need most is connection and understanding. A consistent meditation practice helps us become more present, softening the urge to judge or label. With that awareness, we begin to se...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 . I'm glad you're here. Today, we're talking about how a simple shift in perspective can ease our suffering and anxiety. Often, it's not the events in our lives that cause distress, but how we view them. When we learn to step back and see things through a wider, more compassionate lens, we invite calm into our day, even during difficult moments. A gentle heads-up: this episo...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 , where we take just five minutes to help you feel more at ease in your day. Today, we're talking about something many of us do without even thinking—listening to podcasts, audiobooks, or even conversations at 2x speed . It might seem like a great way to get more done, but have you ever noticed how it actually makes you feel? Instead of helping you stay on top of things, it...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 , where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Today, we're turning our attention to someone who deserves more appreciation— your younger self. No matter what you've been through—joy, hardship, mistakes, or triumphs—every experience has shaped the person you are today. It's easy to look back with regret or judgment, but what if, instead, you offered gratitude? Gratit...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 , where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Today, we're exploring a topic that can have a surprising impact on our peace of mind— cleanliness. For some, a tidy space creates a sense of calm and control, while for others, a little mess is simply part of life. Cleanliness is often seen as a virtue, something that society praises as good and right—but does that make...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 , where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Today, we're talking about something that many of us have a complicated relationship with— crying. Whether it's seen as a sign of weakness, vulnerability, or even something to be ashamed of, society has a way of shaping how we feel about shedding tears. But what if we reframe it? What if crying isn't something to suppres...

Welcome to Calmer in 5 , where we make serenity simple—one thought at a time. Imagine yourself on a beach vacation, feeling the warmth of the sun, the gentle ocean breeze, and the ease of being fully present. Now, think about a typical workday, where the same sun shines above, yet stress and busyness seem to take center stage. The only real difference? Your thoughts. Today, we'll explore how retoo...

There are many days when you might wake up and simply slip into autopilot, not really questioning…anything. Not really looking at your life, not questioning where it's going or what's up ahead. Today I ask you a simple question, one that you may think you have the answer to. But before you say anything, I would encourage you to think a little deeper, looking at all the variables. Links from the Ep...

Feeling overwhelmed? Just one deep breath can bring you back to calm. In this episode of Calmer in 5 , we explore the science and simplicity of deep breathing and how it can instantly reduce stress. Thom Walters breaks down why mindful breathing works, how it affects your nervous system, and the easiest techniques you can use anytime, anywhere. Whether you're facing a hectic day or just need a res...

We all have ideas about what we should do, or have to do. We have ideas about careers, productivity, responsibilities, etc. But did you ever think that all those things you are supposed to do aren't real? They aren't. Most of the things you feel you need to do are thoughts created by you and/or society. And following those directives without thinking about whether or not they mean anything to you,...

Everything in our bodies and society tells us to avoid discomfort at all costs. But what if that advice isn't the best way to grow. Hint; it isn't. Today I share a great article by Diana Hill that talks about the benefits of leaning into discomfort; and she tells us 6 great ways to do that.   Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (...

At times life seems long, and at other times it seems almost fleeting. If we perceive our lives as ending someday, what do we want to accomplish, if anything, in that time? That very question can bring up a great deal of anxiety. So why don't we look t things from a different perspective; ask a different question. With this question answered and explored, we can become a bit (a lot) more peaceful....

At one time or another, we have all become fully entrenched in our own "stufff", our own lives. Some people exist fully on that level each day; no judgment. However, if we are to become calmer then one that will benefit us each day, is to connect with the world around us. To that end, I have created an unusual scavenger hunt that will yield incredible results. Wanna hear about it? Come listen. Lin...

it's human nture to see the world through our eyes; more to the point, through our biases, likes and values. But nature or not, it's not the most serving way to interact with the world. Especially when we try to impress our likes and views on others. Do you want the premise of today's episode? It's real easy; you know nothing. Neither do I. We have borrowed our beliefs from others, and society. To...

Some of the greatest pain we will feel comes from distancing ourselves from the world. Think about it. So many people spend their lives trying to belong, whether it is to one person or a group. To feel connected. What if I told you that you could feel happier, less alone, if you would only seek to find connection…but not with just one person, or someone you know, but with everyone. Today I talk ab...

How we see our life, creates our life. Meaning, if we see our lives as painful, sad and sorrowful, then that is how we will continue to live life. Conversely, and wonderfully, if we see life as full, loving and joyful, that too is what we will experience. So how do we know how we see the world? I have an exercise that helps with that very thing. Come listen. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ea...

We all have an inner dialog; a worrisome voice that points out things to be afraid of, things to feel bad about. For some people it is just a whisper, almost silent. FOr others, many others, it is booming. Today CI5 is CI20, as I talk about ways to turn down the volume of that nasty voice. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule time with Thom (Fre...

There are many days when you might wake up and simply slip into autopilot, not really questioning…anything. Not really looking at your life, not questioning where it's going or what's up ahead. Today I ask you a simple question, one that you may think you have the answer to. But before you say anything, I would encourage you to think a little deeper, looking at all the variables. Links from the Ep...

Maybe it's just me, but I'm thinking many people crave silence, or at least enjoy it. I mean why would so many people like going to the beach or the woods to relax? Wherever you find silence, it's safe to say that you find it, and not the other way around. Sure there are quieter places than others in the world, but for the most part the planet can get pretty noisy. Today I talk about the importanc...

Worthiness is not based on anything you will do. Is that a common belief? Not by a long shot. Society tells us there are many things we need to do to be considered worthy. But you know what I say, you are the one that defines you and everything about you. Such is the case of worthiness. Let's talk about it. Links from the Episode: Learn how to ease the pain of anxiety with meditation -  Schedule t...