Calls with your Kinky Bestie

10 brave kinksters (over on Instagram) shared the reasons they’re feeling stuck with kinky dating: “What if my kinks are too strange?” “It’s hard to find kinky partners where I live” “I can’t find a safe space to talk to others about my kinks.” Even plain old FEAR! I hope this episode alone helps you to get un-stuck and make some simple mindset shifts, tweak your approach, or even just inspires yo...

In this spicy episode, we're diving into the wild world of being a kink mentor with ADHD in the entrepreneurial game. We will be talking about rejection sensitivity, adapting to kink taboos, and the wild ride of running a business as an ADHD person. We spill the tea on setting up systems, handling rejection like a boss, and the unexpected challenges of bringing kink to the business forefront....

In this intimate episode of "Calls with Your Kinky Bestie," meet my Dom and listen in on our candid conversation about our journey into kink and love. From discussing how we met on a vanilla dating app to exploring the dynamics of dominance and submission, this episode dives deep into the complexities of building a kinky relationship from scratch. Get ready for laughs, insights, and some major lov...

Diving into a topic close to my heart: collars, ADHD, and sensory sensitivities. As someone navigating the kink community with ADHD, I'm here to share my experiences and insights on how sensory sensitivities have shaped my relationship with collars and other kink accessories. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just starting out, this episode offers a relatable perspective on finding your place...

🚨 Win 1 month of FREE Kink Mentorship! Contest ends 1/31/24, apply here: ⁠Kinkybestie.com/links Let's talk about shame ONTOP of your self-discovery as a neurodivergent kinkster. How to navigate existing in the "in-between" of 2 communities, and setting boundaries around kink-shaming comments when part of your circle just doesn't get it. Further listening for this episode: https://podcasters.spoti...

🚨 Win 1 month of FREE Kink Mentorship! Contest ends 1/31/24, apply here: Kinkybestie.com/links It's about time we talked about "Fake Doms", so here's what to expect in this episode: 💖 The good intentions of this term, why it's used and what it means. 💖 How using this term can be problematic, and even harmful/confusing. (Especially for those in the neurodivergent sector of...

Bestie, this is your year. Your year to be the kinkiest you that you want, to feel comfortable in your desires and your needs, and to be loved and accepted for ALL that means. Signup for the bestie buzz newsletter to join me in this outrageous endeavor: https://kinkybestie.ck.page/7491672830 Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://...

Happy holidays, besties! 🎄🎁 This Christmas, I've got a special gift for you - the second part of our dive into the reasons you don't feel kinky enough. Ever wondered why those desires seem distant? Well, today, I'm your kinky Santa Claus, revealing my ENTIRE personal process to create my dream kinky life. In this episode, we'll unpack the philosophy of "use a bridge, not boo...

OMG Bestie, HI! Here's what you can expect from today's episode: ✨ The 2 most common reasons you don't feel "kinky enough". If you're like me you may even relate to both at different parts of your kink journey. ✨ Validation that you ARE kinky enough, DUH! ✨ How the f**k to stop feeling like this, and live your dream kinky life instead. Signup for the course before Dece...

The tea has been SPLIT! I share about my personal kink journey, from the innocent days of literotica exploration to fetlife, internalized religious shame, and where I stand now as a kinkster. This episode is a rollercoaster of self-discovery rollercoaster 🎢, offering insights, cautionary tales, and a whole lot of encouragement for those on their own kink journey. Get ready for a candid chat that...

Today we're chatting about sleep and how the fuck to sleep with ADHD when your favorite kinky activities take place in the same room. From separating your sleep sanctuary to managing sex toys and creating a plush bedtime haven (fit with smart devices to boot), we're unraveling the secrets to blissful sleep with ADHD in the mix. Discover why a dedicated sleep space is your ticket to dreamla...

As a mentor for submissives with ADHD, this is a question I get asked a lot. Today I'm answering this once and for all! I'm also celebrating Spotify wrapped season with a special limited time giveaway of my not-even-out-yet upcoming course (which includes private 1:1 mentorship with me!) Get in touch on Instagram @kinkybestie, or email me your listenership or review screenshot emma@kinkybe...

Hey there, my kinky besties! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of service submission, with a twist for those who might be dealing with ADHD or consistency challenges. I'm here to help you eliminate, automate, systemize, batch, and delegate tasks, both in your personal life and your service submission journey. Whether you're taking off your Dom's shoes or exploring the wonder...

Hey, fabulous folks! Today, we're delving into a topic close to my heart – cultivating an abundance mindset in the world of kink. I've been there, stuck in that place of scarcity, fearing that there just aren't enough options for me in the kinky dating pool. But through my journey, I've learned to shift my beliefs and embrace the idea that there are countless compatible partners ou...

Hey besties! 🎧 In this episode, we're delving deep into the world of kink community. We'll chat about how to find your kink community, why some of us tend to avoid it, and how to conquer those avoidance fears. It's a shorter episode packed with actionable tips and a mindset shift approach. We'll explore finding kink communities online, addressing fears around privacy, safety, and...

🌟 Ready to turn your kink fantasies into reality? 🌟 This podcast episode is full of high-level actions to plan and take to transform your life into your dream kinky fantasy. This episode covers: 🔥 Embracing your kinkiest desires with unapologetic enthusiasm. 🔥 Cultivating a proactive mindset by mapping out actions for your desires. 🔥 Releasing perfection and overthinking by focusing on the pu...

🌟 Ever wondered how kink mentorship can change your life? 🌟 Get your questions answered as we dive deep into this episode: 🔥 What is kink mentorship all about, and what benefits can kink mentorship bring to your life? 🔥 How do you know if it's the right path for you? 🔥 How does mentorship offer tailored support in a niche community? Join the conversation and book me as your very own kink...

Hello hello!! Yeah yeah, I'm talking about rejection AGAIN. Because let's be real: this is one of the biggest challenges for kinky ADHDers while dating. We know from the episode "Soothing Dating Rejection with RSD for ADHDers" that rejection hits neurodivergent folks especially hard, but let's talk about why it also seems to happen so fast (for us). And then, what we can lear...

Hello hello!! Today I unload a tale as old as time. Have you caught yourself thinking or saying things like: "I'm stuck with long-distance relationships because the kink community in my area is non-existent" "I would need to move to a partner or have a partner move to me to have the BDSM relationship I want" "There is a kink community near me, but I wouldn't date a...

A melatonin-fueled rant on how to talk about kink on your dating profile + my most recent hack for how to plan as an impulsive person. Because goodness knows as an ADHDer I'm GREAT at anything I decide to do (I have seriously excellent planning skills when I sit down to do it), it's just the actually planning time to create systems and prevent crisis that I struggle with... day 2 of my sel...

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Hey bestie. Thanks for hanging in there this week when my IG reel actually...reached people?? It was a gift and a lesson as the reel reached folks who let's just say... aren't really into my topics of kink or ADHD and I got to practice my skills in boundary enforcing. But it really got me thinking about alternatives to the 'gram! So poll's live, tell me where you think I should go....

Hello hello!! Many people are surprised to learn that I met my dom on a vanilla dating app, and that he was actually vanilla at the time! This is a mini chronicle of our first few dates, getting together, introducing kink, and how this all correlated with my living space. To learn more about and get yourself a spot in the Bagua for BDSM program, check it out at kinkybestie.com/bagua4bdsm Thanks so...

Hello hello!! A totally new style of episode today where I share lovely life updates! Not much kink stuff to see here - but if you're curious for a peek behind the scenes of my life and my business this is a really fun one to tune into. The brand new Bagua for BDSM program can be found here: Kinkybestie.com/bagua4bdsm Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you...

Hello hello!! The part of dating noone likes to talk about (or feel)... rejection. In this episode I share how I manage and minimize the pain of being rejected as an ADHDer with rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD). I also talk about my experience with RSD, and how it's impacted areas of my life outside of dating, too! Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content y...