Calls with your Kinky Bestie

Hey Besties! As we kick off 2025, it's a weird and dystopian vibe here with recent events in the states, and I get it—it's uncomfortable and chaotic. But here's what I'm here to remind you: you are in control of your own life. Despite the distractions and chaos, you have the power to create the life you want. In this episode, I'm sharing some clips from my workshop "Your K...

In this episode (the first of 2025 🥳) I'm sharing 3 practical ways to call in support and make creating your kinky dream life SO much easier. 📢📅 Grab your invite to "Your Kinkiest Year Ever" here: ⁠⁠https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever/⁠⁠ 🏷️ Goal Setting, Supportive Systems, Kinky Community, Personal Development, New Year, Vision, Self-Improvement, Live Planning Event, Action Plans,...

Hey Besties! Welcome to the final 2024 episode of Calls with Your Kinky Bestie. Despite my sniffly voice, I'm here to guide you through a year-end reflection process that's perfect for the neurodivergent mind. We'll explore how to recognize personal growth, embrace lessons, and celebrate milestones from the past year. Whether you're using your camera roll, journals, or even text messages, I'll sha...

Hey Besties! I'm back, and I've missed you so much! Life's been a whirlwind with moving, adjusting to new schedules, and sharing my space with my Dom. But I'm here, and diving deep into the uncomfortable but critical: rejection in the kink journey. This episode is all about understanding and overcoming the fear of rejection, whether it's internally, from the vanilla world, and even within the kink...

Hey Besties! I have some exciting news to share and we're doing a collective vision check-in. Let's get real about our goals and what we truly want because that's how we make it happen! ✨ Want some personalized support?  Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already,  join the Bestie Squad  so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Vision, Goal Setting...

Hey Besties! Today we're diving into a phenomenon that almost every sub experiences—attracting other subs instead of doms. Why does this happen? How can you change it? Or even make it work for you? Whether you're just starting out or have been at it for years, I'm breaking it all down for you. ✨ Want to break the sub-to-sub cycle? Learn how to flex your subby muscles and maintain your...

This episode is a must-listen if you're single and ready to attract a kinky partnership. Emma dives deep into a surprising yet effective strategy: befriending couples. Discover how integrating couples into your social circle can shift your mindset and help you attract the relationship you desire. Emma also explores the pitfalls of only hanging out with single friends and how it might be holdin...

In this video episode, we're diving deep into how participating in kink can dramatically improve your quality of life. We'll chat about how your ancient lizard brain might actually be keeping you from your people. Plus the benefits of embracing your kink, including boosting your self-esteem, self-image, and overall happiness. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, this episod...

Hey, besties! In this episode, we're diving into the world of swinging and swing clubs. My Dom and I are about to renew our membership at our local swing club, so it's the perfect time to discuss this unique community. We'll explore the differences between swing clubs and BDSM spaces, what to expect, and how to decide if this is the right scene for you. Whether you're into exhibiti...

This episode dives deep into the world of taboo kinks and survivorship guilt within the kink community. We explore the misunderstandings, guilt, and shame that can arise from participating in kinks like age play, race play, and more. I share my personal experiences and offer guidance on how to navigate these challenges, heal yourself, and find supportive spaces. Whether you're dealing with jud...

Welcome back, besties! In this episode, I spill all the tea on my own BDSM dynamic with my Daddy Dom. A real-life look at how we manage vanilla life, our power exchange details, different sleep schedules, and boundaries with friends and family. This episode is packed with insights, personal stories, and a whole lot of tea on BDSM dynamics! ✨ Want some personalized support?  Get Vetted for 1:1 Kin...

It's time we went there. What it is (if you have no clue what I'm talking about), how to strengthen your vetting muscles, and take some friggin pressure off yourself! ✨ Want some personal mentorship? Get Vetted to get started! Https://KinkyBestie.com/vetting

If manifesting hasn't "clicked" for you yet, or you're just more of a literal thinker, this is the episode for you! Because OMG there is so much we can learn from social media about creating the life we want, and hacking this algorithm isn't nearly as hard as you'd think. ✨ Latest free resource> ⁠Reviewing my entire Toybox⁠ And if you're not already, ⁠join the Bes...

Here's even more permission to make your dynamic (and lifestyle) your own! I share tons of ways myself and my partner accommodate for my brain within our dynamic and playtime and how to start creating your own. ✨ New free resource> Reviewing my entire Toybox And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! ☎️ Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorsh...

If you're all too familiar with the disappearing act, this is the episode for you. The sooner you understand it you can avoid getting into these situations, and find some lovely kinky matches who are in it for the long haul. Relevant Episode Mentioned: Episode 8: "4 Ways to Meet Kinksters IRL" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Some reasons why kink events might be right for you, a simple way to gauge whether or not you should go to an event, and why I haven't been attending kink events lately as a mentor in the community 😲 Relevant Episode Mentioned: Ep 22 "Finding Community in Kink: Overcoming Fears & Embracing the Kink Community" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Let's talk about what happens when serving and sacrificing within a BDSM dynamic can tip-toe into sabotage. How to identify it, what to do about it, and how to find these boundaries for yourself to be the best hecking sub you can be (by taking care of yourself first and foremost). 🔮 Grab your limited time kinky oracle reading Free resources mentioned: 💖 Kink Shame Healing oracle reading 🧰 T...

SOOO let's talk about the less obvious ways that kink-shaming is 100% affecting your life as a kinkster and what we can actually do about it. I'll also share with you how to flip the script to own and accept your desires + an AMAZING free resource I've made for you to continue your healing journey. ✨ Free Kink Shame Healing Oracle Reading Work with Emma: Private Kinky Oracle Reading 1...

From the practicality of protecting your identity to the powerful manifestation tool they can become, I share my personal journey of choosing my scene name and how it has impacted my kink journey and beyond. Whether you're considering adopting a scene name or curious about their significance within the community, my insights and tips will leave you inspired and empowered to explore your own kinky...

Time to dive into the world of dating through the lens of neurodivergence kink mentor. As someone with ADHD and a unique perspective on social interactions, I share my personal experiences and insights on navigating the dating scene when processing things takes a little longer. Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or simply curious about different approaches to dating, join me as I offer tips, a...

Dive into the energetics of manifesting your ideal dominant partner with Emma, your kinky bestie and seasoned kink mentor. In this episode, Emma shares her personal manifestation journey, offering insights, mindset shifts, and practical steps to help you attract your dream dominant. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, Emma's stories and strategies will inspire and empower you o...

Ready for some quick and easy hacks to make your deepest desires a normal, everyday part of your life? In this bite-sized episode, I tackle the self-sabotage and resistance that may be keeping your kinkiest goals at arm's length. I spill my two favorite tricks: first, surround yourself with people living your dream; second, adopt my go-to affirmation – "This is my life now!" 🎙️✨ Nor...

Lets talk about turning those desires into tangible goals. Ever wondered why verbalizing your desires is such a game-changer? In this episode, I unravel the power of clarity that comes with putting your intentions into words. Whether it's journaling, updating your dating profile, or casually sharing with friends, the act of verbalizing is like casting a spell of clarity into your world. But wa...

In this episode, we're delving into the fascinating world of kinky desires and why it's crucial to not only acknowledge them but also take bold steps towards making them a reality. From the origin of desires as divine guidance to the ripple effect they can have on your life and the larger kink community, we're uncovering the layers of importance. Using my own journey in starting a kink...

Welcome back to the second part of the Kinky Dating Q+A series! In this one I respond to 5 reasons kinksters gave about feeling stuck in their kinky dating journey. These q’s were a bit more loaded so I could only fit in half the amount of answers here, but each answer is still under 3 minutes so still super practical/simple shifts. So whether you’re navigating the challenges of dating apps, manag...