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“Estás muy flaca.” “Te ves más gordita.” “¿Y el novio?” 😭💀 Growing up Latino means hearing opinions about EVERYTHING — especially yourself. In this episode of Callate, Let Me Finish! we talk about the insecurities we carried growing up and how we’re learning to choose self love and acceptance in our 30s. ✨ Healing, laughing, and unlearning one cafecito at a time. ☕🤍

In this week’s episode “Abue, Dime La Verdad,” we sit down with abuela for a real and emotional conversation about her childhood, the struggles she faced growing up, and what it was like becoming a young mom. ❤️ From funny memories to hard truths, she opens up about the experiences that shaped her into the woman and mother she became. A heartfelt episode filled with love, laughter, and generationa...

In this episode of Callate Let Me Finish, we’re talking about the heavy question so many of us struggle with: Do I have to forgive you? We open up about holding on to rencor, carrying anger for years, and the emotional battle between protecting your peace or letting someone back in. Can you truly love someone while still feeling hurt by them? Is forgiveness necessary for healing… or is it okay to...

Growing up fast isn’t something you choose… it’s something life chooses for you. This episode is personal. We’re talking about what it really looks like when your childhood is shaped by your parents’ struggles with addiction—the responsibilities, the silence, the strength you had to find way too early. Brenda is under the weather this week, but I’m not alone… I’ve got a special (and handsome ) gue...

This week on Cállate , we’re catching up on everything, from your reactions to our Tóxico episode to the highs (and lows) of our recent vacations. We also get real about the struggle of car maintenance and the everyday chaos that comes with it. It’s a mix of laughs, relatable moments, and honest conversations you won’t want to miss.

In this episode, we finally sit down with one of the most toxic men in Georgia and ask him  everything  we’ve always wanted to know. No filter, just straight chisme, laughs, and some very uncomfortable truths. We get into relationships, red flags, cheating, why men do what they do, and we put him on the hot seat with real-life scenarios to see how toxic he  really  is. If you’ve ever said “men mak...

En este episodio de Callate Let Me Finish, nos ponemos a prueba con “¿Quién es más probable?” Prepárense para conocernos un poquito más mientras contestamos las preguntas que sacan toda la verdad, el chisme y el desmadre. ¿Quién es más probable que empiece el drama? ¿Quién es la más impulsiva? ¿Y quién definitivamente es la más desmadrosa? Entre risas, confesiones y uno que otro trapito al sol, es...

We’re trying something new 👀✨ Brand new segment on Callate y Confiesa : You send the tea ☕️ y we break it down — ¿lo dices o mejor calladit@ te ves más cute? 🤐🔥 This one’s about real life choices… no pressure 😭 Hosted by: Brenda Benitez & Reyna Calvo Produced by: Brenda Benitez & Reyna Calvo Edited by: Reyna Calvo Cover art: Reyna Calvo Music: Rommie Brown

In this episode of Callate Let Me Finish, we’re celebrating Galentine’s the right way with laughs, truth bombs, and a little dating drama. We’re talking about friendships that feel like soulmates, the red flags we used to ignore (never again 🙃), and the ones we spot from a mile away now. And yes… Brenda is giving us the closure update on her dating story. The tea is hot, but the growth? Even hott...

In this episode of Callate, Let Me Finish , your favorite chismosas — two Latina moms who have opinions — are sitting down with our friend Mikey from Mikey’s Mobile Bar 🍸✨ We’re talking all things drinks, the hustle behind running a mobile bar, what it really takes to build your own business, and of course… the tea. From favorite cocktails to behind-the-scenes party stories, nothing is off limit...

En este episodio especial de Pa’ las Tías, Brenda no pudo acompañarnos, mándenle mucho amor y buenas vibras mientras regresa con nosotros pronto.  Pero no se preocupen porque llegó una invitada sorpresa muy especial… ¡mi mamá! Sí, se nos puso totalmente familiar el episodio. Nos sentamos a platicar en español sobre su historia, su trasfondo, recuerdos, lecciones de vida y esas verdades que solo la...

Why did everything feel so intense back then?!  In this episode, we’re talking about the moments we truly believed were the end of the world! Friend breakups, messy heartbreaks, and getting caught up in things we definitely shouldn’t have been doing. Through all the laughs and stories, we realize how much we’ve grown and how those moments shaped us into who we are today. If you’ve ever been dramat...

Mamas con Chamba is back and we are TIRED but grateful  In this episode, we rant (with love) about juggling work, home life, and these kids that run our whole world and even though we complain… we wouldn’t trade this life for anything.  PLUS, we’re introducing a brand new segment: “Como Prometido” where we finally put Brenda on the spot and rate her flirting skills  (yes, it gets interesting). Gra...

WE SURVIVED 2025… BARELY  In this episode of Callate Let Me Finish, we get real about the struggles, lessons, plot twists, and growth that got us through last year. From hard moments to unexpected wins — nothing is off limits. PLUS… a secret, unexpected guest pulls up  You don’t wanna miss this one.  Tap in, laugh with us, heal with us, and let’s set the tone for this new year together.  Available...

Las holidays no siempre son cute reels y matching pajamas and we’re talking about TODO. In this episode of Callate Let Me Finish, we get real about the chaos, the laughs, y el trauma that somehow ALWAYS shows up around Christmas. From Brenda’s traumatic Christmas Eve story  to why las mamás are literally the Christmas magic (aunque estén cansadas, estresadas, y running on cafecito), we break it al...

We’re spicing things up this week!  In this episode, we dive into Latina love languages. How we show love, how we want it back, and why sometimes “ya comiste?” hits harder than “I love you.”  Join us as we take a fun quiz to find out our own amor styles and unpack what love looks like con sazón!  Tune in for laughs, a little self-reflection, and a whole lot of cariño.  Let us know your Latina love...

Callate! it’s cursed!  This episode is bringing the spooky vibes! We’re diving into mal de ojo, limpias, and the wildest scary stories your tía would warn you about. Plus, we play a hilariously twisted game of Would You Rather, and trust us… it gets cursed. Are you brave enough to listen?  #Spanglish #MalDeOjo #Limpias #ScaryStories #CursedAF #CallatePodcast Hosted by : Brenda Benitez & Reyna...

Adulting? Más bien surviving, bro  En este episodio de Callate Let Me Finish hablamos del biggest scam ever: crecer. Nos dijeron que ser adults era freedom, independence, y poder comer cereal pa’ cenar… pero nadie nos avisó de los bills que no paran, la ansiedad que te da randomly, y la eterna pregunta: ¿qué voy a cocinar hoy?  Brenda y Reyna se sientan a chismear sobre las cosas que nadie nos dij...

Okay pero… who else remembers waiting all week for Sábado Gigante, watching El Chavo del 8 reruns, and then switching to Lizzie McGuire like it was nothing?  This week we’re taking it way back to the 90s and early 2000s , when we had our flip phones, burned CDs with Usher and RBD, and thought Phat Farms were peak fashion . Grab your Takis, put on your lip gloss (the roll-on one obvis ), and join u...

En este episodio de Querido Septiembre  , nos ponemos real sobre lo que pasa después de una pérdida. Porque el grief no tiene deadline, no hay “move on” rápido, y cada quien carga su duelo a su manera. Hablamos de esos días donde una canción, un smell, o hasta un memory te rompe el corazón otra vez… pero también de cómo el amor nunca se va. Entre cafecito, lágrimas y risas, recordamos que aunque l...

En este episodio de Amor in our 30s nos fuimos full chisme mode: los red flags que te hacen decir “girl, RUN”, los green flags que sí valen la pena, y todo lo messy in between.  Obvio hablamos del dating scene being a single mom, porque entre babysitters, DM deslizados, y “¿vale la pena este date o mejor me duermo temprano?”, hay MUCHO tea que soltar. Prepárate pa’ reír, pa’ decir “sameeee”, y pa’...

En este episodio nos ponemos real, raw, y un poquito ridículas. We’re talking about sexo (yes, ese tema ), how anxiety sometimes sneaks into la cama, and those little moments of sadness we don’t always talk about. Expect laughs, chisme, y mucha Spanglish therapy vibes. Porque si no nos reímos de todo este desmadre… pues, ¿qué hacemos?   Hit play to join our conversation, share your thoughts in the...

Episode 3 ya llegó! Welcome to Cultura Shock  Growing up Mexican en los States always hit different — from los apodos (nicknames) nobody could explain, to tradiciones que had all our American friends like  “wait, what?!” In this episodio, we’re spilling el chisme about our biggest cultura shocks y cómo nos marcaron growing up.  Get ready to laugh, cringe, y maybe hasta ponerte un poquito sentiment...

In this episodio, we get personal about our upbringing, cultura, and the stories that shaped us into the madres we are today. From the funny to the heartfelt, we’re sharing how we were raised, our first steps into motherhood, and how (let’s be honest) we’re all just winging it day by day.  This conversation is extra special to us, and we can’t wait to share it with all of our mama friends who are...

Episode 1 : How the Hell Did We Get Here? Two besties, one mic, zero chill.  In our first episodio, we talk about how the hell we even got here, nuestra amistad, and all the laughs in between. Hosted by: Brenda Benitez & Reyna Calvo Produced by: Brenda Benitez, & Reyna Calvo Edited by: E. Dutton, Brenda Benitez, & Reyna Calvo Cover art by: Reyna Calvo Music by: Caslo