CADA Matters

Clara Alexander of Clara Alexander TV joins Gracilis to discuss this topic examining dating , safe dating, dating after abuse and dating in a way that ensures you are not being abused

Gracilis continues this talk and is once again  joined by Dr Abimbola Oyedokun ,a mental health psychiatrist to discuss how Child Sexual abuse can affect our lives and the need to face the past in order totruly livein the present . This talk is filled with practical wisdom for adults who have undergone  sevual  abuse  as a child

Gracilis is joined by Dr Abimbola Oyedokun ,a mental health psychiatrist to discuss how Child Sexual abuse can affect our lives and the need to face the past in order totruly livein the present . This talk is filled with practical wisdom for adults who have undergone  sevual  abuse  as a child 

We continue our series on Elder Abuse as we look into this subtle form of abuse .It  is another form of abuse that can take place in our homes and something we must all be aware of , whetehr we are parents or have eldderly parents. We want to live long and enjoy the period of old age . Learn from this episode about Elder abuse

Elder Abuse is another form of abuse that can take place in our homes and something we must all be aware of , whetehr we are parents or have eldderly parents. We want to live long and enjoy the period of old age . Learn from this episode about Elder abuse .

Gracilis is joined today by a solicitor, Leslie Charles  who looks at what the Law states in  regards to the family, helping us to understand what we can and cannot use  amidst several other questions 

Here at CADA Matters, we make it out business to enlighten,educate ,&encourage healthy relationships. Most times,domestic abuse could play out in some forms that might make it difficult to identify .Join Gracilis in this episode as she sheds some light to help us recognize various  forms in which domestic abuse may occur .

Research has shown that people who are abused also have abuse done to their pets and for some of them, leaving is not an option as they do not want to leave their pets with their abusers, Moreso most  domestic abuse shelters do not cater for pets. Understanding animal abuse and the implications is what this episode is about 

Graciis continues the discussion on Stalking with Himo , giving attention to how to respond and where to get help 

Stalking is another technoque that abusers also use and in this episode. Graciilis begins the discussion on what Staking is, recognizing it and lots more

The need to look good is something we all share. Sometimes this need can be used by abusers and body shaming is another tactic that can dage our self worth . Gracilis is joined by Margaret Ayeni who is a specialist Public health nurse practitioner and has a passion for healthy living. She also works in the Juice Plus company helping to promote organic health supplements through inspiring healthy l...

Gracilis answers s, ome pratical questions on Male  victims of domestic abuse, Medical Gaslighting, Emotional Safety Planning  and Spiritual abuse .

Gracilis discusses Child Sexual Abuse  with Lucian Osauwagboe,looking at the risk factors,prevention, what to do with a disclosure as well as the issue of forgiveness when it comes to Child Sexual Abuse. 

Female Genital Mutilation is another form of abuse that is culturally encouraged .Our guest discusses  the practice and the evils associated with it .

Most times people remain in abusive relationships as they have developed an attachment with the perpetrarors of abuse . Understanding this phenomenon of Trauma Bonding can help us respond correctly.

Gracilis continues to teach on Gaslighting , another tactic abusers employ. Gaslighting can occur in other relationships, our work places or even in the hospitals /healthcare facilities. This episode discusses another form of Gasligting that also occurs.-Medical Gaslighting- the kind of Gaslighting that occurs with a doctor or healthcare practitioner. .Don;t forget to leave your comments below&nbs...

When it comes to Domestic abuse, there is a lot that the Police can do . You can even contact the Police discreetly when in a dangerous situation . Do you know you can aslso check a potential partner to see if they have a record of abuse? Join Gracilis &Sergeant Michelle Enu- Ugwueze from Birmingham discuss this important topic 

It is dangerous to underestimate the enemy &sometimes domestic abuse thrives because of misconceptions .Gracilis joins Sandy from CAHN ,Manchester to discuss some of the common myths held about Domestic abuse 

The holiday season is sadly another time a lot of abusers use to exert power and control and make their victims feel bad/left out. From not adhering to the arranged holiday arrangement to not returning the children after a pick-up, the season could become very stressful. In this episode, we discuss how best to navigate the waters without allowing anyone steal our joy and peace 

Gratitude is a command .It is not if we feel like or when it is convenient .It can be learnt and it goes a long way .This episode with Remi  Obasohan is sure to set you on the path of gratitude.

We are also about building healthy relationships and in this episode, Himo Sonny=Joe (MC Nightingale) joins Gracilis to discuss on a relationship enhancer- Gratitude . It does color our relationships and if practised , it can become a lifestyle enriching us and our world 

Rastor Olusegun Akinkugbe, resident Pastorof City of God Glasgow joins Gracilis to look at the matter of Domestic abuse and the role of a Pastor. 

November 25th is the International Day for Elimination of Violence Against Women and in this episode, Gracilis discusses with GBV activist who is also a pastor;s wife, Leah Umueokeke to mark the day 

We celebrate the International Men's  Day this year in a very vibtrant, entertaining and enlightening  discussion  discussing "Celebrating Manhood" with Chiedu Uraih 

Conflicts are a vital part of relationships and a healthy relationship  is one where those involved know howto navigate conflicts, understanding the principles, patterns of conflict resoution is what this episodeis about .