By Chance Avenue

Elizabeth shares a transformative reflection inspired by a Dalai Lama quote emphasizing the importance of living in the present. She delves into personal experiences of grief, unexpected life chapters, and the journey of becoming and unbecoming. Elizabeth invites listeners to honor their past, gently release what's holding them back, and find joy in the simplicity of today. This episode serves as...

In this powerful and deeply moving episode, host Elizabeth Tiglao Guss sits down with lawyer and Hawaii resident Caroline Elliot to talk about letting go of the dream of motherhood, rebuilding life after grief, and choosing to live with intention. Caroline shares the emotional journey behind her decision to close the chapter on having children, leave her North Carolina home, and boldly move to Hon...

Elizabeth opens up about her lifelong struggle with self-worth and the deep belief that she’s not enough, a belief rooted in childhood and compounded by years of infertility. Through reflection and a simple meditation that repeats the words “you are enough,” she shares how she’s beginning to rewrite that story with compassion and tenderness. This episode is an invitation to anyone carrying silent...

In this episode, Elizabeth shares how tapping meditation (EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique) has helped her reconnect with herself and regulate her nervous system during difficult seasons of life, including infertility and burnout. She walks you through a gentle, guided tapping session specifically created for women who are childless not by choice, offering space to acknowledge grief, soften into...

In this episode, Elizabeth invites you into a gentler rhythm of summer, one that’s not defined by packed calendars, family vacations, or Instagram-worthy plans. Instead, she explores what it means to reclaim summer as a childless woman and lean into a slower, more intentional pace. From backyard mornings to feel-good K-dramas (need to know a good one? Send Elizabeth a DM and she'll give you recs!)...

In this episode, Elizabeth sits down with her husband, Victor, for a raw and vulnerable conversation on Father’s Day. This is a day that carries quiet complexity for those navigating life without children and inside this episode, what starts as a casual check-in turns into a heartfelt exchange about grief, identity, societal pressure, and the silent ways men often carry loss. Victor opens up about...

In this heartfelt solo episode of By Chance , Elizabeth opens up about the tender reality of being in an emotional in-between space. She had a different topic planned—but instead, she chose to show up exactly as she is. No sugarcoating. No pretending. Just real talk about the loneliness, the inner questioning, and the quiet doubts that surface in the messy middle of life. If you’ve been feeling a...

In today's episode, Elizabeth shares a powerful reflection that surfaced during a recent tapping meditation. As she continues to embrace the transitions of midlife and the complexities of a child-free path, she opens up about the subtle yet profound fears many may carry—ones that often go unspoken. From the fear of being alone to wondering about legacy, invisibility, and connection, Elizabeth give...

Elizabeth's husband Victor joins her behind the mic in this episode to share highlights from their recent cruise through the beautiful Croatia! From the stunning Adriatic coastline to meaningful conversations with new friends, this episode is a heartfelt reflection and reminder of what it means to explore the world as a childless couple, the immense and healing joy of intentional travel, and the u...

In this episode, Elizabeth shares how she is navigating life after the hard parts—the grief, the waiting, the heaviness. She opens up about the subtle, messy, and deeply personal process of moving forward, not through radical reinvention, but by embracing curiosity, rest, joy, and simplicity. Elizabeth offers a gentle, encouraging reminder that healing doesn't have to be linear, and the next chapt...

In part two of this powerful virtual fireside chat, Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss welcomes back a heartfelt conversation with an inspiring panel of women navigating the complexities of May—especially around Mother’s Day. With honesty and grace, they explore the many emotions that come with infertility, loss, and living a childless life. Together, they share rituals, creative practices, and wisdom about ho...

In this special live fireside chat, Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss hosts a raw, heartfelt conversation with three remarkable women—Kathleen Guthrie Woods, Carrie, and Sam—as they explore life without children and the unique grief, healing, and freedom that accompany this journey. Set intentionally around Mother's Day and Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode offers deep validation, honest storytellin...

In this deeply personal and heartfelt episode, Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss continues the conversation around National Infertility Awareness Week by sharing her own untold story. She speaks directly to those whose journeys didn’t end with a miracle baby, shedding light on the physical, emotional, and mental toll of infertility treatments and the often invisible aftermath. Elizabeth offers powerful remind...

In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss sits down with her longtime friend Jenny Tsa for a deeply personal dialogue on infertility, identity, and cultural expectations. Jenny opens up for the first time about her journey through career-driven stress, shifting family plans, and how she came to peace with a life without children. Together, they explore how honoring yo...

In this episode, Elizabeth shares a message from the heart—recorded on a day she didn’t feel like showing up, but did anyway. It’s a powerful reminder that you don’t have to be perfectly inspired or put together to be worthy of showing up for yourself. Whether you’re moving through grief, menopause, fatigue, or emotional healing, this episode gives you permission —to rest, to feel, to slow down, t...

In this deeply moving episode, Elizabeth sits down with fertility care practitioner and founder of Woven Natural Fertility Care , Caitlin Estes With a master of divinity and years of experience supporting women, Caitlin shares her heartfelt approach to understanding and honoring a woman’s cycle—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. This conversation touches on infertility, grief, hormonal imba...

In today's episode, we dive into an important topic many childless women face: how to handle well-meaning but hurtful comments about not having children. From classic lines like “Don’t worry, it’ll happen” to “Who will take care of you when you’re old?” , these remarks—though often made with good intentions—can still sting deeply. I share my personal perspective on how to respond with grace, compa...

In this uplifting and soul-nourishing episode, I sit down with my dear friend Wendy Herra, host of the Say Yes to Yourself podcast and owner of the stunning Phineas Wright House —a historic bed and breakfast and flower farm in New England. Wendy shares her powerful journey of transformation—from years of waiting to become a mother, to adopting her daughter from China, and eventually choosing to li...

In this episode, I chat with Lana Manikowski, a certified life coach, author, and advocate for women navigating life after infertility. After undergoing seven years of fertility treatments and ultimately choosing to embrace a childless life, Lana now helps others find healing, purpose, and fulfillment beyond motherhood. Her upcoming book, "So, Now What?", launching on April 2nd, offers guidance an...

In this episode, I’m diving into a question I get asked often—what does it really mean to live a full life without children? I reflect on how my vision of fulfillment has evolved from childhood dreams of family road trips to embracing a different, unexpected path. Living fully isn’t about following a traditional narrative; it’s about redefining joy, building deep connections, creating legacy in ou...

In this episode, I dive into the power of rewriting your inner narrative around childlessness. So much of our journey isn’t just about what happened to us—it’s about the story we tell ourselves about it. When grief, frustration, and self-doubt take over, we often blame ourselves, believing we should have done more or that we don’t deserve joy. But here’s the truth: the way we talk to ourselves sha...

In this episode, I open up about the quiet moments of grief that sometimes surface, even after making peace with a childless life. While I’m truly content and grateful for the life I’ve built, there are still unexpected reminders—like a passing conversation or a baby shower—that bring a little ache for the path not taken. You'll hear: How grief can still appear, even after finding peace with being...

In this episode, I sit down with my husband, Victor, to share all about our recent trip to the Maldives! Traveling has been such a powerful part of our journey—not just as individuals, but as a couple. It’s been a way for us to heal, grow, and embrace adventure, even when life doesn’t look the way we once imagined. And let’s be honest, reliving our travel experiences is just fun! From swimming alo...

In this episode, I sit down with Samantha as she bravely shares her journey through miscarriage, infertility, and chronic illness. We dive into the emotional and physical toll of grief, the importance of self-advocacy in medical care, and how she’s navigating healing through therapy, writing, and support from loved ones. Samantha’s story is a powerful reminder that we are not alone in our struggle...

In this powerful two-part conversation, I sit down with Lauralyn Kearney as she courageously shares her infertility journey, particularly her experience with one of the leading causes of male infertility. Her story sheds light on the challenges of navigating the medical system, the importance of advocating for yourself, and the deep emotional impact of infertility. Beyond her personal story, Laura...