But How's The Sex

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Mady Maio , as we debate the sex lives of characters from LOVE, ACTUALLY. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: LOVE, ACTUALLY (2003) Find Mady online: Instagram TikTok Camber Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here ! Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here ! Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Paige Harbison , as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE HOLIDAY. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: THE HOLIDAY (2006) Find Paige online: Instagram TikTok Website Nameless Best Friends Pod Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here ! Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003) Find Haley online: Instagram TikTok Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here ! Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: STAR WARS in general, but specifically: A New Hope (1977) The Empire Strikes Back (1980) Return of the Jedi (1983) The Phantom Menace (1999) Attack of the Clones (2002) Revenge of th...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: LABYRINTH (1986) LEGEND (1985) LADYHAWKE (1985) INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976) THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985) Find Leigh online: Website Instagram Sign up for her newsletter here ! Buy her boo...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Candice Lim as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE GILMORE GIRLS Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: THE GILMORE GIRLS (2000-2007) Find Candice online: Website Instagram Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here ! Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here ! Buy FUNNY YOU SHO...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Charlotte Luce as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE MUMMY Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: The Mummy (1999) Find Charlotte online: Instagram Check out TryQuinn here! Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here ! Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here ! Buy FUNNY YOU SH...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Amanda Jane Stern as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE PRINCESS BRIDE Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: The Princess Bride (1987) Find Amanda online: Website Instagram BlueSky Letterboxd Check out PERFECTLY GOOD MOMENT here! Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Erin La Rosa , as we debate the sex lives of Disney princes, in particular: Prince Eric, The Beast, Aladdin, Flynn Rider, and Kristoff Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: The Little Mermaid (1989) Beauty and the Beast (1991) Aladdin (1992) Tangled (2010) Frozen (2013) Frozen 2 (2019) Find Erin online: We...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Joss Richard , as we debate the sex lives of characters from THREE'S COMPANY. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: Three's Company (1977-1984) Find Joss online: Website Instagram Preorder IT'S DIFFERENT THIS TIME here! And join us at Vroman's on September 29th Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Morgan Matson , as we debate the sex lives of characters from PARKS AND RECREATION. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: Parks and Recreation (2009-2015) Find Morgan online: Website Instagram Buy GRADCHANTED here! Buy her other books here! Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE...

Join me ( Elissa Sussman ) and my guest, Maurene Goo , as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: Iron Man (2008) Iron Man 2 (2010) Thor (2011) Captain America: The First Avenger (2011) The Avengers (2012) Iron Man 3 (2013) Thor: The Dark World (2013) Captain America: The Winter Soldi...

Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: Pirates of the Caribbean (2003) Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006) Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007) Find Falon online: Website Instagram Preor...

Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: The West Wing (1999) Find Kate online: Website Instagram TikTok Buy ONE TO WATCH here ! Buy FANG FICTION here ! Find me: Website Instagram TikTok Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here ! Buy ON...

Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically:  Josh Lyman Sam Seaborne Toby Ziegler CJ Craig Dr. and Mr. Bartlett Full episode available on August 6th

Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alerts for the following: Clueless (1995) Reality Bites (1994) Friday Night Lights - TV Show (2006) The L Word - TV Show (2004) On The Bleachers Podcast with Zan and Sarah Buy SQUARE WAVES Buy BIG FAN SELAH: Neighborhood Homeless Coa...

Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically:  Travis Birkenstock from Clueless Troy Dyer from Reality Bites Tim Riggins from Friday Night Lights Shane McCutcheon from The L Word Full episode available on July 23rd

Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!) Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language Spoiler Alert: Friends (1994) Find Kate on the internet: Website Instagram FaceBook TikTok Buy her books here ! Find me! Website Instagram TikTok Buy my latest here ! Special thanks: Theme - Alex Heller Logo - Lauren Airr...

But How's the Sex launches on July 9th, 2025!