Built For More

This week we share of our intentions to press pause on the BFM podcast for a brief time.  With our upcoming move and family commitments, we need to step away for a bit. Our desire is to always steward well this gift of podcasting and we want to do so with excellence. We look forward to returning back to the microphones in a few months and hope you will join us!  CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY: Websi...

In this episode, Lindsay welcomes guest Erin Port from @simplepurposefulliving. As a wife and mom of 4, she has recently authored a book, Tiny Tweaks Happy Life.   In this conversation, Lindsay and Erin talk about how small changes throughout your day can help simplify your life and daily routine. It is through these small shifts that we keep the important and vital parts of our lives front and ce...

In this throwback episode, we revisit a favorite conversation from early in Season 1 where we share the story of Eric feeling led to attend seminary, while working full-time and raising 5 kids. We talk about the fear and uncertainty that often accompany big decisions and what it looks like to trust God when the path forward isn't clear. Looking back, this step of faith became one of the most...

Winning builds confidence but losing builds character. Youth sports provide one of the clearest opportunities for children to learn how to process disappointment, reflect on failure, and develop resilience.  In this episode, we share the experience of one of our kids facing the first loss after an undefeated volleyball season and the meaningful conversation that followed on the ride home. That mom...

What do you do when your child wants to quit?  On a ski slope with one of our kids, we watched the familiar arc unfold: excitement followed by reality, frustration, self-doubt, and the strong desire to give up. But by the end of the day, something had changed.  In this episode, we talk about how growth always passes through the "mid-mountain" moment and what it looks like to walk beside...

Every decision comes at a cost, and as our kids grow, those costs can feel heavier. As parents, our job isn’t to remove all risk from our children’s lives, because the truth is- we can’t. What we can do is walk alongside them, helping them think carefully, weigh the consequences, seek wisdom, and ultimately trust God with the outcome. From tattoos to motorcycles, in this episode, we talk through r...

In this final episode of our Valentine's Day marriage series, we turn to the Bible and what Scripture says about marriage. We talk about how marriage was God's idea from the beginning, why it's a covenant, not a contract, and how our marriages are meant to reflect Jesus and the Church. We also share the importance of grace and forgiveness, along with a few encouraging words for marr...

In Part 2 of our Valentine's Day marriage series, we continue the conversation about what it takes to have a marriage that's truly Built for More . We talk about how what we witnessed growing up through our parents' and grandparents' marriages often shapes what we believe marriage is supposed to look like.  We share why modeling a healthy marriage for our kids matters so much,...

This episode kicks off a three-part Valentine’s Day series on marriage and what it means to have a marriage truly Built for More . We look back on 23 years of marriage, what we’ve learned, where we’ve grown (and are still growing!), and some of the lessons that have shaped us along the way. We share our story, talk honestly about intimacy, and discuss why healthy communication is so important in m...

As we step into a new year and a new season of the podcast, we reflect on priorities, goals, and the difference between good intentions and intentional living. In this episode, we talk honestly about why planning matters and why saying something is important isn't the same as living like it is. At the core of it all is stewardship, recognizing that our time, health, relationships, faith, and...

In the second part of our Thanksgiving series, we’re talking about what it really looks like to cultivate contentment. In a world that constantly tells us we need more, newer, or better, we share honest stories, encouragement, and a biblical perspective on learning to joyfully rest in what God has already provided. We hope this conversation helps you find peace, gratitude, and joy right where you...

As Thanksgiving approaches, we’re kicking off a two-part series all about gratitude and contentment. This week, we’re diving into gratitude with a fun, real conversation- everything from the chaos and busyness of life to the everyday blessings we tend to overlook, we explore how gratitude keeps us grounded in God’s grace towards us. We share stories, Scripture, and practical ways to cultivate a gr...

In this fun and festive episode, we kick off the holiday season with laughter, stories, and a few friendly debates, like when it’s actually acceptable to put up the Christmas tree and whether or not Mariah is quite thawed out just yet. From Mannheim Steamroller to the timeless duo of Kenny and Dolly, we talk of the road-trip soundtrack that has marked our Thanksgiving travels for years. We (well,...

In the second half of our listener Q&A, we tackle some of the tougher questions our listeners sent in, from navigating a strained mother-daughter relationship to shaping godly standards in today's culture. We also share our own parenting highs and lows and talk through decisions such as school choice and family priorities. It's an honest, faith-centered conversation meant to bring ho...

In this special Q&A episode celebrating our 25th show, we answer listener-submitted questions that range from the lighthearted to the deeply personal. We talk about prayer through the lens of the Lord's Prayer and the story of Elijah, and share honest reflections on discipline, sibling relationships, and the importance of investing in your marriage while raising kids. It's a mix of l...

This week, we talk about how faith shapes the way we work and the people we work alongside. From Lindsay's recent experience at a Christian retreat for women entrepreneurs to Eric's career in a faith-based medical practice, we explore what it means to steward your work well and build genuine community in the process. Whether you're surrounded by believers or standing alone in a secu...

From the outside, our family of seven might look like a story of effortless blessing, but the truth is, the road to having five kids was anything but easy. In this honest conversation, we open up about our journey through infertility, the emotional and spiritual toll of waiting, and some funny moments along the way. We share lessons we learned about faith and God’s timing and we pray it encourages...

Between kids' sports, long work days, and weekends that blur together, it's easy to have full calendars but hearts that feel stretched thin. In this episode, we talk honestly about what it means to live with margin — the intentional space between our limits and our load.  From running late to church (again) to wrapping up a whirlwind of fall sports, we share how even good things can crow...

Last week, we shared the story behind selling our "forever home." For us, it was a step of obedience that continues to challenge and strengthen our faith as we learn to trust God more fully. We've been so encouraged by listener stories and messages we have received since then. This week, we're continuing the conversation (with a few less tears!) by talking about what it means t...

In this episode, we share the story behind a surprising decision—  selling our “forever home” we built just three years ago. What led us here were two convictions: a desire for financial freedom and a call to obey God’s leading, even when it didn’t make sense. We’ll unpack ( all of ) the emotions surrounding the decision, the overwhelming peace God has given us along the way, and what it means to...

In this episode, we reflect on the tragic passing of Charlie Kirk, reminding us how fragile life is and why we must not take a single day for granted. We explore what it means to live with a grateful heart, through birthdays, aging, hardship, and the everyday blessings we often overlook. Grounded in Scripture and personal stories, we share how gratitude fosters contentment, reshapes perspective, a...

In this episode, we unpack the true meaning of hospitality... not just hosting guests in our homes, but living with a posture that sees and values others. We explore the tension between convenient, planned opportunities for hospitality and the everyday interruptions that invite us to slow down, sacrifice, and pour into  others, even when it feels inconvenient. Through personal stories, biblical ex...

Walking through senior year as a parent is a mix of joy, sadness, pride, and release. In this episode, we share what we learned when our oldest graduated high school a couple years ago and how we're approaching it again with our second son. From celebrating the "lasts" to planning intentional conversations and giving space for friendships, we'll talk about how to make this seas...

In a follow-up to last week's interview with our college-aged son, we're taking a parent's perspective on alcohol. From our family backgrounds to the way we now (try to!) model healthy habits, we share biblical wisdom and some practical tools for guiding teens through a culture where drinking is common. We talk about setting clear boundaries, keeping open communication, and preparin...

Parents, cover your ears, this one's for the kids! Well...not exactly, but we are handing the mic to our oldest son for part two of the "Sending a Kid Off to College" series. He shares what it was like stepping onto campus for the first time, the importance of putting yourself out there, and how to actually enjoy the adventure while figuring out how to balance it all. From meeting n...