Built Different Podcast

Built Different Podcast

Society EN ↓ 13 episodes

Older, wiser, and still swiping. We’re breaking down the chaos of dating in your 40s—from ghosting at 42 to the art of the first-date "vetting." Real talk for the grown and slightly exhausted.

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Built Different Podcast

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Society

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Latest episode

Nov 2, 2026

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Episodes

Episode 12: The Roster Dating Era 02.11.2026

Are you stuck in the dating game, juggling multiple partners like a quarterback with a full roster? In this eye-opening episode of Built Different, Julie and Armond dive deep into the modern phenomenon of roster dating - where people keep three to five potential partners on rotation to avoid vulnerability and commitment. Julie unpacks the psychological implications of this trend, referencing Barry...

Built Different Episode 11- Friends With Benefits 27.10.2026

For this episode, we are talking about friends with benefits- the good, the bad, and the ugly! Watch, like, subscribe, and comment to let us know what you think!

Episode 10: Modern Dating Is a Full-Time Job......And Were Tired!!!!! 27.10.2026

Modern dating can feel like a FULL-TIME JOB… except there’s no paycheck, no PTO, and definitely no HR department. 😂😩In Episode 10 of the Build Different Podcast, Armond and Julie get into the reality of dating today from both the male and female perspective. From endless swiping and dry conversations to mixed signals, ghosting, high expectations, emotional labor, and trying to find a genuine con...

Episode 9: Dating With Baggage: Kids, Exes, and Trauma 27.10.2026

Are you carrying old baggage into new relationships? In this episode of the Built Different podcast, we dive into the complexities of dating after 40, exploring how past experiences shape our present. Join us as we discuss the challenges of dating with kids, navigating exes, and the impact of trauma on relationships. Key takeaways:* Understanding the importance of timing when introducing kids to n...

Episode 8- Do People Over 40 Even Know How to Date Anymore? 27.10.2026

We're talking about navigating app culture, red flags, green flags, and whether or not we are datable after 40! Get in on the conversation!

Episode 7- Are You Too Picky, or Selective By Design? 27.10.2026

Are you too picky when it comes to dating, and is it stopping you from finding true love? Or is it better to be selective by design?

Episode 6- Is It Better to be Single or Settled After 40? 27.10.2026

Join us as we debate whether it's better to be single or settled after 40! What do you think? Comment below!

Episode 5: Dating in Your 40's: What We Want Now Vs. Then 27.10.2026

In this episode of Built Different, we're talking about the traits we're looking for and what we're trying to avoid. Like, share, subscribe, and comment below!

Episode 4: Red Flags We Ignored In Our 20s and 30s 27.10.2026

In this episodes we talk about red flags and lessons learned from dating in our 20s and 30s! Join the conversation!

Episode 3: Dating Stories 26.10.2026

The podcast episode delves into personal dating stories, the mistakes made, and the lessons learned. It explores the importance of unlearning, setting boundaries, and embracing emotional safety and honesty in relationships. The hosts share their turning points in dating and the challenges of unlearning old habits to make room for growth and change. Takeaways Learning from past mistakes The importa...

Bonus Episode: Obsession 26.10.2026

We explore the psychology behind obsessive behavior, the difference between genuine interest and unhealthy fixation, and the subtle signs that someone is turning you into an idea instead of seeing you as a real person. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, smothered, or “claimed” too quickly, this deep dive will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. Topics we cover:• What obs...

Our Dating Stories: What Brought Us Here 03.03.2026

Summary In this episode of the Build Different podcast, hosts Armond and Julie delve into their personal dating stories, exploring the lessons learned and mistakes made throughout their journeys. They discuss the challenges of dating in their 40s, the importance of communication, commitment, and accountability in relationships, and the necessity of unlearning unhealthy patterns. The conversation e...

Episode 1- Welcome to the Built Different Podcast 14.02.2026

Welcome to the Build Different Podcast! We talk about dating and relationships from a 40-something perspective. We're new to this, but we want to have honest, authentic, and real discussions, and we want you to join us on this journey!

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