Building Better Marriages Podcast

Are you feeling stuck in your marriage or unsure how to build a strong one before you say “I do”? In this episode, Dr. Deborah shares 3 biblical keys from Nehemiah to help you overcome obstacles in your relationship through prayer, planning, and protection. Whether preparing for marriage or restoring what feels broken, you’ll walk away with Christ-centered hope and practical steps. Listen now + bo...

Are you feeling distant from your spouse even though you’re doing life together? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, I explore what to do when emotional connection fades and conversations stop. Learn practical ways to reconnect, communicate with grace, and restore intimacy in your marriage using biblical truth. This episode includes: 4 steps to rebuild emotional connection A prayer to in...

In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage. Ready to go deeper? Book a free 20-minute Heart-to-Heart Call with Dr. Deborah and get personal guidance for your season of prep...

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares why trust is the foundation of every Christ-centered marriage—and how transparency keeps it strong. Learn biblical strategies to rebuild trust after it's been broken, open the door to honest conversations, and create a safe space for emotional connection. Plus, Dr. Deborah prays 5 daily prayers to help you and your spouse walk in truth and grace. Liste...

Dear One, are you carrying emotional wounds from past relationships, heartbreak, or current struggles in your marriage? In this powerful episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to step into God’s healing presence and discover how lasting love starts with a restored heart. Drawing from Psalm 147:3 (NLT), "He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds," Dr. Deborah shares practical, faith-fil...

Before and After the Ring: What If You’re Stronger Than You Think? In today’s episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba reminds you that you are stronger, wiser, and more prepared for love than you realize. Before saying "yes" to the ring, it’s vital to see yourself the way God sees you—strong, chosen, and equipped for His perfect design in marriage. Ready to go deeper? CLICK HERE to book a free 20-minute Heart...

Everyone talks about red flags—but what if your relationship already holds the key to lasting love? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you recognize the spiritual strengths you already have and how to build from them. Perfect for engaged or seriously dating couples who want to build a Christ-centered marriage with purpose and confidence. 📥 Download here the free guide: 10 Questions Every C...

  Everyone talks about red flags—but what if the greatest insight for your relationship lies in what’s already working? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba helps you shift your focus from fear to faith by identifying the God-given strengths in your relationship and how to build from them. You’ll learn how to: Recognize your spiritual assets as a couple Reinforce healthy patterns before marriage Bu...

Welcome back to episode 57 of the Building Better Marriages podcast. I’m so glad you’re here because today, we’re talking about something that can truly change a couple’s life. We will look at what happens before the ring—before the vows, before the dress, and before the honeymoon. I want to help couples and those who care about them understand the red flags and foundations that really matter when...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, showing how God defines love not as a feeling but as action, sacrifice, and commitment. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this message will help you set biblical expectations that lead to deeper trust, healthier intimacy, and stronger Christ-centered relationships. You’ll learn: How to recognize real,...

Why are so many people afraid of true commitment—especially when it comes to marriage? In this episode, Dr. Deborah explores the fears that hold us back from diving deep into lasting love and why God’s design for marriage is the only way to truly experience the joy, safety, and purpose of covenant love. If you’re ready to move past the fear and into a Christ-centered relationship that reflects His...

What makes a marriage truly thrive? In this episode, Dr. Deborah dives into the five essential foundations of an unshakeable marriage—faith, love, trust, communication, and commitment. She unpacks how these biblical principles create a strong, lasting relationship and share practical ways to build (or rebuild) them in your marriage. Whether you're newly married, years into your journey, or prepari...

Spring is here—a season of renewal, fresh beginnings, and new growth. Just like we set our clocks ahead to embrace longer days, our marriages also need refreshing and intentional change moments. Are you making the necessary adjustments in your relationship to move forward in faith and love? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares a personal story of how God shifted her path from growing flow...

Life doesn’t always go as planned. Sometimes, we step out in faith, pour our hearts into something, and the response isn’t what we expected. In those moments, doubt creeps in, and we wonder if we misheard God. But what if the testing is part of His plan? What if He’s refining us, redirecting us, and preparing us for something greater? In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah shares her own experienc...

"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Matthew 6:21 (NIV) How often do you think about treating yourself—a massage, a facial, a weekend getaway, or even just dinner with a friend—only to stop yourself with the thought, "That’s a lot of money." You might even search for a payment plan or a discount, but deep down, it was never really about the money. The real issue? Believing...

Have you ever found yourself saying, “I don’t need anyone. I can handle it alone”? Maybe you’ve convinced yourself that asking for help is a sign of weakness or that no one would understand your struggles. But here’s the truth—God never intended for you to walk this journey alone. In this episode, we’ll dive into why so many women feel they must carry everything by themselves, the biblical truth a...

"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." — Romans 12:10 In Episode 049, "The Power of Commitment: When Love Gets Tough," Dr. Deborah explores the real meaning of commitment beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover how to navigate difficult seasons in your relationship, why feelings aren't enough to sustain commitment, and how God's blueprint for love can strengthen your...

Are you feeling stuck, uncertain, or longing for more in your life and marriage? In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into what it means to discover your heart’s song—that unique, God-given purpose that brings clarity, confidence, and joy. Using Isaiah 43:18-19 as our foundation, we’ll explore how to release the weight of the past, embrace the fullness of who God created you to be, and step...

As we step into the new year, it’s easy to look back on our past—our victories, mistakes, and moments of regret. But what if, instead of holding onto guilt, we embraced God’s grace fully? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah dives into the power of grace and how it frees us from shame, renews our spirit, and allows us to walk confidently...

Are you ready to start fresh and take control of your spiritual journey? In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares how small, faith-filled steps can lead to meaningful change in your relationship with God and your spouse. With insights from Zechariah 4:10, you'll learn how to trust God’s timing, let go of perfectionism, and embrace progress in your everyday life. What You’ll Discover: Practical,...

In this inspiring episode, we’ll explore how to embrace the new year with a fresh perspective and renewed faith. Whether you're setting big goals or focusing on small, meaningful changes, we’ll discuss how taking baby steps can lead to lasting transformation. Grounded in Scripture and practical tips, this episode will encourage you to trust God’s plan as you move forward, one step at a time, towar...

This listener favorite originally aired September 3, 2024, and we’re bringing it back because it’s just as powerful today as it was then! If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or like you have nothing left to give, this episode is for you. Dr. Deborah Skomba shares timeless biblical truths and practical steps to help you trust God in your emptiest moments and find strength in His promises....

In this heartfelt episode, Dr. Deborah reflects on the transformative power of love, the central theme of the fourth week of Advent. Drawing from 1 John 4:9—“This is how God showed His love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him”—she shares how God’s love can renew and strengthen your relationships, even during life’s most challenging seasons. Discover...

This is such an exciting time! Joy is the heartbeat of Christmas. As the angels proclaimed in Luke 2:14, the birth of Jesus brings glory to God and peace to our hearts. This joy is not dependent on how perfect our plans are or how much we accomplish—it’s rooted in the good news of our Savior’s arrival, a gift for all humanity. This season invites us to pause and reflect on the true source of joy:...

Discovering Peace in Advent Are you longing for peace amidst the chaos of the holiday season? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, the "I do's" and "I don'ts of everyday life," we discuss peace in Advent, exploring how God's promises calm our hearts and guide us to rest in His presence. From the miracle of Jesus' birth to His name, Immanuel ("God with us"), and the deep assurance of His s...