Building Better Marriages Podcast

As the year comes to a close, we pause to reflect on how the road we’ve walked has quietly changed us. In this episode, we will look back on The Road to Bethlehem and notice what often goes unseen—that God didn’t just meet us along the way, He reshaped our hearts through the journey. What began with weariness ends with deeper trust, renewed hope, and a quieter strength rooted in Christ. This is an...

Joy often shows up in quiet, unexpected places. In this episode, we reflect on how God met ordinary people on the road to Bethlehem—and how He still meets us today in the middle of our everyday lives. If your heart feels weary or distracted this season, this conversation will gently remind you that joy is not found in perfection, but in God’s presence with us. If this episode encouraged you, pleas...

On this Advent journey, Dr. Deborah invites you to slow down, breathe deep, and discover the peace Jesus offers in the middle of life’s stress and strain. Each episode helps you turn your heart toward Christ through Scripture, simple reflection, and gentle encouragement for your marriage and your everyday walk with God. If your soul feels weary, this is the place to rest, reset, and remember that...

In this episode, An Advent Journey for a Weary Heart, there is a simple, hope-filled moment this week to pause, breathe, and refocus on Jesus. Dr. Deborah gently guides you through Scripture and reflection to find peace, strength, and renewed joy this season. Listen in and let your heart rest in the One who came close. The Road to Bethlehem, An Advent Journey If this episode encouraged you, would...

In this powerful and deeply reflective episode, Dr. Deborah sits down with John DeJarnette, a man of wisdom and faith, to talk about what it truly means to have the mindset of Christ in marriage. Together, they unpack how humility, forgiveness, and servant leadership can transform even the most challenging seasons of marriage. John shares honest insights from his own journey—what it looks like to...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks the truth of Ephesians 4:22-24 (NLT) — “Throw off your old sinful nature… and let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes.” Marriage renewal begins in the mind. When we allow the Holy Spirit to reshape our thoughts and attitudes, everything changes—our words become softer, our reactions more patient, and our love more genuine. Dr. Deborah shares how...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba delves into 1 Corinthians 2:16 (NLT): “For we have the mind of Christ.” What does it look like to think, love, and respond to your spouse with the same heart and mindset as Jesus? You’ll discover how renewing your thoughts through the Holy Spirit changes the atmosphere of your marriage—from frustration to faith, from reaction to reflection, and from distance to...

In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba invites you to experience The Mindset Shift: Seeing Your Marriage Through the Eyes of Christ. Drawing from Philippians 2:5–7 (NLT), she unpacks how humility, love, and servant leadership reshape the way you see your spouse and respond in moments of tension. Learn how to move from reacting in pride or fear to responding in grace—how to view your marriage not thro...

Join Dr. Deborah and guest Scott Stone, a polygrapher and man of faith, as they explore how truth, trust, and God’s grace bring healing and restoration to marriage. Subscribe, share, and leave a 5-star review to help more couples discover faith-based tools for healing and building stronger, Christ-centered marriages.

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba explores how the power of truth transforms relationships and restores emotional and spiritual connection in marriage. Honesty isn’t just about words—it’s about the heart. When couples choose to walk in truth, they invite the light of Yeshua into their relationship, creating a foundation of t...

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The “I Do” and “I Don’t” of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba dives deep into the heart of truth and its connection to Yeshua—the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Discover how walking in the truth of Christ brings healing, freedom, and a deeper connection in marriage. Learn why truth is more than honesty—it’s a spiritual posture that invites Yeshua’s pres...

In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah welcomes Pastor Lorraine Blum for a heart-stirring conversation on what it truly means to live ready for the King. Together, they explore the call for the Bride of Christ to prepare—spiritually, emotionally, and relationally—for His return. Pastor Lorraine shares wisdom on how to build strong,...

As we look forward to the return of our Savior, Yeshua, there’s no greater time to reflect on how we’re living, loving, and preparing for His coming. In this powerful episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah discusses the importance of preparing not only spiritually but also within our marriages. Listen as we explore: How to stay spiritually awake...

Are you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you. Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to: Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will. Rele...

Every marriage has a story — moments of joy, seasons of struggle, and the grace of God holding it all together. In this very special episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah is joined by her husband for an open and heartfelt conversation about their Christ-centered love story. Together, they share: How faith shaped their relationship from the begi...

Every couple feels it at some point — the gap between his needs and her needs. Maybe it’s in how you communicate, how you show love and respect, or how you approach intimacy and spiritual leadership. In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah shares biblical truth and practical tools to help you bridge those differences and grow closer as a...

Marriage was never meant to be a solo journey. In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah shares why God designed marriage to thrive when both voices are heard, valued, and respected. Discover how unity in marriage is built not on sameness but on complementing each other’s strengths, perspectives, and God-given design. Learn how to recognize...

Are you feeling stuck, weighed down by regrets, or unsure if you’re even on the right path in your marriage and life? In this episode of Building Better Marriages – the I Do & I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah takes you back to the basics — the path God created just for you. Through biblical truth and practical steps, you’ll learn how to: Recognize when you’ve drifted from God’s will. Rele...

Have you ever felt weighed down by regrets or restless in your walk with God? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah shares how to recognize when you’ve wandered off God’s path and how to return to the one He designed just for you — a path filled with joy, peace, and purpose. Through Scripture, practical wisdom, and heartfelt encouragement, you’ll discover: 3 signs you may be wa...

Have you ever said, “You always…” or “Forget it” in the heat of the moment? Words like these may seem small, but they can quietly tear down intimacy and trust in your marriage. In this episode, Dr. Deborah uncovers 10 common sayings that sabotage communication between husbands and wives—and shares biblical, practical ways to replace them with words that bring healing, respect, and connection. Thro...

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba turns the conversation toward the heart of a wife. Drawing from Ephesians 5:25, the Greek agapaō (to love with Christ-like commitment), and Proverbs 31:11, the Hebrew batach (to trust with security), Dr. Deborah unpacks three needs many wives carry quietly—emotional safety, affection beyond the...

What if God’s design for marriage is bigger than “happy wife, happy life”? In this episode of Building Better Marriages, Dr. Deborah unpacks Ephesians 5:33 — where husbands are called to love and wives are called to respect — and shows how this mutual exchange creates lasting joy, not just temporary happiness. You’ll hear biblical wisdom, practical steps to show love and respect this week, and a H...

In this episode of Building Better Marriages: The I Do and I Don’t of Everyday Life, Dr. Deborah Skomba unpacks John 10:10 and the powerful promise Jesus gives couples facing spiritual attacks. Discover how the enemy works to steal, kill, and destroy marriages — and how Christ offers zoē life, overflowing with love, peace, and purpose. Learn how to identify the thief, invite Jesus into every part...

In today’s episode, I’m inviting you to step away from the noise and into the quiet presence of God—to pause, rest, and remember that joy, laughter, and love were always part of His design for marriage. I've compiled seven summer night fun date night ideas to help you get started.  We’ll explore what the Bible says about rest and renewal, and introduce our first Hebrew Word Moment by looking at th...

Feeling guilty for resting? You’re not alone. In this episode, Dr. Deborah Skomba shares why rest is sacred, modeled by God, and essential for soul renewal. Learn how to practice Sabbath rhythms with practical, grace-filled pauses in your week. Matthew 11:28–30 (NLT) “Come to me, all of you who are weary…” Want to go deeper? Join The Heart Reset: A 3-Day Journey from Stuck to Surrendered and redis...