Cletius Mubano

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex

Society EN ↓ 413 episodes

Honest and logical breakup and relationship advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Whether you’re stuck in a toxic loop, settling for crumbs, or still texting someone who clearly doesn’t care, Trina’s here to snap you out of it - with real talk and practical tools to get your heart and head in check. This isn’t your feel-sorry-for-yourself podcast; it’s your tough-love guide to peace, self-respect, and relationships actually worth your time. Learn how to set boundaries that stick, rebuild your confidence (no begging allowed), and spot red flags from a mile away. Whether you’re drowning in drama...

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Cletius Mubano

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Society

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www.spreaker.com

Latest episode

Jun 25, 2026

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Episodes

My Spin-Off Podcast "HELP US" ... for Creating Relationships That Don’t Suck ... is LIVE! Follow Now! 13.02.2025

Don't worry - breakup BOOST isn't going anywhere... I'm just ADDING another branch ;) SEARCH: "Help Us Couples Coaching Podcast" Follow on Apple Podcasts HERE: https://bit.ly/3QjH4Ml Follow on Spotify HERE: https://spoti.fi/3CE4TLH

#367: The Bachelor S29 E3 Recap: Finance, Fake Drama, and a Fear Factor Date (Episode 3 After Show) 12.02.2025

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.co...

#366: The Bachelor S29 E2 Recap: Grant's 1st Major Red Flag, Things NOT to Do, Cringeworthy Moments (Episode 2 After Show) 04.02.2025

I’m breaking down the Season 29 as a Breakup Coach... (and hopefully you'll get some cheap entertainment out of it ;) What can we learn from THIS episode?  Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get wh...

#365: Why Your Ex Never Apologized & Why You Really Need to Let That Go 30.01.2025

Welcome to "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this "tiny talk," I explain why your toxic ex didn’t apologize - and why, even if they had, it wouldn’t really matter. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one! Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  http...

#364: The Bachelor Season 29 Premiere Recap: First Night, First Impressions (Episode 1 After Show) 28.01.2025

Will YOU accept this rose??? I’m breaking down the Season 29 Premiere of The Bachelor!  Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red and green flags... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: http...

#363: No, You Don’t “Wait” to Be Respected in a Relationship. Hell to the NAW. 27.01.2025

Have you ever felt like you’re stuck waiting for someone to change or finally treat you the way you deserve? In this episode, I’m breaking down why waiting around for respect or accountability from the wrong person is a losing game. It's time to look at this LOGICALLY and from a place of SELF-RESPECT. This is your wake-up call, with a sprinkle of humor... and a whole lot of tough love.  Listen NOW...

#362: When They Don’t Want to Claim You, But Keep You in Their Orbit 22.01.2025

Introducing the first of "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I tackle a situation that’s all too common: when someone tells you they don’t want to be with you, but still keeps you "hanging around."  And yes, I break it down with a lil tough love so you can stop making excuses for your involvement with them and stop being stuck in a cycle of self-dece...

#361: You're Not Alone in What You Are Going Through and You WILL Get Through It xo 19.01.2025

This episode is to remind you that no matter what you're going through, you’re not alone. Life can throw unexpected challenges - whether it's a sudden life change such as a breakup or divorce, loss of employment, natural disaster, financial stress, or overwhelming grief. In those moments, it’s easy to feel stuck and hopeless, but the truth is, many people are facing similar struggles. This isn't a...

#360: Maintaining a Positive Mindset & Detoxing from Negativity to Transform Your Life 19.01.2025

In this episode, I explore the power of maintaining a positive mindset and the role self-awareness plays in navigating negativity. I encourage you to actively work on cultivating positivity in your life, so you can create an environment that fosters growth, happiness, and healthier connections. Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNI...

#359: How to Stay Motivated & Keep Moving Forward 19.01.2025

Struggling to stay motivated? (This can be especially challenging after a breakup or divorce.) It's all about your mindset and the way you look at things. You can either work against yourself and stay stagnant... OR... make daily choices and build new habits to make progress. It's clearly a 'no brainer' what the best route is, right?! Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get O...

#358: Protect Your Peace in Relationships - Let Go of Conditional Respect in 2025 02.01.2025

Happy New Year, everyone! I wasn't sure what the first episode of the year would be, but I knew it had to be impactful and set the tone for the year ahead. After some thought, I realized the one thing that’s truly changed my life - protecting my peace - needed to be the topic. Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  ht...

#357: STOP Being the “Rehab Center” for POTENTIAL in Dating and Relationships 13.12.2024

The time has come, ladies and gentlemen... let's get REAL about that thing called POTENTIAL. You know, the magical spark that has you thinking "Maybe this could work!" as you ignore all the red flags waving in your face like you're at a used car dealership. I mean... who doesn’t love falling for someone who’s “still figuring things out” or “just needs a little more time”? Because who needs self-re...

#356: Don’t Try SO HARD to Prove Your Happiness To Your Ex Online (Tsk, Tsk...) 28.11.2024

You know what I’m talking about… maybe you’ve done it, maybe you’re currently doing it, or maybe you are aware of people who do this... Listen NOW! (You're sure to get a chuckle out of this one...) Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER  EMAIL  or  PHONE  c...

#355: RED FLAGS Aren’t Just Warnings: 4 Relatable Examples of How They ESCALATE 24.11.2024

So-called "small" red flags may seem harmless or easy to overlook at first, but over time, they grow into problems that can severely impact your emotional well-being. Join me in diving into this further, including some relatable examples... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   AND, let's take this a ste...

#354: PEP TALK: No Half-Baked Efforts Here: Cake Analogy for Relationships 18.11.2024

This episode is all about recognizing your worth and how to stop settling for the bare minimum. Kind of like a pep talk, centered around CAKE! Did that make you hungry? Me too! LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER  EMAIL  or  PHONE  coaching a...

#353: BREAKING NEWS: The Launch of My Merch @ blockandshop.com 14.11.2024

Shop at BLOCK AND SHOP for sassy, relatable, and empowering breakup and dating merch:  blockandshop.com xo -Trina

#352: ASK TRINA: 35 Random Breakup, Dating & Relationship Questions! 12.11.2024

There's a boat load of topics covered in this round of ASK TRINA... so don't delay... press PLAY and listen to this episode NOW! I'm sure you'll be able to relate to some aspect of at least a handful... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   Get More Help: (1) ORDER  EMAIL  or  PHONE  coaching at  breakup...

#351: Dissecting a Threads Post: “Emotionally unavailable guys. When is this going to end???” 15.10.2024

I came across a post on threads (which is basically the new x for Instagram) and wanted to address it on here, as I know so many people are in this same type of position… and need a bit of a wake-up call. Lots of important lessons in this. Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz...

#350: The Temptation to Break "No Contact" to Call Them Out & Tell Them Off 06.10.2024

Temptation is a son-of-a-gun... isn't it??!! Add that onto dealing with a "no contact" situation... and, well... you've got a challenge on your hands. After listening to this episode, I think you'll be more motivated to ramp up that self-control. (I mean, at least that's what I'm going for... ;) Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CL...

#349: 3 LAME A$$ Excuses You Need to Stop Making for Their Bad Behavior 27.09.2024

In this episode, I'm talking all about EXCUSES... including breaking down three common excuses people make for their partner’s bad behavior (or whoever they are dating or interested in). These excuses are holding you back from the respect and love you deserve. It’s time to get real, call out the nonsense, and take your power back. Enough already!  Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my bo...

#348: Stop Using “Unconditional Love” as an Excuse to Be a Doormat 17.09.2024

If you’ve ever found yourself enduring bad behavior in the name of love, this episode is for you! I break down why "unconditional love" shouldn’t be a free pass for someone to walk all over you... and remind you of the non-negotiables in a relationship. Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://am...

#347: BREAKUP PEP TALK: Douchebag Detox: From Heartbreak to HEAD HELD HIGH! 10.09.2024

Breakup pep talk time! If you're out there crying over a jerk who mistreated you, cheated on you, lied to you... or sold you a story they never delivered on...  (maybe all of the above)... this pep talk's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   Get More Help: (1) ORDER...

#346: Are they an “AVOIDANT” or are they just NOT INTO YOU or THE RIGHT FIT for you??? 20.08.2024

I can't go a day without seeing or hearing the word “avoidant”... and I'm here to do my part in sharing some much needed FRESH perspective. Hopefully it will resonate with you and make you think twice before joining the herd in overusing the term ;) Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.t...

#345: The REAL Problem When You Are Irritated By Someone Who Won't Change 10.08.2024

There is so much irony in wanting someone else to change. If you find yourself in a situation where you are super frustrated by the person you're dating, in a relationship with, or even married to... this one's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   Get More Help: (1)...

#344: “I Would Have Done ANYTHING for You!!!” 28.07.2024

SUPER RELATABLE topic today! Lots of gold nuggets to be discovered and tucked away in your back pocket. Let me stop you from diminishing your value and having to look back on this with regret. Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz   Get More Help: (1) ORDER  EMAIL  or  PHONE  c...

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