Bonnie After Dark

The day to day for us midnight ballerinas is one for the books. Each scenario we encounter is much different than the next and we dont know what we will see each night. The drama from certain dancersa, or the drama from a customer. Each scenario varies and has its on level of uniqueness. What will you do as a dancer to keep the drama to a bare minimal? 

To do or to not do, we ask ourselves this question much more than we care to admit. Judging our own movements and constantly procrastinating can send our brains on a constant whirlwind. Is it fun to be consistently running on that hamster wheel inside of our own heads? Lets focus on what we can do to lead a productive and healthy to do or to not do in our own lives.

When do we consider the feelings of others? Do we stop and take a minute to think about the problems that we may cause with the actions that we are about to take? The effects that our words or actions have on someone can be positive or negative as we know. Lets dig in and discuss different ways to acheive positive outcomes rather than bringing yourself down or the people surrounding you. 

There are many different types of men and women out there.... lets dive into ten types of men that may intrigue you and have you take a look or a step back at the relationships that you are currently engaging in! 

We live our lives with many different stereotypes... from traditional to by the book stereotypes, they all linger in our lives more than we realize. Sexual stereotypes in relationships are a big one as we tend to stick with what we know and what we are told is okay when we learn who we are sexually. Yet we are never willing to try new things or jump off our regular seats and dive into different se...

Now days there are so many websites, so many stores and so many recomendations on where to make a purchase for a new dildo, sexy outfit, lube or accessories. Sometimes just listening to one of your friends choices is not neccesarily going to help. What works for one person and helps them hit that amazing orgasm may not work for the next person. Its not as difficult now days to access different var...

We all find ourselves trying to make decisions on a day to day basis. Some are miniscule and have little to no meaning and some are much more serious. There are steps we should follow in order to make proper decisions, or decisions that will have a greater impact in life and it is important to focus on these decisions on a more in depth level. Using the five steps we discuss in this episode will h...

Everyone has a comfort zone, everyone has things that bother us but we are sometimes afraid to simply jump out of our comfort zones. From gettting in our vehicles and just driving to that place weve always wanted to seee, to climbing a mountain or simply just leaving the p.o.s partner we cant simply seem to shake. Regardless of what "breaking through" looks like to you it could be as simple as jus...

The life of an exotic dancer is either frowned upon, or thought of as some form of taboo and its time to discuss the life of us dancers on a deeper level... the pros and cons and a few more details!

Well, well, well... its been way to long but I am not sparing any details in this episode.... lets chat about the gypsy life, how things have been going as a travel dancer in Canada! 

The worst thing that can happen in a relationship is the narcissist. This personality trait is very self centered, very caught up on themselves and cannot be emotionally invested in anyone but themselves. Regardless if they have children, or family that reside with them. They will create some sort of problem for the people surrounding them no matter who they hurt in the process. As long as they ar...

We all run in to the bumps and humps in our relationships, we may or may not find struggles to keep the spice coming. This doesnt meen we dont love our partners or dont want to spice it up, this simply means we need to tackle the problems at hand and figure out what makes eachother tick in the ongoing years of our relationships. We focus on everything around us and never on the internal side of th...

The infamous cream pie... what is it.. why does it turn some of us on? Lets dig into the facts of the cream pie, the three versions, what exactly goes into making each and every one of these? When did the cream pie become the second most seeked search on Porn Hub? Lets dive in and find out!

We have all had those sexual feelings or desires, some of us are more reserved than others and some of us are just less in tune with these feelings or desires. Being confident in yourself and in tune with your inner and external desires or feelings is very important. We as humans are all sexual beings its just about how we express ourselves or get involved with our inner sexual beings. Tune in and...

We all have encountered the little green monster within ourselves called jealousy. It sprouts from within and usually causes insecurities in our relationships, either paranoia or negative actions come from the jealousy monster. It is all about how we handle the vibe and how we react towards our partners inn any situation. There is always two points of view in any relationship. Lets dig in and disc...

Welcome to the down and dirty of our dirty thirties.... there are many different libidio strengths and many women will be less in tune with their body that others but over all as we enter our "dirty thirties" as women, we find ourselves reaching new highs where the climax is a completely different situation. Whether you are in a long term relationship, or exploring with different partners, the thi...

Marriage can be difficult all on its own, without the struggles to keep your partner sexually satisfied. When it comes to sex during marriage, or sex in a long term relationship, versus a new found fling or relationship are polar opposites. Lets discuss with Alli and Miss T and get deeper in to the ins and outs of their point of views for sexual activity in their relationships, or simply with new...

The famous Brazilian Butt Lift...... a specialized fat transfer procedure that will augment the size and change the overall shape and appearance of the booty without implants. There are many pros and cons to this procedure.... lets dig deeper and you can decide which route you want to embark on.....

Sexual education in our schools is meant to equip our children and younger generations with knowledge, skills and proper values towards physical sexual contact. Today the way our youth develops sexual relationships and the choices they make toards sexual activity is much different now than 10 years ago. Lets dive in to the teachings in the school, whats being taught at home and perhaps what we are...

It does not matter if your are straight and attracted to the same sex, or simply testing the waters in your relationship, there are always pros and cons to dating the same sex, or swinging both ways. Lets chat about the illiusions of content creationg and the pros of swinging both ways in this day and age. 

The equal rights betweeen males and females in this current day and age has taken a turn when it comes to the way we dress, act and carry ourselves. The province of Alberta has jumped on the band wagon of making changes for the assumption of the better and they are allowing topless swims for females, as well as following all cultural rules for swim apparel, in hopes of creating equal rights for al...

The Alpha.... whether it be female or male, runs solo and never in packs. There are strengths and weaknesses to being an alpha and times where those traits positively effect the lives of an alpha, or sometimes they may have negative effects. Dive in with Bonnie while we discuss the impacts of the alpha female on a deeper level.

Thats right! We are rebranding! After the event on June 9th,2023 things have changed. I am here to make sure each and every event runs smoothly, things work according to planned and the ladies have a great time while also getting a bunchn of content for their pages to boost sales and so on. The event held on June 9th was shattering in many ways for many people. In order to move forward the changes...

The infamous anal sex is a slowly rising sex style that some are becoming more in tune with. This day and age here are many ways to embark down the posterior sexual journey. Is this something that everyone is into? Of course not, but if its something you are ready and willing to try, then this is the chat for you! Lets dive into the dos and donts of anal sex, from toys to stretching!

Its been a little minute.... but lets get serious about open relationships, toxic traits and the shit that simply holds back a relationship. Never a dull moment with Bonnie After Dark.