Bless Your Heart I'm Talking

Send us Fan Mail This week I’m talking about what it means to take a step back — from the hustle, from expectations, and maybe even from the mic. Sometimes doing less is exactly what you need to do more of what matters. What Era am I in? The Non-Ambitious Era. Join me for the scoop on both podcast.  Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zmamacita?igsh=MXd0MndxbjM2YXd0Mw==

Send us Fan Mail This week, I stumble into a wild twist of fate — running into my long-lost cousins, the Longs, at a bar that just happens to be owned by them… and used to be our family’s grocery store a century ago. Turns out, history really does have a funny way of circling back around. Once again let's play Six Degrees of Separation from Zada.  Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram...

Send us Fan Mail Over the years, the medical field has played musical chairs with autism diagnoses—changing names, shifting criteria, and even folding Asperger’s into the broader spectrum. Sounds tidy on paper, but in real life? Not so much. As a mom of two kids on the spectrum, I talk about what those changes have looked like from the parent side, how confusing (and sometimes harmful) misdiagnose...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Bless Your Heart I’m Talking, I’m in full ramble mode. From the ongoing creamer vs. milk epidemic in my house, to the fine art of reading the room, to folks who think they know exactly how I’m feeling (spoiler: they don’t) — nothing is off the table. It’s a little random, a little sassy, and all me. Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zmamacita?igsh=MXd0...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I’m giving thanks for the everyday things that keep me sane and slightly less feral. Paper towels? Non-negotiable—you can pry them from my cold dead hands. Artwork? Because blank walls feel like prison cells. Good pots and pans? Because I’m not about to wrestle scrambled eggs out of a dollar-store skillet. And mental health? Well, let’s just say it’s the only thin...

Send us Fan Mail This week’s episode is all about change—the little things that used to be part of everyday life that cell phones and modern living have replaced. From answering machines and home phones to paper maps and even certain foods we don’t see anymore, I take a trip down memory lane to see what’s disappeared. I wrap up with a reminder that while technology keeps moving forward, we still n...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Bless Your Heart I’m Talking, I’m sharing the cabin sister sleepover—full of late-night deep talks, belly laughs, is the Cabin a Squash Farm? And a few family secrets that probably should’ve stayed at the cabin. Get your pen and paper out to start drawing a family tree.  But there’s also something heavy on my heart: a missing limb to our family tree. We learned about...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Bless Your Heart, I’m Talking, we dive into the power of saying no to boxes others try to put us in. I share why it’s so important to stop trying to please everyone and start honoring who you really are. From setting boundaries to making yourself a priority, this one’s all about living unapologetically as you. Plus, we start the episode with some  fun bonus chat...

Send us Fan Mail In this final installment of my three-part cowboy poetry series, I tell a tall tale about the current residents of McMilan Cemetery.  The poem is set in McMilan Settlement, San Saba County Texas.  Meet Hosea Lawless and his loyal horse, Catdaddy, as their tragic tale unfolds among the graves of ancestors I never knew. Murdered by horse thieves, Hosea’s spirit rides through history...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I’m opening up about living with ADHD and what it’s like when your brain refuses to slow down. Picture six thoughts running at once — all loud, all important, all tangled together. I talk about the funny side of it, the frustrating side of it, and how I try to find some peace in the middle of the mental traffic jam. If your mind ever feels like it’s on overdrive,...

Send us Fan Mail In this special bonus episode, I’m bringing you more of my original poetry — a mix of cowboy grit, hippie soul, and Cajun rhythm. These poems tell stories of family, roots, and wide-open spaces, all wrapped in a voice that’s both tender and tough. If you loved the first poetry bonus, you’ll want to settle in for this one too. It’s heartfelt, a little wild, and full of that down-to...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Bless Your Heart, I’m Talking, we’re digging into what it means to be rooted in your community. From the people who show up when you need them most to the traditions that tie us together, community is more than just where you live—it’s where you belong. Join me as I share stories, reflections, and a little southern heart about why staying grounded in the place and peo...

Send us Fan Mail 🌙 Bonus Episode: Cowboy Boots & Hippie Dreams 🌙 In this special bonus episode of Bless Your Heart, I’m Talking, I step away from the usual rhythm of the show to share something deeply personal—my poetry. These poems tell the story of my brother and me, written in a voice that drifts somewhere between cowboy grit and hippie soul. It’s about family, memory, love, and the ties...

Send us Fan Mail Zada kicks things off with a rant about Rick being louder than a freight train during recording (again). Then we spiral into the scandalous world of tablescaping, uncover a long-lost photo of Zada’s great-grandmother (spoiler: it’s a moment), and wrap it all up with a soapbox moment on why chasing big dreams doesn’t make you “too much”—it makes you unapologetic. Basically, it&apos...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I sit down with a natural-born storyteller whose roots run deep in  Texas. From dusty backroads to front porch wisdom, they share tales that are rich with history, humor, and heart. It’s a conversation about where we come from, why stories matter, and how the past shapes the people we become. We also get a good laugh over how he met my stepdad. Join me welcoming J...

Send us Fan Mail This week’s podcast episode "Wrinkle Me This" dives into all the weird, wild, and hilarious parts of getting older. We’re talking hot flashes, brain fog, and why my knee has a mind of it's own. Come laugh with me — because if we don’t laugh, we might cry… or pee a little.  Bless my heart my hair looks like a beginner witch and my eyes have a permanent RBF.  Settle i...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I talk about two things we all avoid: saying “I’m sorry” and putting our phones down. (Both equally painful, let’s be honest.) From awkward apologies to rage-scrolling through nonsense, we’re diving into what it means to admit when you’re wrong and protect your peace — even if it means muting your cousin, logging off, or apologizing to your dog for overreacting. I...

Send us Fan Mail This week we have not one but two special guests! Zoe joins to talk about our crazy family reunion, and one of our listeners (Courtney) joins us to tell a story so good our #1 fan Reviewert_ would flip a table! Does Zoe find Jesus on the Colorado River? Does Zada find a spot in the water? Is that Johnny Cashs house Zada and Courtney spotted? Are we Tyler Childers biggest fans?  Jo...

Send us Fan Mail  This week, I’m reading the review. You know the one — the kind that makes you laugh, squint, and then wonder if your personality is a federal offense. Apparently, I’m too Southern, too opinionated, and just a little too much . And to that I say: thank you. In this episode, I break down the review, laugh through the nonsense, and talk about why women — especially Southern, middle-...

Send us Fan Mail ** Updated and audio is now correct**Let's try this conversation again but without mansplaining and unnecessary googling.  Let's be honest and real! Let's laugh and talk about mood swing, going crazy, bleeding out and those F*CKING HOT FLASHES! Join me to discuss Menopause and without the mansplaining.   Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zmamacita?ig...

Send us Fan Mail Ep: A Southern Goodbye Zada tells us about Southern goodbyes—because if you haven't said bye at least five times, did you even leave? Or if you don't talk about everything or nothing was it really a goodbye? She also vents about a few things that’ve been getting on her nerves and shares highlights from a wild and wonderful cabin weekend. Porch talk, real talk, and a whol...

Send us Fan Mail Episode 1: The Rebrand – Fillin’ Your Own Cup (and Soul) Welcome to the very first episode of  Bless My Heart, I’m Talking! New name, new logo but same Zada!  Today, we’re kickin' things off with a rebrand, a fresh start, and a little talk about what it means to really fill your own cup. (No, not with sweet tea — though that never hurts.) We're diving into how to pour in...

Send us Fan Mail We're back, Ya'll! Did you miss us as much as we missed you? Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zmamacita?igsh=MXd0MndxbjM2YXd0Mw==

Send us Fan Mail February is the month of love, so we are breaking down what it takes to grow through the many stages of love. Also, Zada gives us a recap of her birthday bash! Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zmamacita?igsh=MXd0MndxbjM2YXd0Mw==

Send us Fan Mail Zada is celebrating half a century! Kelly is drunk off tequila... Find me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/zmamacita?igsh=MXd0MndxbjM2YXd0Mw==