Blazy B

A long-closed Taco Bell in West Seattle got a full send-off complete with bagpipes, a dove release, candles, offerings, a tombstone, grieving attendees in black veils, and even a crying contest. I somehow ended up as a pallbearer carrying a literal headstone, surrounded by artists, weirdos, fashion icons, and people who absolutely understood the assignment.

This week on Blazy B, I’m talking about what happens when you get thrown into the deep end at work and have no choice but to figure it out. One coworker goes on honeymoon, everyone else is out sick, chaos erupts—and suddenly I’m juggling two jobs, learning on the fly, and surviving purely on confidence, questions, and caffeine.

You ever host friends and end up needing a full week to recover? Same. This week on Blazy B, I’m coming down from the high of an epic friend visit—mountains out, vibes immaculate, itinerary fire—and breaking down what actually makes a trip like that work. We’re talking: -Hosting vs. visiting expectations -Why “I don’t care what we do” is a lie -Money convos (yeah, we’re going there) -The magic of...

You can love your friends, hype your friends… and still feel weird when they hang out without you. Let’s talk about it. This week on Blazy B, we’re unpacking FOMO, friend group dynamics, and why your friends having other friendships isn’t a threat—it’s actually a good thing. Relax. It’s not that deep. Let your friends have friends.

What if instead of feeling jealous or left out, you became your friends’ biggest fan? In this episode of Blazy B, we’re talking about the power of surrounding yourself with people who are thriving—and choosing to celebrate them instead of competing. From travel to everyday wins, this is your reminder that empowered people empower people… and that energy is contagious.

Peace Corps friends, a frozen lake in Connecticut, a weekend-long assassin game, and a polar plunge through ice. Just another reunion with the homies. In this episode of Blazy B, I talk about the magic of keeping traditions alive, playing like kids again, and why doing things with your friends matters.

Dearest Gentle Reader, What a season that was! Benedict is such a cutie and deserved love! I absolutely love Bridgerton, how it builds so many stories and moments, and gives you the ending you're hoping for. The actors do such an incredible job conveying their emotions, it's such a beautiful thing. Are you a Bridgerton fan?

For someone who loves to explore higher frequencies and feel everything the universe has to offer, this trip hit me hard. I always thought a bad trip was just negative thoughts that got the best of you, but this was different. My thoughts were going. My throat was closing. And I basically accepted my death. Has anyone ever had an interesting experience on psychedelics that they want to share?? #ps...

Have you ever picked up an art gig from an Instagram story?? And then find out you're building dupe Amazon missiles?! And then get to see a statue of Sexy Squidward?! Well it's pretty dope. Take a listen for the full experience!

I just moved back to the PNW and I was really excited to actually date, but turns out, it's not that fun. In this episode we have a roast of the first guy I went on a date with followed by a toast to a man I met naturally.

I've been in Illinois, from Macomb to Effingham, for four years, and now it's time for a new adventure! In this time of packing and reorganizing my life for the drive home, I get to reflect on my time and everything I've accomplished. Feels great to have met wonderful people and had so many cool experiences and interactions!

How often do you use ChatGPT? And for what? I love my girl Chatty! She's been helpful and useful in so many things. From cover letter writing to planning international trips to helping read my tarot cards, she's been a huge help! Can we please just make AI better on the environment? That would be very helpful.

Have you ever thought to romanticize your life? All you have to do is shift your perspective to find beauty and joy in everyday moments, making ordinary experiences feel special and meaningful.

Where my Electric Forest people at?! What an incredible festival with so much creativity, mystery, and magic! Where else do you find a Dream Emporium full of rooms that make you forget where you are? Soooooo will I see you next year?

Are you aware of your facial reactions, whether good or bad? Have you caught yourself being disgusted by something in public? Sometimes our reactions just come out, but I think we could all be a little more gracious when reacting. Take a moment, process, and react. Watch your face.

How did I become a baker/pasty chef at a cafe without any formal training? Great question! I guess it's in my blood- the skills AND the sugar. :) I have a big sweet tooth and baking is my way of satisfying those cravings and treating others along the way!

A true friend supports your growth, respects your boundaries, shows up (emotionally and physically), celebrates your wins without competition, and accepts you even when you're not the best. I struggle with friendships, whether it be communicating or trying to get out of something because I actually just don't want to go but don't want to upset anyone. You know... the usual stuff. But we all have t...

During Peace Corps, there were a few strikes, huelgas in Spanish, that occurred. All types of people went on strike for all types of reasons, and when the people spoke, the lawmakers listened. Change would happen. But this is a story about how one strike caused a 9 hour bus stop.

I listened to the audiobook of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson and it felt like a friend was giving me life advice that I actually wanted. Someone to tell me to live life for me and choose happiness but know it's not always easy. I highly recommend this book if you're looking for a raw self-help book that empowers you to truly live. 10/10

In this episode of the Blazy B Podcast, I sit down with Wells Jones, one of the brilliant minds behind A Line in the Sand. We dive deep into the inspiration behind his gripping novel, unpacking the powerful themes, complex characters, and the raw emotions that make this book a must-read. Talking with Wells gave me insight into the Middle East through his adventure, the history unfolding before the...

As a reader of smut and lover of romcoms, I have the most extravagant expectations for romance. But does it actually happen in real life? Maybe my smut fantasies are actually coming true?! Yew! That's what I said, I said, "Yew!"

Have you ever wanted to travel internationally? DO IT!!!! Save up your money, get a passport, and go explore! There is so much to experience in the world; different cultures, foods, and lifestyles. We're all just humans on a journey through life, no matter where we live. Take a trip and experience life through a different lens. You might learn a thing or two.

After graduating with my Master's, I hit the road for some adventure and quality time with myself. My audio books, thoughts, and myself spent many of hours on the road soaking in the surrounding scenery. From HipCamps to friends' houses to my tent, I was always surrounded by wonderful nature and people. I highly recommend hitting the road and taking a drive to wherever feels right. It's an experie...

Life is constantly happening around us and we're always trying to find our place in the world through opportunities and relationships. From Nebraska to Seattle to Costa Rica to Illinois, I love having to start fresh in each place. The challenge of meeting new people and integrating into communities gives me life! Now to figure out the next move...

Weddings are a time of joy and love and connecting with friends and family. They're also a great time to meet single friends of friends that are interested in a cozy yet eventful evening. This was one such time, and it was fun, until it wasn't. I arrived excited for fun and I left feeling tense af, bruised, and hollow. How could something like this happen to me? How did I let this happen? What the...