Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)

Join me as I share my experiences as a single mother, from buying a new house to weaning my daughter, and tackling pandemic challenges. We'll laugh, reflect, and maybe even shed a tear as we discuss dating, parenting, and everything in between from a Black woman's perspective. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instag...

In this final episode of the season, host Aisha, a proud Black Single Mother by Choice (SMC), addresses listener questions about becoming and thriving as an SMC. From discussing how to break the news to family, to the right age for this journey, and the challenges faced in the fertility industry, Aisha shares her personal experiences and valuable insights. Tune in as she opens up about preparing f...

In this heartfelt episode, Aisha shares her unique perspective on navigating Father's Day as a Black Single Mother by Choice. She dives into the importance of recognizing diverse family structures, preparing children for societal norms, and celebrating the loving adults in their lives. Aisha also offers practical tips for other SMCs to handle Father's Day, emphasizing self-care and open, honest co...

Join Aisha as she dives deep into the unique experiences of Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs). In this heartfelt episode, we hear from Elise, a passionate clinic relation manager at Seattle Sperm Bank, as she shares her powerful pregnancy and childbirth story. They discuss the complexities of fertility, the realities of dating as an SMC, and the challenges faced by Black women in medical advoc...

In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha is joined by guest hosts Angela and Michelle for part two of their discussion on adoption. Explore the complexities and nuances of adopting as a Black SMC, from domestic infant adoption to international and kinship adoption. Delve into real-life experiences, the importance of building a supportive village, and gain crucial insigh...

Exploring Adoption Paths for Black Single Mothers by Choice In this enlightening episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha, the former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, dives into the intricate world of adoption from the perspective of a Black single mother by choice. Joined by Angela, a software sales executive who adopted via Domestic Infant Adoption, and Michelle, an exp...

Join host Aisha and special guest Simone, a teacher, entrepreneur, and former doula, as they dive deep into setting and managing expectations as Black Single Mothers by Choice. Simone shares her personal journey, from performing an at-home IUI to facing unexpected challenges during childbirth and the realities of balancing motherhood with personal setbacks. They discuss the importance of realistic...

  In this engaging episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha teams up with Safara, a 28-year-old single mom by choice, to delve into the intricacies of using a known donor. They cover crucial topics such as finding the right donor, red flags to look out for, and the importance of thorough vetting. Safara shares her personal experiences, including the significance of open co...

Join Aisha as she reminisces about her travel adventures and shares valuable tips for fellow Black SMCs. In this episode, Aisha discusses everything from planning vacations, the importance of childcare during trips, to essential packing hacks. She also provides practical advice for navigating long international flights. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood...

In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha, a former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, shares her personal journey of becoming a mother by choice as a Black woman. She discusses the joys and challenges faced, from fertility struggles and financial planning to the dynamics of raising two children as a single mother. Aisha provides valuable insights on managing daycare...

In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha shares the importance of estate planning for SMCs and her own personal experiences with health scares. She provides practical advice on setting up wills, guardianship, life insurance, and more to ensure your children are well taken care of in case the unexpected happens. Tune in to gain vital insights on preparing for the future...

In this heartfelt episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha, a former host of MOCA SMC, shares her personal journey as a single Black mother navigating the challenges of the pandemic. From the initial shock to balancing work, homeschooling, and childcare in a two-bedroom apartment, Aisha provides an honest look at her experiences. She discusses the hard realities of fertility an...

This episode delves into the medical aspects of being an SMC, including important diagnostics, complications, and the significance of advocating for yourself. Learn about the realities of fertility issues, pregnancy challenges, and the importance of having a supportive medical team and community. Don't miss out on these invaluable insights and tips! Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice...

In this episode, Aisha shares personal stories about fertility, dating, and parenting while providing valuable insights into the dynamics of choosing a donor, the importance of self-awareness in relationships, and setting boundaries. Aisha also offers practical tips on balancing single motherhood with dating, what to look for in a partner, and how to maintain a healthy family space. Tune in for an...

In this episode,  Aisha discusses the unique challenges and joys of this non-traditional path, including donor selection, handling societal judgments, and the importance of embracing the SMC lifestyle fully. She also delves into the systemic issues contributing to the low numbers of Black donors and the cultural significance of these choices. Join Aisha for an insightful conversation and don't for...

In this episode, Aisha, a former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, delves into the nuanced journey of being a Black single mother by choice. She discusses various conception methods like IUI, IVF, and ICI, the associated costs, success rates by age, and the financial realities of fertility treatments. Aisha shares her personal experiences and the surprising elements she discovered during her...

Join Aisha, a former host of Mocha Single Mothers by Choice, as she shares her journey and insights on becoming a mother by choice as a Black woman. From fertility challenges to the realities of dating and parenting solo, Aisha's story is both inspiring and informative. Tune in to explore the unique experiences and intentionality behind being a Single Mother by Choice and challenge the societal no...

Welcome to the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast! This thoughtfully edited series extracts the individual contributions from an original co-hosted podcast that aired from January 2021 to November 2022. The Aisha shares her SMC journey, supported by her close friends, and reflects on how the pandemic shaped her experience as a solo parent. She also introduces her second podcast series, Start t...