Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)

In this final episode of season 3, Aisha discusses the overwhelming experiences many Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) face as their children transition into more demanding school environments. With a dive into the challenges of balancing different developmental stages with career planning, the impact of the pandemic on children's behavior, and the complexities of planning summer activities. Listen...

In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha and special guest Abby, founder of Peaceful Parent Sleep Coaching, explore the intricacies and emotional journey of embryo donation. Abby shares her personal experiences as an SMC, detailing the process and evolving relationships born from donation. This heartfelt conversation also covers practical aspects like financial and...

This episode opens with a candid discussions on consent, dating, and communication. Join Aisha and a panel of insightful Black Single Mothers by Choice as they continue their conversation on parenting tween and delve into the intricacies of crucial topics such as teaching body autonomy, handling conversations about consent, and the evolving nature of dating as a single mother. With personal anecdo...

Navigating Tweenhood and Parenthood as a Black Single Mother by Choice In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha welcomes Jennifer, Joy, and Yana to discuss the unique challenges and joys of parenting tweens. From school dynamics and social pressures to the evolving understanding of familial structures and puberty, this episode dives deep into the real, unfiltered e...

Join Aisha in her conversation with Michelle, a 50-year-old single mother by choice and a Foreign Service professional, as she shares her heartfelt and candid journey of raising her son, Aiden, overseas. From choosing the right sperm donor to the logistical challenges of living abroad, Michelle's story touches on the unique experiences and challenges faced by Black Single Mothers by Choice. Her ad...

In this episode, Aisha dives into  the importance of mask-wearing for her children, the logistical challenges of parenting solo, and the misconceptions about Black single mothers. Hear how she balances it all while advocating for greater representation and addressing the need for more Black sperm donors. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channel...

    In this heartfelt episode, Dominique shares her candid journey of becoming a new mom, navigating postpartum depression, and balancing work responsibilities. She opens up about her egg donation experience at age 21 and the emotional complexities involved. Dominique and the host discuss the stigma around fertility treatments and the need for more representation and openness in these conversation...

  Join us for our special Black History Month episode, where we dive into the importance of Black History Month in parenting, being Black women, and as creatives. We explore how schools address Blackness, share personal stories, and discuss cultural appropriation in various industries. We also highlight notable Black figures like Mary Beeches Davidson Kenner and Dr. Percy LaVon Julian. Tune in for...

In this episode, Toja and Toni Jackson, proud mothers of twins, share their diverse experiences in raising boys—from addressing gender anxiety to handling potty training, and from experiencing the unique dynamics of barbershops to dealing with the ongoing conversations around race in a post-George Floyd era. They discuss the importance of male role models, instilling self-esteem in their children,...

  In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the tumultuous yet rewarding journey of motherhood and self-care as an SMC (Single Mother by Choice). We candidly discuss the challenges of balancing personal wellness with the demands of parenting, from the constant bedtime routines to the loss of pre-kid leisure time. Tune in to explore strategies for self-care amidst the chaos, the importance of setting...

In this inspiring episode, we delve into the challenges and triumphs of Black single mothers who choose motherhood on their own terms. Join us as we share personal stories, provide practical advice, and foster a supportive community for those navigating this unique path. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pa...

Creating Lasting Memories and Traditions as a Black Single Mother by Choice In this heartfelt episode, Aisha, a former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, shares her journey and experiences as a Black single mother by choice. She discusses holiday traditions, gift-giving strategies, and the challenges and joys of parenting solo. This episode also touches on the emotional aspects of the holiday...

This episode explores the profound impact of representation across various aspects of life, especially in media and entertainment. Aisha shares personal insights into the importance of Black visibility, recounting conversations with her children about seeing themselves on screen and highlighting notable TV shows that got it right and others still on their journey. Tune in for an engaging discussio...

Aisha shares personal stories about dating, parenting, and the importance of finding balance through self-care. She also provides insights from recent conferences and highlights the need for more diversity in these spaces. Listen in for candid discussions, funny anecdotes, and hard truths about SMC life. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood...

In today's episode, we're switching things up and sharing some fun facts and personal favorites. From playlist reveals to streaming queues, and comfort foods to self-care routines, we dive deep into lighter subjects that give you a peek into our everyday lives. Plus, we share some candid advice for our younger selves and quirky thoughts on a zombie apocalypse. Don't miss out on this engaging chat!...

Join Aisha, as she answers some additional questions sent in by listeners,  She offers heartfelt advice and practical tips. She also discusses exposing children to diverse activities and the importance of counseling sessions. Stay tuned till the end for insights on handling unsolicited advice and maintaining your peace. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to F...

  In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha opens up about the challenges and triumphs of preparing for the 2021 school year amid the ongoing pandemic. From the anxieties of managing household health to ensuring her children's academic success, Aisha shares candid insights and practical tips for SMC households. Join her as she discusses COVID-19 protocols, the impor...

In this episode Aisha answers more of your questions shared through her persona lens and offers insights e importance of finding diverse and affirming books for children, staying resilient in the face of societal expectations, and nurturing children's unique interests and potential. Tune in for an engaging and heartfelt discussion, and make sure to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice a...

Exploring SMC Life Through a Black Woman’s Lens: Insights from Aisha and Rosanna Hertz In this episode, Aisha, former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, and Rosanna Hertz, professor of sociology and women's and gender studies at Wellesley College, discuss the unique challenges and rewards of being a Black single mother by choice. They delve into fertility, dating, parenting, and the intricacie...

In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha shares her unique perspective and experiences as a Black Single Mother by Choice (SMC). From financial planning and navigating childcare options to the emotional and practical realities of raising children solo, Aisha offers invaluable insights for current and aspiring SMCs. Tune in to get tips on budgeting, fertility, and balanc...

  In this heartfelt episode Aisha and Kimberly share their personal journeys of becoming single mothers by choice. Kimberly recounts her path to motherhood, from dealing with fibroids and infertility treatments to the joys and challenges of raising her daughter, Meridian, solo. The episode highlights the importance of support systems, the realities of fertility struggles, and the resilience requir...

Join Aisha, and guest Alease Daniel, a young and passionate embryologist, as they dive deep into the unique challenges and joys faced by Black single mothers by choice (SMCs). Elise explains her journey into embryology, the intricacies of egg retrieval, embryo grading, and the vital role of sperm analysis, all from a scientific and relatable perspective. Whether you're considering this non-traditi...

In this episode, I share my experiences as a Black SMC, delve into the challenges and joys of dating while being the sole caregiver, and discuss the realities of parenthood. I talk about managing dating profiles, the importance of updated photos, and setting realistic expectations. I also explore love languages, the significance of acts of service, and the need for honesty in relationships. Listen...

Navigating the Challenges and Joys of Single Motherhood by Choice with Aisha Join Aisha, as she dives into the everyday adventures and challenges of being a Black single mother by choice. From navigating picture day drama with her daughter Noelle to reflecting on how past traumas shape her parenting style, Aisha offers a candid glimpse into her life. She shares poignant insights about the struggle...

  Join Aisha and Jane as they delve into the unique journey of being a Black Single Mother by Choice. From the challenges and joys of single motherhood to the intricacies of donor insemination and the evolution of a supportive community, this episode offers heartfelt insights and practical advice. Don't miss Jane's reflections on the legacy of SMCs and the importance of empowering women to make co...