Black Millennial Marriage

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey discusses what being a present father means to him and details his frustration with men who don’t honor their responsibility. Later, he talks about the impact of his father’s absence and then he polls the audience with a question. Before the episode ends, he answers questions ranging from what he would change abo...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts It’s been a long time coming, but Randie’s back to work. In this episode, she reveals how loss, chaos, and fear caused her to lose her way and forget her intentions. However, she later explains how Mikey’s coding bootcamp endeavor encouraged her to bet on herself again. Later, the couple discuss the talk she had with God and how she fo...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back with an indie, and in this episode she discusses a topic that’s been highly requested–her loc journey. She reveals why she decided to loc her hair, talks about the push back she got from her mom, what locs taught her about patience and confidence, and finally she shares her favorite care tips. Later, she gives some advice...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Yes, Mikey and Randie have been together for a long time and yes they like and love one another, but that doesn’t mean being together is easy. Still, for some strange reason, some people assume that the work they do for their relationship is easy and lacks stressors, fears, worries, and concerns. That’s why in this episode, the Chapman...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this Indie episode, Mikey talks about Lyft: how it feels to stop driving and the toll it was taking on him. Later he provides tips for anyone considering driving as a side hustle. Before the episode ends, during the Q&A, he reveals if he would raise Drew in Guyana, talks about how he would spend his last 24 hrs if there was an a...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Should you put up with any old thing just because you’re married? Mikey and Randie refuse. And in this episode the Chapmans detail all the things marriage is NOT (in their opinion). They take a hard look at key parts of marital vows: “For richer or poorer,” “In sickness and health,” “For better or worse,” and, “Till death do us part,”...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode Randie explains how her relationship with her sister impacted her relationship with other women. She later reveals how she’s been complicit in her bad friendship experiences, and then she let’s listeners in on other things she’s learning to accept about herself. Before the episode ends, she answers some fun questions ra...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey promised he’d come back with a job and he did! In this episode the couple talk about the professional and personal process Mikey went through for his new position. Later, the couple reveal if they thought the bootcamp and everything they went through was all worth it and true to Chapman fashion–it gets emotional. Before the end o...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey’s back with a solo episode, and for this installment he talks all things therapy. He lets listeners in on why he started therapy, how going has impacted him, his marriage, and his thinking, and finally he lists three reasons he believes you or someone you know should take the leap and seek counseling. Later Mikey answers question...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Lamar Odom’s girlfriend made him give it up, and every now and then someone reveals to IG that they’ve caught their partner watching porn porn. So in this episode, Mikey and Randie decide to talk about the subject themselves. They both reveal an embarrassing story, discuss their pros and cons, share the impact on their relationship, an...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie did a thing too! For her Indie episode she discusses why she became a writer, what her family and friends think, and what she’s doing now. Later she answers questions ranging from why she put up with Mikey’s mess way back in the day to the meaning of her tattoos. Drew even makes a cameo! Just so you know . . . the mister made he...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Randie reads a listener’s love story that started at Sonics, involves a little head, and ends in a lasting marriage. Later, Mikey and Randie answer a listener’s question that reveals why they got married and also why they believe millennials are shying away from the commitment. Before the episode’s end, the Chapmans hy...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey did a thing! He created the first of the Chapman’s “Indie Episode” series and he hopes you enjoy. In this episode he discusses plans for future episodes and later gives you a taste of things to come. Before he closes he answers a few questions and exposes a secret he can no longer hide. Are you excited to add 1/2 of this millenni...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans are back, and they missed everyone! To celebrate their return they play a game of “Would You Rather?” The episode is reminiscent of the earlier days and is sure to remind you of why you love the duo. During the game Mikey threatens violence, and Randie wonders if they’re in hell, and that’s just the beginning. There’s enou...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Before their pod break, Mikey and Randie are bringing all the emotions. You’re not crying, they are. In this episode, the couple open up about the disconnect between them. Mikey thinks he’s failing as a dad, Randie thinks she’s failing as a wife, and both of their therapists disagree. But before they get into it, the Chapmans lead with...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Thinking about participating in a coding program? If so, this episode is for you. In this installment of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast, the Chapmans discuss whether they thought Mikey’s program was worth it, and how it impacted their family. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight about Mikey’s non-sex intimacy strike and they e...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts It’s all fun and games, until your spouse’s sister calls you evil. At least, that’s the case for a listener who wrote in. In this episode, Mikey and Randie discuss an email they received. They detail what protecting each other from family and friends looks like, and reveal their thoughts about keeping family in and out their business....

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts It’s been real rough lately, but Mikey and Randie don’t want to talk about that. Instead, they want to talk about . . . you. In this special episode, they respond to listener feedback and shout out the fight or flight stories the Patreon fam submitted. Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie have a cold, but they don’t plan to leave you hanging. Not only do they have a memory lane episode for your pleasure, but before the flashback they have a gift for all who tune in.  Are you excited to add this millennial couple to your list of relationship favorites? Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and where...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Remember the Chapman’s 21 day sex challenge? Yea. They failed. Don’t worry though–they will explain. In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how and why they failed, who they think the challenge is best for, and what they plan to do moving forward. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that blames Randie for his anxiety, and then they...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Anybody catch THAT Black Mirror episode? You know the one. SPOILER ALERT: In this episode the couple discuss why Black Mirror’s Striking Vipers had them up talking all night. Mikey and Randie also reveal why they believe the story is a cautionary tale for married folks and later they discuss what they took from the show. Before the epi...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie recorded this episode at 2:00am and Mikey has no idea. Why? Because it’s Father’s Day and he deserves something grand. In this unique episode, Randie details her relationship with Father’s Day in the past, why she struggled to come up with something for Mikey this year, and what she ultimately plans to do for him on this special...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode the couple discuss their experience with unsolicited advice/opinions from people about their parenting while also detailing how this experience translates in everyday relationships. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that Randie quickly flees, and they end the episode with some PDA. Are you excited to add this millen...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts If trust is earned then why doesn’t Mikey have Randie’s? And is it a trust issue or a vulnerability one? Maybe it’s all the same thing? In this episode the Chapmans do their best to figure it out. They start by defining vulnerability, trust, and faith, and later the Mrs. reads a journal entry. It’s a tough conversation, but the couple...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode the couple detail what they would do in 6 hypothetical situations ranging from Mikey finding out he has a 16 year old son 5 years from now and Randie being forced to kill off a family member. Later Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to explain her use of coconut oil during their sex challenge, and as always th...