Black Millennial Marriage

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Come! Take a load off with Randie. In this Indie episode, featuring just herself, the more hydrated half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast realizes she does not have the mental and emotional bandwidth to go as deep as she usually does. Quarantine be like that sometimes! Instead, Randie reflects on the little graces she’s discove...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his second Indie Episode of Season 2! This time Mikey discusses his goals and plans for after this quarantine ends. He shares his plans as a husband, as a father, and an individual, shouts out his all-time favorite basketball player, answers some questions, and leaves the audience with a little something extra at the...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts **RE-UPLOADED** In this episode the Chapmans share how the season 2 launch of the podcast triggered bigger concerns. Together Mikey and Randie discuss how not seeing one another on the social media feed gave truth to a bigger problem. That problem? They have not prioritized, invested time, or attempted to memorialize their relationship...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie was not going to share this episode with the public, but her intentions for herself called for real life bravery. For her first Indie back, the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast talks about needing Mikey. But, doesn’t everyone? Yes. No? Randie details how she has shrunk her needs as a wife for fear of conflic...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts What a time to be alive, right? In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss the ways the Coronavirus pandemic has already changed their life. From realizing that they’re blessed to having to accept that they should have deleted some people from their social media a long time ago, the Chapmans also share what this time in isolation is teac...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey is back with his first Indie Episode of Season 2! For his first episode back Mikey details a timeline of his love life and how it ultimately lead to the person he is and how seriously he takes his duties as a father and husband. He shares how his late mentor shaped his emotional maturity, shouts out some men and women he apprecia...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans are BACK for Season 2! The theme? Plot twists. For their first episode back Mikey and Randie talk about sex. But wait! There’s no tears, no disgruntlement, or deep conversations, only laughs and a little shade. Together, they ask each other questions ranging from, “What’s your most embarrassing moment in bed,” “Has my rank...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Would you rather your kid get suspended for kissing or losing a fight? In this Patreon archived episode, the Chapmans answer this question and more. The results are as silly as you’d expect. Tune in to this throwback and let them know what you think. And remember, season 2 of BMM airs April 5th, but until then the couple will share arc...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts When Randie was pregnant, the Chapmans didn’t celebrate too much. Fear and worry took over and they were slow to show real excitement about Drew until…the baby shower. So for this Patreon archive, the couple take it all the way back to the day their family and friends got together to acknowledge new life. The party had everything from...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this Patreon archive episode, the Chapmans throw it back to an oldie but a goodie and share what it was like to have 5 hours together, for the first time after having Drew. Mikey and Randie had a little time to do whatever they wanted and they lived it up like back in college…kinda. Later, they talk about meeting Beleaf of Beleaf in...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this Patreon archive episode, the Chapmans answer an age-old question. Will they beat Drew? Before answering, the couple share their personal experiences with whoopings. Randie describes the last time she and her sister got in trouble together and Mikey discusses those infamous back-of-the-neck slaps. It’s funny, but it’s not. Fact...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts It’s clear Drew got here safely, but haven’t you ever wondered about the final moments of Randie’s birth story? In this episode, never released to the public, the Chapmans detail the Mrs’s c-section. They also discuss the hospital stay in the midst of Mikey’s program, and more. Later, the Chapmans shower each other with PDA and they ho...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie aren’t back yet, but they do have an extra special episode to share with you from the Raising Rebels podcast. Parenting is a team sport: In this episode, Raising Rebels host Noleca Radway talks about co-parenting. How do you maintain healthy relationships with your partner while also sharing the responsibilities of par...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts IT’S THE END OF THE LONGEST SEASON EVER! Whew. Hindsight is 2020, and in this episode, the Chapmans discuss their almost two years of podcasting, how, why, and when they realized they needed an official season break and pod revamp, and finally what their plans for season two entail. Together, Mikey and Randie reveal their fears about c...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back with the last Indie of the year and season of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. In this episode, she takes a break from talking about the hard things, and reveals the 5 best things that happened to her in 2019. From Drew’s birth to finding a community with her gang-gang, Randie uses this episode to honor the things a...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans get lots of emails, but this one takes the cake. In this episode, the couple respond and react to a listener’s request to have sex with Randie, then they ponder the cons of having a podcast, reveal the deeper conversation the email sparked, and finally the couple set some boundaries for listeners. Later, Mikey brings a fig...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey discusses struggles with his confidence and possible solutions. Later he reveals the meaning of his tattoos and one thing he’s tried that he’ll never try again, and finally he discusses three movies he never gets tired of watching. This episode was tough and therapeutic for the worn out half of the Black Millenni...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Whew. It’s been a year and in this episode the Chapmans talk about it. Mikey and Randie provide a broad overview of what happened between December 2018 to now and have their first relationship check-in since episode 026. Together the couple rate communication, money, sex, the podcast, vacation, and their 9 months as parents to Drew, an...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back and so is her libido. In this episode, the Mrs. details how weaning Drew, Mikey’s presence, quitting distractions, and remembering that pleasure is for women revived her sex drive. Later, she talks about a weird family pattern, reviews her first month on the job, and reveals how Groot and Drew met another. Are you excited...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts The Chapmans are back from their break with a new episode. In this installment of the BMM podcast, Mikey and Randie discuss if they find other people attractive, and if they think it’s realistic to only have eyes for your spouse. Both of them share an experience with flirting before and now that they’re married, and the conversation is...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts In this episode, Mikey discusses the people who have influenced him for the better and the impact of Randie’s kind words. Later, he talks about the conditions that led him to finally taking his leap of faith. Before the episode ends, he answers questions ranging from Coke or Pepsi, advice for fathers who are stretched thin, and more. T...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts A year later, and Mikey and Randie are back with another round of relationship horror stories submitted by . . . you. Included are your tales about a crazy ex tricking a locksmith and trashing the place, sex with a Nazi, a group text gone wrong, and more. The Chapmans couldn’t have been more entertained. Your transparency and humor has...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Randie’s back with her last indie before the pod break, and in this episode she reveals four things “the bottom” has taught her. She’s learned that accepting gifts is a form of vulnerability, how to be a better friend, and more. Later, she fantasizes about what she would buy if she had all the money in the world, confesses what she’s f...

Listen to us on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher | Google Podcasts Mikey and Randie enjoy talking about their relationship, their truths, fails, and triumphs, but more than anything they enjoy talking about . . . you. With just one more episode to go before their break, the Chapmans respond to listener feedback, share voicemails, talk about that time Mikey’s foot got ran over, and respond to listener...