Black and White Thinking

In today's episode we're diving deep into the age-old question: Can you truly fall in love without seeing someone? 🤍 In a world dominated by dating apps and reality shows, it's a hot topic worth exploring! Here’s what you can expect: In this episode: 02:01 This week’s topic: Is Love Really Blind? 05:44 Can you fall in love with someone without seeing them? 08:51 Even King Henry VIII got catfished...

Unpacking the Elvis movie: Is it a tribute or just a cash grab? 🎤💰 Join us as we dive deep into its impact, influences, and whether it's worth your time! Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 05:08 Rating the Elvis movie 08:45 Elvis doesn’t really influence artists today 13:47 Honour your genre's roots, don’t steal from them 21:06 Elvis movie was made just to make mon...

In this episode, we dive deep into the tough questions around cancel culture, ethics in art, and whether we can (or should) separate artists from their personal history. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. Highlights include: 05:53 Why is prosecution happening now after so long? 08:09 This argument doesn’t really matter 12:53 Can bad morals outweigh good music for you? 18:56 Consuming...

We dive deep into the hygiene debate. Is showering daily necessary or overrated? We explore cultural perspectives, personal habits, and even dig into why different communities might approach cleanliness differently. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 02:22 This week’s topic: Should You Shower Everyday? 02:55 It’s a thing for White people to not shower everyday 05:57...

Today, G and I talk about everything Oasis: The reunion, Rock music, ticket prices in the early 2000’s vs now Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 02:25 This week’s topic: Oasis Surge Pricing Fair? 05:34 Oasis are not that special   10:44 They should ensure affordability for all age groups 13:27 Oasis reunion sure is just for show 20:51 Noel & Liam just d...

Today we are talking about something we both love almost as much as we love ourselves: FOOD   We discuss our palettes, and I am sure you’d be surprised by what you hear 👀  Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 03:21 This week’s topic: Who Decides What You Eat 08:33 G doesn’t have a choice between plain and spiced meal 16:29 Chik’s palette is more plain and le...

Today we have tackled a very tough subject about the things going on in the UK & Ireland. A lot of misinformation has given fire to a lot of unnecessary hurt for people who do not deserve it. In this episode: 03:13 This week’s topic: Political Protests or Racist Riots? 03:40 Where did it start from? 08:31 People claiming asylum aren’t allowed to get paid work 12:48 Immigrants are given differe...

Knowing FULL well that we don't have a say in the election coming up in November we get a bit political in this episode. Since our for you and explore pages have been full with the American election. PS. This was filmed before Biden took his name off the ticket. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 00:25 Topic: Trump vs. Biden 03:23 There might be shady organisations i...

We discuss a topic that has been trending currently and no surprise that we both have different opinions on this particular topic, which shows how we’ve experienced life from different points of view. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 01:00 This week's topic: Man vs. Bear 05:40 The population of criminal men has a small percentage of the overall population of men 10...

Whilst we like to keep these podcasts light hearted and fun, we think it’s important to discuss important topics we cover in our day to day life. Neither of us grew up with family openly talking about finances or female breadwinners, never mind prenups.  Hopefully, our views open a discussion that might one day protect someone whether or not you are for or against prenups. Subscribe for new e...

If you know us you know we love movies, music and comedy so this episode really got us thinking about why these are our loves. We really do need to give a huge shout out to local N.I comedians, especially for inspiring us with their creativity. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 01:10 This week’s topic: Stand Up Comedy VS Movies 07:28 Comedy standards are better in I...

Whilst someone cleary came dressed letting us know where her heart lay, this was still a really interesting debate! Who would you pick? Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 00:38 This week’s topic: Dancehall VS Afro Beats 01:53 Difference of Dancehall and Afro Beats 05:00 Modern dancehall and afro beats artists are more commercialised 11:36 Dancehall has more variety 1...

BeyHive vs Swifties - which side are you on? I think we surprised each other on this one 👀 Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 00:42 This week’s topic: Beyonce vs Taylor Swift 03:37 Taylor Swift and Beyonce are both greedy 05:10 Beyonce’s new album is awful 06:22 Taylor Swift’s NPR was crap 10:41 Taylor Swift’s music is the same all the time 19:45 Reddit Relevant lin...

Zambia vs Ireland, potatoes vs nshima, which will win? Spoiler alert, you’re dealing with two stubborn people who didn’t expect to talk about their native foods for so long 🤣 Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 00:35 This week’s topic: Potatoes Vs Nshima 01:54 What is Nshima? 13:47 Is potato a superior ingredient? 15:18 Most African and Asian households are not taugh...

An easily divisive topic but as a black Zambian born Brit, dating a white Northern Ireland born Irish man (what a tongue twister…), what are our views on the island of Ireland?  Leave your thoughts in the comments below! Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 01:07 Topic this week: United Ireland: For or Against 01:42 Quick history of Ireland 06:43 Do Protestants an...

We might have met on a dating app but we don’t agree on which one we would get rid of… In this episode: 01:42 Today’s topic: Online vs Real Life Dating 07:52 G’s first impression 16:15 Pros and cons of dating 16:45 How do you view the concept of dating apps? 25:28 What do you think about being set up with someone? Relevant links:  Chik & G Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/lifebyc...

Would you pay your spouse's family to marry them? Not going to lie, we thought this would be a quick discussion but introducing someone to your culture & traditions, especially when there can be negative connotations means sometimes you need to come back to certain conversations. Will G pay a bride price? Will Chik find a happy compromise? Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In th...

What happens when you mix two foodies and two cultures? Some very strong opinions that’s what! Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 02:26 Today’s topic: Zambian food vs Irish food 03:18 What is Nshima? 08:06 Irish stew is like dog food 23:46 Does all Zambian cuisine have tomato and onion in it? Relevant links: Chik & G Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifebychik...

Whilst we might not have followed tradition by moving in together before marriage, we are quite a traditional couple. It just happens that we have chosen a slightly different path to marriage which for both of us was mostly about making sure we were actually in a healthy relationship before committing. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 01:12 This week’s topic: Marri...

Did you know there are two Black History months? Do we need any Black History Months? Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 02:11 This week’s topic: Black History Month [02:11] 02:58 What’s the point of Black History Month? [02:58] 04:33 G thinks it’s silly [04:33] 07:09 The only African history taught in G’s schools was the ancient Egyptians [07:09] 08:43 Are we all ta...

If you know anything about the island of Ireland you will know that religion can be a touchy subject however, not for us!  As an atheist and a catholic, we made it a point to discuss expectations for weddings, kids etc. moving forward - some of our choices may actually surprise you… Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 01:35 Today’s topic: Catholic VS Protestant [...

What do you get when you mix a white Irish atheist man with a black Zambian-born Brit on the island of Ireland? You find yourself constantly talking about tradition even when you don’t realise so here’s a sneak peek into how we manage traditions in our home. Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 02:12 Intro to topic: Traditions [02:12] 03:46 Why G is against traditions...

Christmas for many will bring up many emotions for people. For some, it’s a reminder of those they have loved and lost and for others, it’s the most magical time of the year, excuse the pun… Are we getting rid of Christmas in the Fiseko/Whiteside household? What traditions will we be upholding and the most important question of them all (thanks Reddit), how should couples split their finances?! 00...

We decided to start this podcast with real hard-hitting topics… Episode 1 is filled with twists and turns. From bread to black vs POC and a fantastic “should this relationship end”, you’re in for quite the rollercoaster.   Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday. In this episode: 00:58 Intro to topic Brown Vs White Bread [00.58] 08:45 Which one’s better [08:45] 9:21 Next topic: T...

Introducing the Black and White Thinking podcast aka #BAWT! Black and White Thinking is a podcast hosted by Chik & G, a Belfast-based couple who accidentally started working together after going viral. BAWT speaks to millennial males and females by covering topics that ultimately need you to make a decision on which side you’re on because let's be honest, our world can sometimes be a bit too c...