B(irl) Meets World

Mentally I’m better than I was last year, but spending the holidays away from family and friends can be a bit hard for sure when you’re abroad. But I made it a point to hunt the good stuff

Talking a bit about my experiences I’ve had being a black woman in Eastern Europe. Also, did a semi introduction for new folks and to explain my change in topics I want to address

Representation in film matters, but there are limits imo

WHY TF AS A WOMAN YOU CUTTIN YOUR TITTIES OFF. But on a lighter note let’s talk about them gay pastors.

This episode concludes the season tbh. Gonna start summer with new topics, other non lgbt based topics, and might even start bringing on guests. I gave a quick update on me and I spoke ever so briefly on pride month and the weird activities the lgbt///others community got going on.

As a lesbian I think we’ve all had our strange encounters with men, or interacted with a man who just gave weirdo vibes. I don’t understand why it’s such a hard concept for some men to accept, or why some men think they can change a lesbian into a straight woman.

I feel that when you take out sexual intimacy, that could either make or break your relationship. It could reveal to you what your relationship is missing, and if you and your partner are truly for one another or not.

I don’t care how nobody feels about it, you’re a weirdo if you date somebody that can’t even sit at the bar and drink with you ESPECIALLY if you’re over the age of 28 😂. Because that’s lowkey:high key predatory behavior and we gonna talk about it.

What’s funny is we move fast af when getting to a know a person, but still be slow moving when it comes to leaving our exes alone it truly moving on 😮‍💨. Why we can’t just take our time and not rush “love”?!

Why as lesbians and women who date women, do we put stigmas on certain identities in the community?! Why do we tell the next person what they can, or can’t be?! Why do we assume someone’s identity based off clothes?! In a community where we just want to be accepted without judgment, we do the most judging 🤦🏾‍♀️

As a lesbian, how tf you don’t want to practice simple hygiene? Wash them hands and wash them toys, tf! Clip them nails and brush that tongue of yours 🙄

Make it make sense?! If we both girls then how tf can either of us be the man? I understand being masculine presenting, or feminine presenting but BFFR

One thing about a lesbian, especially a stud, is THEM HOES gonna cheat. I don’t get the infidelity and disloyalty that’s so prevalent in the lesbian community frfr.

Personally I can’t be mad at a man for being attracted, but at the same time I can be mad at the disrespect that comes with them hitting on me knowing I don’t get down like that.

In this community it seems we have so many rules about this and that and who can do what, when and how…fuxx that, let’s talk about it. I’m sick of all these dxmn rules we got in our community. Who tf wants to live in a box and stay there?! Aht aht