Beyond Your Number

How does an Enneagram Four communicate? In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the creative, emotional, and deeply authentic style of Fours — and what it means to truly be with them in conversation. Whether you are a 4 or love one, this episode helps you understand their inner world, and how to connect with empathy, not just answers. In This Episode: The superpower of Fours: authenticity in emot...

How do you respond to change? In our 100th episode, we explore how each Enneagram type handles change — from resistance to adventure — and why it matters. Plus, a big shift is coming for the podcast (and we finally reveal it). How do you respond to change? In our 100th episode, we explore how each Enneagram type handles change — from resistance to adventure — and why it matters. Plus, a big shift...

In this episode of EnneagramU, we explore how different Enneagram types communicate, focusing specifically on Type 1. We discuss the strengths and challenges of Type 1 communication, including their tendency to be precise and honest, but also potentially critical. We also provide tips on how to effectively communicate with Type 1 individuals, emphasizing the importance of active listening and gent...

Last time, we used ChatGPT and Marvel characters to guess Blake’s Enneagram type. This time, he took the official WEPSS test — and the result was not what we expected. Why did AI miss it? And what does that reveal about typing, personality, and self-awareness? Follow us on Apple Podcasts and leave a review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enneagramu/id1691530997 Follow us on Spotify and leav...

This week on EnneagramU, we embark on a unique journey of self-discovery with special guest Blake Fontinel , as he takes a Marvel-Themed CHATGPT Enneagram quiz LIVE on the show . Through a series of fun questions comparing Blake's personality to Marvel characters, we guide him towards uncovering his potential Enneagram type.  Next week we will reveal his true type based on a professional asse...

This week we explored the true self and false self of Enneagram types 7, 8, and 9. We discussed how each type can move from their false self tendencies (like avoidance of pain for 7s, denying vulnerability for 8s, and avoiding conflict for 9s) back to their true selves through practices like sobriety, innocence, and taking action. We provide insights into the core struggles of these types and offe...

This week we continued our exploration of true self vs. false self for each Enneagram type, focusing on types 4, 5, and 6. We discussed how these types can recognize when they're operating from their false self, and explored practical ways they can return to their true self, including processing emotions, practicing detachment, and cultivating courage. This episode is helpful for understandin...

In this episode of EnneagramU, we explore the concept of true self vs. false self for Enneagram types 1, 2, and 3. We discuss how each type can recognize when they're operating from their false self, and provide practical guidance on how they can return to their true self. Discover practical strategies and valuable insights to help these personality types increase self-awareness and authentic...

In this week's episode we explore the concept of true self vs. false self, discussing how we often lose touch with our authentic selves and live from a place of false identity.  Then we delve into how childhood experiences and societal conditioning can lead us to develop a false self, and why reconnecting with our true essence is crucial for living a fulfilling life.  This week gain valuable...

In this episode, we introduce the concepts of true self and false self, explaining how the Enneagram can be used as a tool to recognize and move away from false self behaviors. We discuss how each Enneagram triad (gut, heart, and head) tends to struggle with different aspects of false self, such as power, popularity, and provision. We want to identify areas of exhaustion in our lives as a way to u...

In this episode we discuss Nines and those who work with them. We explore how Nines bring a peaceful, diplomatic "glue" to teams while also discussing their challenges with inertia and goal-setting. By sharing personal experiences and practical strategies, we aim to help Nines leverage their strengths and overcome obstacles in their professional lives, making this episode a must-listen f...

In this episode, we discuss what it's like to work with Enneagram Type 8 personalities. We explore the strengths of Eights as leaders and decision-makers, while also examining some of their potential blind spots in the workplace. We offer practical suggestions for Eights to be more effective leaders and team members, including being mindful of others' perspectives, expressing appreciatio...

In this episode, we explore how Enneagram Type 7 personalities function in the workplace. We discuss their strengths, such as creativity, positivity, and problem-solving abilities, as well as potential challenges they may face. We discuss insights on how to work effectively with Type 7s and offer advice for Type 7s on finding fulfilling careers and maintaining balance, making this a valuable liste...

We're back with another episode, and this time we're diving into the world of Sixes. You know, those loyal, hardworking teammates who always have our backs? Yeah, those folks! Sixes are the ultimate security-seekers, which can be both a blessing and a curse. They're great at spotting risks and keeping us all safe, but sometimes they might need a little nudge to step out of their com...

In this episode of EnneagramU, we dive into how Enneagram Type 5s operate in the workplace. We explore their strengths as analytical thinkers and information gatherers, as well as some challenges they may face. We discuss how Fives approach tasks with independence and autonomy, their ability to stay cool under pressure, and their knack for providing unbiased perspectives.  We also chat about poten...

We're continuing our series on the Enneagram at work, focusing on Type 4 this week. We explore how Fours bring creativity, authenticity, and emotional depth to the workplace. We discuss career paths that allow Fours to express their unique vision, from counseling to marketing. Plus, tips for Fours on communicating effectively in teams and dealing with interpersonal issues. Join us for insight...

This week on EnneagramU we explore how Enneagram Type 3s function in the workplace. We discuss how Threes are the achievers and executors on teams, always striving to be productive and successful. They're the ones who get things done efficiently and strategically map out how to reach goals. We also emphasized how important it is for Threes to find balance and incorporate rest into their routi...

This week on EnneagramU we dive into how Enneagram Type 2s operate in the workplace. We talk about how Twos are the helpers and connectors on teams, always looking out for their coworkers and trying to build strong relationships. They're the ones who notice when someone's having a bad day and check in on them. We also emphasized how important it is for Twos to set boundaries and not take...

In this episode, we kick off our new series exploring how different Enneagram types approach work and careers. We start with Type 1, the Perfectionist, discussing their strengths, challenges, and ideal work environments. Whether you're a One yourself or work with Ones, you'll gain valuable insights into how this type strives for excellence (sometimes to a fault). We share practical tips...

Today, we dive into the concept of personal style and how it impacts our work lives. Are you energized more by people or tasks? Do you prefer a structured or unstructured approach to organization? Learn how understanding your personal style can help you thrive in your job, volunteer roles, and relationships. We share our own experiences and provide insights on how different Enneagram types might a...

Happy New Year from EnneagramU! As we say goodbye to 2024 and welcome 2025, we wanted to share some thoughts on how to reflect on the past year. We'll be talking about our own experiences with health changes, travel adventures, and setting new intentions. We'll also share some creative ways we've found to look back on the year. Plus, we'll discuss the common challenges of New Y...

Hi! - In this episode of EnneagramU Kelly wishes listeners a Merry Christmas and reflects on the Advent season. She shares personal memories of Christmas Eve celebrations with her family, particularly highlighting her children's excitement and the joy brought by their Uncle Bentley. Kelly discusses the transition from Advent, a time of waiting, to the fullness of joy at Christmas. She relates...

Hosts Damon and Kelly explore how Types 8, 9, and 1 can navigate the busy holiday season. They discuss life-taking behaviors to avoid, life-giving practices to embrace, and special Christmas songs for each type. Learn how to receive God's gifts of stillness, presence, and grace during Advent. Follow us on Apple Podcasts and leave a review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enneagramu/id16...

In this Advent-themed episode, Damon and Kelly explore how the head triad types (5, 6, and 7) can find meaning during the Christmas season. They discuss potential challenges each type may face, offer suggestions for embracing the spirit of Advent, and recommend Christmas songs that resonate with each type. The hosts share personal holiday traditions and reflections while providing practical advice...

In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the season of Advent and how the heart triad of the Enneagram (Types 2, 3, and 4) can engage with it. They discuss the meaning of Advent, its themes, and offer practical suggestions for each type to make the most of this reflective time. The hosts share insights on setting boundaries, receiving God's love and rest, and finding uniqueness in ordinary mo...