Beyond the Norms

In Part 2 of this conversation, we shift the focus from dating culture and abortion to something deeper — Nigerian parenting and the silence around sex education . Why do many Nigerian homes avoid conversations about sex, relationships, puberty, consent, and emotional development? Does strict parenting actually prevent behavior, or does it simply force young people into secrecy? In this episode of...

What happens when a society avoids talking about sex—but still expects young people to “get it right”? In this episode of Beyond the Norms , we dive into the sex life of a typical Nigerian child and unpack the realities many people grew up with but rarely talk about. From limited or non-existent sex education to living double lives in secrecy, we explore how silence at home and in society has shap...

In this episode of Beyond the Norms , we explore one of the most debated topics in modern society: are men and women truly equal? From the rise of feminism to traditional gender roles , we dive into the historical, cultural, and religious perspectives that have shaped how men and women relate in society today. Join us for a deep, honest, and sometimes controversial conversation as we challenge ass...

In this Open House episode of Beyond the Norms , we host a bold, honest, and community-driven conversation on rape, indecent dressing, and women’s liberality in Nigerian society . With multiple guest voices in the room, this episode examines some of the most controversial and misunderstood narratives surrounding sexual violence. We begin with the provocative statement, “She is not dressed indecent...

Nigeria has entered a new tax era — and many people are confused, worried, or misinformed. In this first episode of Season 2, We discuss what tax is, why governments tax citizens, how Nigeria’s old tax system worked, and what the new tax laws really mean for young Nigerians, employees, business owners, and the general public. We also address common misconceptions, the public uproar surrounding the...

In this episode, we take a deep and honest look at Nigeria’s long-standing issues around tribalism, ethnic politics, and national unity. We explore the big question: Are Nigeria’s divisions truly rooted in tribalism, or are they the result of deliberate political, historical, and systemic actions? Using the Nnamdi Kanu case as a major reference point, we examine how ethnicity, justice, and state p...

In this episode of Beyond the Norms , we dive into one of the most unspoken but relatable realities in Nigerian homes — the entitlement mentality of parents and the heavy expectations placed on their children. From the “we trained you, now it’s your turn” mindset to the pressure on fresh graduates to start providing for the entire family, we unpack where these beliefs come from, why they persist,...

In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond the Norms, we dive deep into the growing influence of social media on the Nigerian youth experience — from the way young people think, dream, and define success, to how they view life, relationships, and identity in today’s hyper-digital age. Together, we explore tough but timely questions: • Has social media become the new measure of success for Nigeria...

From “spare the rod” to silent homes, this episode dives deep into the Nigerian family experience — exploring how childhood upbringing, discipline, religion, and emotional culture shape who we become as adults. We unpack tough questions: When does discipline become damage? Can traditional parenting work with Gen Z values? How do divorce and single parenting affect children psychologically? And mos...

The “Japa” wave has become one of the biggest conversations among young Nigerians today. From Lagos to London, everyone is asking the same question: Should I leave Nigeria in search of a better life abroad, or stay and build at home? In this episode of Beyond the Norms, we dive deep into the Japa culture — exploring why thousands of young Nigerians are relocating overseas, the harsh realities of s...

In this episode of Faith, Facts and Fiction, we dive into the roots of Christianity in Nigeria, tracing how it arrived, how it has grown, and how it shapes the lives of millions today. We explore tough questions and controversial topics: • How did Christianity take root in Nigeria? • Why has the church become such a powerful institution in modern society? • Is religion turning into a business, wit...

In this debut episode of Beyond the Norms, we dive into the state of formal education in Nigeria, its history, its promises, and the many challenges students face today. From underfunded schools to outdated teaching methods, we question whether the current system truly prepares young people for the future. Join us as we explore personal experiences, ask tough questions, and set the stage for hones...