Beyond Patriarchal S*x

“I don’t know what you’re doing, but your body is changing me” - these honest words are from a man partnered with a woman who did the Living Beyond Patriarchal Sex immersion. The results provide evidence of how beneficial this approach is, for finding new ways forward together. This episode explores real words from women who agreed to anonymously share some of their private experiences with you. T...

We're ending the year 2025 with a reflective episode on the impact this podcast has had so far. It's become clear that although millions of women have invested in courses to improve their sex lives, the struggle remains, while the patriarchal sex paradigm remains invisible. This episode previews the results women in the Living Beyond Patriarchal Sex immersion have achieved in the past six...

When meditating regularly and living with the awareness that everything is Shakti, there is still a need to attend to the daily human experience - such as what do we do with anger, how to be with emotion, and how to navigate intensity. In this episode, David is back with this follow-up about living in the temple of magic in everyday life. It's recommended to hear our first conversation on the...

Let's take this conversation to a new level with the perspectives of a trance channel, who brings awareness from beyond the usual human connection dialogues. Hear about the higher purpose of the patriarchal sex paradigm, the consciousness of love, igniting your inner flame, sacred teachings of wholeness, and lust as an artificial distortion. Inside this episode, Polina and I explore themes tha...

Today's guest is passionate about changing how the world makes love. It's quite an achievement to have solved the orgasm gap! His focus is creating mutual pleasure in penetrative s*x, but he also has a comprehensive philosophy. Aaron has a way of making intimacy simple, educating people in how sexual wellness was meant to be. With a background in academics and martial arts, Aaron is a ways...

In this episode, Mandy brings her honest experience as a young woman whose life was dramatically affected by her partner's use of pornography. She was blindsided by discovering the man she lived with had a second secret life filled with porn and sex addiction. Mandy left that relationship to focus on her healing journey and is now on a mission to help raise awareness about porn’s harms and help em...

Inside this episode, David Bedrick - who is an expert in unraveling shame - gives a window into hidden places of the male psyche that are not often spoken about. With courageous vulnerability, he voices some reasons why men can feel too ashamed to enter the Beyond Patriarchal S*x conversation. Everyone’s pain needs to be acknowledged for humanity to evolve. BIO Over the past 30+ years, David Bedri...

In this conversation with the cross cultural, multi disciplinary legend Dr Riane Eisler, we explore both the personal and collective systems relevant to the paradigm of patriarchal sex. As a true elder of our times, she speaks on how matriarchy is in fact not the opposite to patriarchy, the eroticization of domination, the current regression and more. Riane says the goal is not to go back in time,...

A woman's conditioning to want what she wants rather than to actually have it, is behind the typical scenario Eli Block describes as 'trying to eat the menu'. The way this contributes to the overcompensatory behaviours that both women and men play out, is part of the individual journey to liberation from collective suffering. Women do hold the power to collapse the patriarchal sex paradigm, and th...

The inner work of restoring the Madonna/ Whore complex in women, is what we explore in the flowing conversation of this episode. The developing standards for women after the free love phase of growth, and the evolutionary possibility of sacred union that exists beyond it; describes where many spiritual women are currently. We discuss how sometimes there is misunderstanding on the learning/ remembe...

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of Deep Feminine Somatics, and the Empathic Provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. In her role as an Intimacy Confidante, she has been the keeper of secrets both women and men have shared with her, for the past 25+ years. This long immersion guiding both women and men, gives her teaching a unique edge, all about united evolution for personal & planetary...

Today's guest Arivind Abraham openly shares inside this episode, his own realizations of unlearning patriarchy in relationships, offering a beautiful reorientation for men to connect with their own higher aspirations that are not often reflected in the culture. Ari's Bio Ari Arivind always felt a deep connection to the dead from a young age. Decades later, through the endings of two profound relat...

'The Inbodied Woman', Suzannah Ananda supports women to alchemize their pain, and have a healthy relationship with themselves. She has lived through the struggles of domestic violence, and courageously shares about it here in this episode. Suzannah as a mother, was challenged to free herself from karmic entanglements with male violence, into a new life where she now enjoys her empowerment in a sac...

David James Sherban specializes in Men's Coaching, supporting them with confidence, healing and strength. He is known for being the coach who helps women feel seen, by helping men finally see. With a diverse background, there is more dimension to David than it may first appear. And as a man of faith, he offers a perspective on relationships that helps men co-create with women through presence over...

Diana Richardson has been teaching making love retreats in Europe with her partner for 30 years. As an accomplished Author and Tantric Teacher, she talks about the male orientated approach to s*x people typically experience, which isn't about creating actual connection between men and women's bodies. And the 'pleasing' response in women, which is about the need to get love and the fear of losing l...

Stepping into men's work can be a big process for men, when he is ready for it. In this episode Ian MacKenzie shares about his entry into men’s work, as well as how he guides men from a mytho-poetic perspective. The psychological shift is real - so are the world view changes, and the renewed way to meet women as a result. Leaning into the stories mythology has to offer, especially masculine archet...

In this episode Shaney-Marie and I explore embodied eros as a medicine journey, the manosphere, and more. Remember to bring your curiosity, courage, appreciation for nuance, and empathy to be in this conversation. “There are no established ancient traditions left in the world today that provide real sanctuary environments for women, exploring the embodiment of their full erotic power in expression...

Message from Dévashi: “Your sacred body is the crucible. Somatic female embodiment is the alchemy, but it’s about being true and surrendered to where it takes you - not to fixate on the method. There is no magic higher than the sovereign coding that your light body is holding intact for you, until you are ready to recognise how what you seek for outside, is already right here. There is no power gr...

To have Traditional Tantric perspectives from a renowned Philosophy Teacher entering this podcast is such a blessing. David Dubois embodies the wisdom of Kashmir Shaivism in such an effortless way. As an author who has translated over 25 books from Sanskrit, David brings his wonderful understandings on going beyond patriarchal s*x in this episode. He answered my request to clear and elevate the co...

Continuing the conversation from Episode 12, here is further practical information about evolutionary money in intimate partnerships. Dévashi is speaking from an embodied perspective, highlighting how the 50/50 finances paradigm in relationships is not the equal situation some assume it to be. In the type of relationship and lifestyle we choose for ourselves, there will be an impact on embodied po...

Financially independent women who value their freedom and full expression, have standards that invite men into a deeper version of themselves in partnership. Embodiment has the power to free us from being tied to concepts, while opening the doors to authentic co-creation and overflow onall levels. Listen in on this riff with Katie Moriarty on money, men, relationship and full feminine freedom. (Th...

Patriarchal S*x Is Normalized Violence with Dévashi Shakti The first shorter solo episode, where different perspectives will be shared, all contributing to defining what patriarchal s*x is & why it’s time for humanity to live beyond it. To name P.S. as a form of normalized violence against women is opening a new dialogue rarely spoken. The way women’s bodies have been used, mishandled, neglect...

There is a process for men to move from the patriarchal sexual conquest approach of winning and failing in his own mind, to true authentic relating with a woman. Some of the benefits of this shift in approach include accessing his own expanded pleasure potential, and being able to makelove for longer periods of time. In this episode, men's dating and intimacy Relationship Coach David Chambers shar...

If you care about the safety of children, you need to listen to this episode. When men's sexual rights are advocated for at the academic level to justify products to satisfy all male sexual urges - regardless of whether they infringe upon the human rights of others....we have a problem. Are male sexual needs advocated for with sex dolls truly 'needs', or can we talk about distinguishing actual nee...

Episode 8: Listen to two somatic initiatress guides speak on the inner journey of embodiment. The outcome of finding ease with, and respect for the experience of descending into our bodies as humans, is well worth any discomfort involved. This realm of the Feminine is just as relevant to men as it is for women, and essential for lovers connecting beyond PS. (This episode has some audio interferenc...