Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

What happens when non-monogamy stops being about labels and starts being about lived experience? In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we're joined by speaker, author, and relationship coach Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers for a conversation that goes far beyond surface-level polyamory talk. This episode is all about learning how to live non-monogamy on your o...

Is lasting longer in bed really the goal—or have we been getting it wrong this whole time? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we dive headfirst into a topic that gets whispered about but rarely discussed honestly: instant gratification in sex . After a real-life conversation at the club sparked a bigger realization, Adam and Pris unpack why so many people—espec...

Polyamory doesn't have to be confusing, chaotic, or emotionally overwhelming. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with award-winning sex and relationships educator Leanne Yau —the brilliant mind behind Poly Philia Blog —to unpack jealousy, boundaries, emotional security, and why non-monogamy isn't a "phase" or a lack of commitment. Leanne shares how she discovered non...

Compersion Isn't Automatic — And That's Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it's a requirement, sometimes like it's a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn't come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the p...

Episode Summary: In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exists even in sex-positive spaces, and why honest communication matters more than labels. Ashley shares how Rob came out early in their relationship and why that honesty laid the...

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we're calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as "being ghosted." Just because someone doesn't reply immediately doesn't mean they disappeared — it usually means they're busy living a real life. This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies tur...

Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it's really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle. Rae...

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we're recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio . From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into t...

SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life...

This Week's QUICKIE: Confessionals This week's QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with "horny brain." From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play,...

🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute , and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes . She's teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe . From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the moder...

QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival Hosts: Adam & Pris Series: Beyond Monogamy — Wednesday QUICKIE Episode Summary (SEO-Optimized) Holiday stress hits hard — and yes, it can put your libido on ice. In this candid QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get real (and hilarious) about December's money crunch, mental overload, and what to do when "just not in the mood" becomes the default settin...

Episode Summary Adam & Pris sit down with Jhannyphil Contreras of Tropical Unicorn Travels to unpack the real world of lifestyle-friendly travel —from Temptation Resort vibes to practical safety tips, payment-plan budgeting, and how to pick the right adults-only resort for your energy. We get candid about community, confidence, and body acceptance, and how a thoughtful, drama-free plan can turn an...

🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and streng...

What happens when a couple turns their home into one of Houston's most talked-about lifestyle destinations? Adam and Pris sit down with  Nicole and Isaac , founders of Pineapple House TX , for an open, hilarious, and eye-opening conversation about what it takes to build a judgment-free space for connection, curiosity, and seriously sexy fun. They talk about how it all started, the challenges of th...

Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About In this week's Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE , Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health . From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always "being on" because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and...

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover Episode Summary This episode opens with a listener voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit into the lifestyle—so we break down inclusive, real-world guidance for same-sex couples navigating LS spaces, boundaries, and community. Then we sit down with Texas Desires to preview their Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in...

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Episode Type: QUICKIE Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and d...

🎧 Inside Austin's Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle Step inside Austin's legendary adult boutique, Forbidden Fruit , with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy . In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas' oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughte...

Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety , how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simp...

In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor , and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with...

Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Sometimes you're vibing at a lifestyle club—lights low, bodies moving, drinks flowing—and boom … someone from your vanilla life walks in. Your coworker. A family friend. Someone from the PTA. 😳 Now what? In today's Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down exactly what happens when you get SPOTTED in t...

Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Attachment, Resentment & Rewriting the Rules of Non-Monogamy Guests: Jessica Fern (author of Polysecure , Polywise , and Transforming the Shame Triangle ) and David Cooley (restorative-justice facilitator, creator of Restorative Relationship Conversations). Episode Summary  In this heart-to-heart, Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to go deeper t...

The Great Expectations Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Episode Summary In The Great Expectations , Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don't go as planned to the pressure of "performing" in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners', a...

This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes Ethical Non-Monogamy Bisexuality Confidence & Consent Lifestyle Culture Episode Summary In this bold and beautifully honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we head across the pond to chat with UK writer, educator, and ethical non-monogamy coach Rosie Kay , the voice behind thiskindagi...