Beyond Believing: Helping Christian Women Heal Post Divorce

I always believed asking for help made me weak. This week, waiting on God finally showed me why that was a lie. I've always believed that being weak, being vulnerable, are dangerous positions to be in — especially after you've already been hurt by trusting the wrong person. So this week, in the middle of a season after my divorce that feels full of nothing but waiting, I did something I genuinely...

If you ever believed that God protects us by standing between us and whatever's coming — a wall, a barrier, something in front of us like I did, I found that's not the only posture Scripture describes. Deuteronomy 33:27 says underneath are the everlasting arms. Not just in front. Not just behind. Underneath. And once you understand why God would position Himself there, you'll never read that verse...

There is something I want you to know before you press play. At the end of this episode, there is an invitation. Not an assignment. Not a challenge. An invitation — to sit with a question that I believe has the potential to change everything about the way you see yourself, the way you receive love, and the way you relate to God. You don't have to be ready for it. You just have to stay until the en...

Beyond Believing Podcast How God Carries Divorced Women in Scripture The Greatest Love Story Ever Written | Who He Is to Her: THE SHEPHERD For the woman who has been carrying this season alone and is ready to find out what God says about that, grab your free 7-day devotional, Roots .   After my divorce, I didn't go looking for a new church. I went looking for God. And what I found in the wildernes...

For the woman ready to find out what God says about who she is to Him. Grab your free 7-day devotional, Roots Here is the question underneath everything you have done since your divorce — the chasing, the closing off, the staying busy, the staying numb: Am I truly desired? This episode answers that question. From Scripture. With no conditions attached. Most women navigating life after divorce are...

Free Devotional: For the woman who doesn't know who to trust right now — and is ready to find out how God is hers to lean on. Grab it here   Here is what divorce does that no one prepares you for. It doesn't just end a marriage. It leaves a woman asking the one question she has never been able to answer: was I ever truly known by anyone at all?   This episode answers that question. From Scripture....

You didn't decide to stop believing you were worth fighting for. You were taught to stop. And this episode is the beginning of that unlearning. E:95 of The Greatest Love Story Ever Written  ·  Who God Is to You  ·  WARRIOR Most of us grew up with the image. A knight in shining armor. The one who comes riding to your rescue, sweeps in, makes everything right. And somewhere along the way, you did on...

Learn to hear God’s voice over every other voice that has tried to define you. Get your Free 7-Day Devotional to help you: roots.coachkatieanne.com   She came to the well at noon because she had learned to avoid the eyes of her community. She had been left five times. She was surviving, not living. And God arranged to be there, waiting, when she arrived.   This episode is about what Jesus actually...

The love you have been waiting for isn’t missing — it has been written over you on every page of your Bible. In the series launch of The Greatest Love Story Ever Written, Katie Anne reads a letter written specifically for you, then takes you back to the coffee shop moment that cracked the entire Bible open and changed everything for her. Featuring Psalm 141:10, Psalm 23:5, Romans 8:38–39, John 10:...

Ready to stop repeating the pattern? I built something for you. It's called Roots, and it's free. It's a devotional for the woman who doesn't quite know who to trust right now — and is ready to find out how God is hers to lean on. Download it HERE .   After my divorce, I made a decision. I was going to choose differently. I was going to see the red flags, name the patterns, and walk away. And for...

Ready to break the cycle — for you and for them? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call I spent years believing I was protecting my children by staying in my marriage. I knew what divorce had cost me as a child, so staying felt like love. What I didn't understand is that a high-conflict intact home creates the same wounds in children as a high-conflict divorce. The structure doesn't protect...

Ready to stop chasing false love? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce, I kept reaching for love. In relationships. In achievement. In how hard I worked and how much I gave. What God showed me is that what I was reaching for was not love — it was a version of love that looked and felt like the real thing but could never actually do what love is supposed to do. In this epis...

Ready to stop building on an identity that can't hold? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call   You can do everything right after your divorce — make better choices, grow in your faith, work on yourself, become genuinely different from who you were — and still find that the foundation underneath you is the same unstable ground it has always been.   That is not a healing problem. That is a ro...

Ready to put it down? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce I held everything together. And for a long time I thought that was God working through me. What He showed me is that some of it was — and some of it was me quietly refusing to need Him. I was self-sufficient in my own sufficiency. Not His. In this episode I walk through the Amplified Classic translation of Philippi...

Ready to take your power back? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call   After my divorce, I thought I was trusting God. What I didn’t see is that I was also handing my power to my ex every single day — delaying decisions, waiting on his cooperation, organizing my life around his next move. I didn’t choose that consciously. It was just running in the background.   In this episode I walk throu...

Ready to stop asking where he is? Or pretending you don’t “need” him? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce, I was convinced I was ready for a godly relationship. I had done the work. The case for my own readiness was strong. What I did not see is that I was building a case — not asking a question. And underneath all of that real, sincere preparation was a question I had ne...

If you are exhausted by a pain that never seems to end — this episode is for you. Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce, I kept arriving at the same pain. Different person. Different hope. Same destination. I used to tell myself loneliness was the hardest part. What God showed me is that nothing is more painful than giving yourself to someone who cannot recognize your worth...

Ready to tell a different story? Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call After my divorce, I told my story the same way every time. What I lost. What was taken. What it cost me. I thought that was honesty. What God showed me is that a story centered on what was done to you has no room for what He has done through it. In this episode I walk through the Christus Victor theology, the etymology o...

If you're ready to embrace the identity God spoke over you, Apply for coaching → coachkatieanne.com/call I thought the conflict in my life was coming from my ex. My church. The people who judged my divorce. I was wrong. In this episode I walk through what Jesus was actually teaching in Matthew 7 — the beam and the speck — and show you why it is not just a humility lesson. It is a mechanism. And on...

Ready to do this work? Apply for coaching   Most women after divorce are fighting hard for love. Or fighting hard to avoid it. They're just fighting the wrong battle. In this episode I walk through two biblical stories — the Benjaminites in Judges 20 and Sarai in Genesis 16 — that show two different versions of the same mistake. Then I share a relationship I believed was God's promise fulfilled, w...

Ready to do this work? Apply for coaching   The loneliness after divorce is not the absence of the right people. It is the presence of God — and you don't recognize it yet because you have never been still enough to hear Him. In this episode I walk through the complete story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19 — from the juniper tree to the cave to the still small voice — and show you why every beat of that s...

If you've spent years holding everything together, this episode is for you. Today I'm unpacking two lies the strong woman carries that feel like facts — and what happens when you finally see them for what they are. We go to Luke 10, where Martha brings her exhaustion to Jesus not to complain, but to ask Him to solve a problem she assigned herself. And I share what changed in my own life when I sto...

If you're ready to look inward instead of repeating patterns, This is what we work through inside the 30-Day Post Divorce Reset Remarriage won't heal what divorce broke. Not as a warning. As the most freeing thing I know how to say to you. You have a list. Maybe you haven't written it down. But it's there. When this settles. When he stops. When I find someone. When the kids are okay. When life loo...

Ready to start peeling back what’s been covering who God created you to be? The 30-Day Identity Reset is where you start. I learned a seven-word prayer after my divorce that changed everything. The first thing God showed me had nothing to do with my ex — and everything to do with me. Ephesians 5:6 says let no one deceive you with empty words. No one. Not your ex. Not the culture. Not the voices ar...

I was on a walk telling God what my kids needed. He stopped me mid-sentence and said five words that changed everything. For years after my divorce I was terrified I was going to give my children the same experience I had growing up. I watched my own parents spend forty years unable to be in the same room. I knew what that cost. I did not want to give that to my kids. So I held on in my marriage l...