Beyond Affairs

In this episode, Tiffanie sits down with Anne and Brian for a raw, honest conversation about one of life’s most heart-wrenching crossroads: should you stay and fight for your marriage, or walk away? Together, they unpack the unspoken fears, the gut-wrenching doubts, and the powerful reasons people wrestle with when deciding whether to hold on or let go. Join us for thoughtful insight as we explore...

In this episode, Brian sits down with Jeremy to dive into the aftermath of marital betrayal. What does it truly take to rebuild what’s been broken? Is restoration really possible? Jeremy shares the challenges he faced, the obstacles that held him back, and the unexpected factors that helped him move forward. Listen in for a candid conversation between men.  Yes, you can move beyond the pain and ge...

In this episode, Tiffanie, our new team member, sits down with Brian to chat about the Man of Honor Retreat — a powerful experience designed to help men reconnect with purpose, integrity, and brotherhood. We dive into the heart behind the retreat, the challenges men face today, and what it truly means to live as a man of honor. Whether you're seeking personal growth, deeper relationships, or...

Anne and Brian Bercht share some of the most common obstacles that get in the way of healing from an affair. Gain insight on what to do, what not to do, and where to find the help and guidance you need to successfully heal. We'll share how to avoid common pitfalls that can have a negative impact on your healing journey.  Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyonda...

Greg is a physician. He had 2 affairs over the course of their 29 year marriage. One was 22 years ago, when they had only been married 7 years and Krista was pregnant. Greg never dealt with it - instead he buried it, hid it and just tried to move on, but the unconfessed affair caused shame and a loss of self-worth. His 2nd affair  happened 13 years later. When Krista found out through a text messa...

A candid discussion. Five women share their stories of their husband's affairs, and how they recovered. Each of them offers words of wisdom for those who are eating the dust behind them. How did they make the shifts inside themselves to begin to navigate their recovery from a place of strength and power. What were some of the things that caused their husband's to shift their perspectives...

So many nuggets to help any person working to recover from marital betrayal. What inspired Beyond Affairs? How did the Healing from Affairs 3-day retreat for couples come into being? How was The Recovery Roadmap drawn? How many couples has Beyond Affairs helped? Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Anne Bercht was asked to give a workshop on the topic of forgiveness at a church women's conference. This workshop focuses on all forgiveness, not just betrayal forgiveness. Since it was delivered to a church group, Anne delivers the workshop from a Biblical perspective on forgiveness, and shares Bible passages as well as personal stories of how God has worked forgiveness in her own life. Yes...

Brian Bercht speaks with a group of betrayed women, answering questions about the unfaithful. 1) How can we get to where you and Anne are? 2) How do I get reassurance from my husband without him feeling like I am attacking him? 3) Can I help my husband make the switch from feeling shame to helping me? 4) How do I get my husband to open up? 5) Why did he turn to someone else for comfort and not to...

Several women share their stories. Unfortunately not every marriage can be saved after infidelity. And you don't have control over your spouse's choices. In this podcast, one woman in particular shares the painful unexpected journey of divorce after her husband left her for a much younger woman, and how she found healing on the other side. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the li...

In an earlier episode, Tom, Paul & Michael shared their stories and what they did to heal their marriages. Today we hear from their wives, Allison, Luanne & Tertia. After the bottom dropped out of their marriages with the unthinkable, what did their husbands do that helped them to love and trust their husband's again. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.be...

Anne Bercht interviews 3 very different women, with very different stories of marital betrayal. How they have not only survived their husband's affair/s, but are learning to thrive on the other side. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Brian Bercht interviews 3 different men, each with unique stories, who have turned their lives around after their marital unfaithfulness, helped their wives heal, and restored their families. Each honestly and candidly shares their mistakes as well as their secrets to success. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

A redemption story.  Listen to this couple share their hard work and dedication to one - another.  Reconciliation and finding an even better journey post betrayal is possible. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

These are wise words from an expert in infidelity.  Don't miss this special episode with guest speaker - Linda McDonald.   Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Bert’s story - when your wife is unfaithful. ... a lot of helpful information that applies to couples where the husband is unfaithful. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Kim had an affair with her boss and kept it a secret.  Listen to this interview and learn how Mike & Kim navigated through the most difficult of times in their relationship.  Let this couple be your inspiration...for they now have a thriving marriage post affair. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Anne interviews Ronda, who once thought she could never survive betrayal and struggled with intense anger.  Find out what steps Ronda took, the lessons she learned, and where "the turn around" happened for Ronda's marriage. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

The title states it all... In this podcast Anne addresses ALL things related to betrayal trauma.  It's important to understand what this is and how this looks.   Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

The healing journey begins with hope. You need to know and believe you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. It does take two. Some people think you can never get over it. That’s not true. True healing is remembering the affair (you won’t forget such a big event in your life), but no longer having pain associated with the memory. Listen to part 2 with Brian and Anne as they discuss t...

The healing journey begins with hope. You need to know and believe you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. It does take two. Some people think you can never get over it. That’s not true. True healing is remembering the affair (you won’t forget such a big event in your life), but no longer having pain associated with the memory. Listen to part 1 of 9 essential key elements when it c...

Brian and Anne talk about 10 strategies to help you through the holiday season. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Part 2 of Personal Style with Dr. Ken Keis! Hear from the professional who is your expert when it comes to understanding self - discovery. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com  360.306.3367

Why aren't you more like me? This is not only a question we as individuals ask ourselves...but it's also a fascinating book title, written by author Dr. Ken Keis. Dr. Keis is a personal friend to Brian and Anne Bercht, and has discovered how to improve your life through self-awareness.  When you are struggling to work through your interactions with your spouse (or partner)...it's im...