Bei’s Coffee Corner

Sometimes people come to us just for some support not advice. But we tend to misunderstand and start to elaborate on what they can do to help with their situations. People get annoyed because they never really ask us for any advice. They just want a good listener.

Sometimes it's ok to not feel confident. We don't have to always feel confident. Or, let's say, not being confident is not that important. As long as we are comfortable with ourselves, we are actually really fine. Follow me on YouTube: Bei's coffee corner with Bob

Are you easily influenced? Do you consider yourself an influential person? Let me know. Also, follow me on YouTube Bei's Coffee Corner with Bob

Share your moments of snap judgements

What is your embarrassing moment? Why do you feel embarrassed?

Are you an emotionally stable person? How do you keep your emotions stable?

Long time no see~ 

Hi there, how have you been?

It's been a while since the last upload. You may or may not know that a new life has come to my world. 2022, a year full of events and changes. It has taken me almost 10 months to get ready for a new life, yet I still feel panicked about what is happening and what is awaiting ahead. 2023 is going to be a year of learning. Learn to be a mom and learn to be myself.  Happy New Year everyone. Wis...

By the time you listen to it, I will be having a little human being at home. That means, this will be the last episode for the year :) See you next year :) Follow me on YouTube 

I think Asian mother and daughter relationship is always complicated. They love each other but also hate each other. It seams like they can never get along peacefully under the same roof. What is your relationship with your mother or in general parents?  Follow me on YouTube :)

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Sometimes we just need to distinguish the difference between quiet quitting jobs and quiet quitting our life. We don't want to waste our life on something tedious at work, but what if something tedious at work could lead to a future career? A better life? Would you still want to quiet quit?  Follow me on YouTube  

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Bob is your host today :)

Had a very awkward situation in my class. What would you do if you were in that situation?

Have you been told that you sounded rude? Is that because of the fact or the language barrier?

At work, it's hard to not talk about how you feel. I tend to let people know: this is not easy to do; you are being unfair, etc. Then, I realize, the goal of communication is to get things done. Not everyone cares why you can't get it done. 

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When you are not sure if you want to do it or not, choose to do it. People normally regret what they didn't do not what they've done.

I used to like waiting for my friends to do everything. I of course expected them to do the same. Then I realized that everyone lived a life at a different pace. No one is responsible for anyone's decisions and moves. So if you have a plan to do something, share it with your friends and then go ahead. 

Sometimes you think this is the most important thing in your whole life. If you don't achieve it, then it's gonna be the end of the world. But now when I look back, that thing might be really important at that time, but definitely not the only thing in my whole life. There is always something more important ahead of you.

I always think myself as an ordinary person until one day someone said: "You are so amazing! " That's when I realize that no one is ordinary. But most of our time is spent to be ordinary until we are not because of all the hard work we've done. It's accumulation. 

Sometimes you do things while thinking about yourself being a woman. Then you tell yourself, as a woman, I should or should not do this or that. But the truth is...nothing matters until you have the right attitude. You think you can do it because you can not because you are a woman. That's what I say here "Attitude is more important".

I stopped learning for a month, including reading, listening to podcasts, watching meaningful and educational videos. My brain now contains nothing... Never stop learning!