Being Mrs. S ♔

So #RHOBH has been H O T! all summer!!! All thanks to pretty mess herself, queen Erika Jayne Girardi!!  She has kept this season going, now, more so, as her feud with fellow southern belle, Sutton Stracke is at a fever pitch! But Sutton has been extra shady this season and we are here for it because, why not! So, my #Smooners, who you marry, when you marry, how you marry does not determine ho...

The New York State Attorney General's sexual harassment and misconduct inquiry of Andrew Cuomo concludes that he did, in fact, sexual harass multiple women but Andy says it is his culture to behave that way and he meant no disrespect, okay oh! I got an email from a listener who is in a 3 years relationship but her boyfriend has not proposed and wants to know what to do...

#RHOBH Erika Girardi is telling her girlfriends that she is divorcing Tom because he isn't talking to her anymore but the streets are talking. The streets are saying that the divorce is a devise to evade the prosecution from the cases against Tom. Britney's conservatorship #wahala, #FreeBritney has been trending because Britney refused to perform at her Vegas residency until her father is removed...

OMG!!! On this past week's episode of #RHOBH, Garcelle asked her friends who else had done surgery to their nose. You should have seen their faces, they were mortified! Why though? You should be happy that you look better, I'm guessing that's why you did it in the first place, no? I have never had surgery, reasons: I don't like hospitals, it's expensive (I'd rather spend the money travelling), I l...

The Real Housewives shows are making a push to be more inclusive, NY has added Eboni K. Williams , while Beverly Hills now has Garcelle Beauvais and Crystal Minkoff . They are tackling a lot of misnomers and stereotypes stemming from racial constructs. It is interesting to see how they are dealing with these issues, and even more interesting seeing how the audience reacts or relates to their metho...

Nick Cannon has three different women pregnant for him at the same time....whew! Where does he find the time, my #Smooners, can somebody please tell me? Why is he refusing to strap up? ************** Why do women choose to insult other women by saying, "you can't keep a man?" What man? An abusive man? A serial philanderer/adulterer? A liar/thief? 

This season's #RHOA had some of the ladies seething at Kenya for breaking the "girl code" by investigating the alleged tryst between Bolo, the stripper and Porsha and Tanya (she ran off after that episode aired, homegirl put herself at the scene of the sex)! Now, if this isn't the height of breaking the girl code, I don't know what is.  Porsha went from jumping into Falyn's husband's pool to...

Josh Duggar, 33, is the first of 19 kids to Jim and Michelle Duggar.  He has been accused of molesting underage girls, including three of his own sisters when he was a teenager. He was engaged in the Ashley Madison scandal when he admitted to pornography addiction and infidelity while being married.  He is married to Anna, together, they have 6 kids of their own, with one more on the way...

Bill and Melinda Gates announced, yesterday, May 3, that they are ending their marriage of 27 years. In 2019, the Bezos' did the same thing. I think the Gates' is such a shocker because they have always exhibited such a united front that no one would have expected such an announcement. They said they no longer believe they can grow together and that's saying a lot. How much more growing is needed...

John Christopher Smith (JSC) was only 12 years old when he started working at J & J Cafeteria owned and managed by the family of Bobby Paul Edwards in 1996. Six years later, when Edwards became manager, he stopped paying JSC and that's when the abuse began.  JSC a black man ailed with a mental disability was subjected to torturous, physical and mental abuse that carried on for 17 years un...

This topic was interesting because there are a few men who feel like they are not valued and are in relationships with force-placed bill-paying duties. First of, why anyone feels they have to be in a situation they are uncomfortable with is beyond me?  Seems to me like it is an option given and a choice made! If you have made the decision to abide then you have to accept responsibility for th...

So, the jury is currently deliberating on this case and honestly, after watching the trial from start to finish, it is an open and shut case. The prosecution did their job, the defense did not.  The verdict should come back guilty on all charges. There are people who are saying that George Floyd (RIP) deserved what he got because he was addicted to opioids, wow! Who in this whole world says t...

Another officer involved killing in Minnesota, Brooklyn Center; the officer involved has apparently been on the force for 26 years but she can't, for some reason, tell the difference between a gun and a taser. She also can't tell her left from her right let her police chief tell it! Can someone make this make sense? 

Names are important, Chauvin has become his name. Only God knows what it was that kept him from letting up and getting up off George Floyd (RIP) but it doesn't matter now; he and his cohorts are obviously guilty and deserve the punishment they are sure to get. Meanwhile, Jen Shah of #RHOSLC has been indicted on counts of fraud and money laundering. The hubris that these reality tv personalities ex...

I get the need to want to learn and to grow in wisdom and spirituality but you better beware of who you go to to garner such knowledge!  But why?  Does it matter who the message is coming from or is the message not bigger than the messenger?  To that, I say absolutely! It most definitely matters! When it comes to personal growth in morality and spirituality, it absolutely matters wh...

...call it what you want; the fact is that he recognized that the union was not what he wanted and therefore could not commit. Better now than later, I say! People no longer revere the institution of marriage which is why some people may be upset about his decision but is it your proposal?

Happy International Women's day y'all!!  In honour of today, I am speaking on the spilled tea heard o'er the land...I am saying what I feel about the crazy obsession of a couple who just wants to be happy. Yes, Meghan knew what she was getting into and so did Harry... Listen, let me know what your thoughts are, leave a voice note, comment! Cheers!  It's my 8th episode on the 8th of March...

So you have decided you want to settle down, but the issue is, with who? Online Dating is a good place to start outside of the tradition, organic process of meeting a mate. It is very possible to meet and marry via dating websites but only if you are intentional and honest about what you want . In my experience, I have found men to be visual in their choices; and to also have a specific type of wo...

Are you on social media as a voyeur/watcher/reader/listener? Do you contribute to the general dialogue or are you silently judging people who share? Speaking about judging, what is judging? Can you be accused of judging if you are in a forum where your opinion is asked? What are your thoughts? Feel free to leave a voice note or comment anywhere you clicked on the link! Cheers and I'll circle back...

You say you want to get married, what are you doing to make it a possibility? Or are you that person who wants to win the lottery but never purchases a ticket?  Meanwhile, on #RHOSLC, why is Mary, Mary, quite contrary?

She died alone and was forgotten by everyone except the bill collectors.  How could someone so beautiful and charming, disappear from the world without anyone caring to look for her? 

Personal responsibility, are you always blaming someone else/something else for decisions that you make? Have you asked yourself why you expect changes when you don't change or when you don't take responsibility for the role you played or should play? These are my thoughts on personal responsibility, what are yours?

Sis, did you lose friends after they got married? Did your single girlfriends stop hanging with you? Jealousy, envy? Did your married friends seek you out to rekindle friendships after you got married? Strange? Why is that? What is your take?

You have been married for a few years and now, you don't want to be in it anymore, why? What has changed? You, perhaps?

...to my #Smooners This was such a good episode...I hope to see more like this; The entire cast with their husband's except for Mary and hers hung out in the snow and then Lisa and Meredith met up later at the Shah's. It was a lovely episode that allowed the viewers more insight into the cast. HAPPY NEW YEAR y'all...Next year is going so much better, it has no choice my peeps...Much love and much...