Being A Dad...On Purpose

Halloween can be fun and a great time to make some memories. I’m back to share some ideas and stories about Halloween.

In this episode I cover what to do when you find out your partner is pregnant. I share some thoughts on how to talk to them, how to help, and how to be supportive. This book, DUDE! You're Gonna Be A Dad! helped me prepare and gave some laughs along the way. Enjoy!

Brandon Jones, the founder of Be Dadly, discovered that his oldest son was struggling with severe behavioral issues that led to his expulsion from kindergarten. After numerous attempts, Brandon realized that his inherited parenting techniques were ineffective and decided to make drastic changes. His new approach yielded better results, and he's now dedicated to helping fathers improve their childr...

The 5 Love Languages have been used by couples for many years to help with communication and keeping their relationship on solid ground. The reality is, our children have love languages, too. They need us to be aware of what they are and how to respond to them appropriately. In this episode the love languages are covered and what they look like when implemented with our children. Find out more abo...

This episode is a quick conversation on anger management and how to handle it. This is not a focus on discipline, but reacting with anger. Some people may think spanking is a good form of discipline, some people don't. That is up to each and every parent's own discretion. This is about hitting with anger. Some tips are shared, some thoughts on counseling, and some important steps to take when you...

We need to create boundaries for our children. In this episode we talk about why it’s important and what they can look like.

Take some time this New Year to make some new memories. Not all memories have to be expensive or grand. Board game nights, hiking trips, reading special stories, blanket forts, and much more can be great memories that last forever! Remember, It's not about being the best dad in the world, but being the best dad for our kids right now! Board Game Ideas: Ticket to Ride First Journey Ticket to Ride&n...

Twitch is gone. A dad who ended his life too soon. Please seek help if you need it. Email me. Call me. Don’t let go too soon. If you need help call or text 988 on your cell.

In this episode I speak with Josh Chiado, band director from Grafton, WV and Dan Luigs , host of Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast. We discuss their stories of miscarriage and how they coped with grief with their wives. They are hard stories, but necessary for us to hear as we work through the trial of losing a baby. Grief isn't spoken of enough for men. We need to be able to share our pain and w...

Do you ever give your kids a task to do, but it seems like it takes forever for them to get it done? Or maybe it seems like they can only focus for a short period of time? On this episode, Bobby give some thoughts on the value of explaining your tasks and give the kids an opportunity to understand the "why" behind the request. Questions or topic requests: bobby@beingadadonpurpose.com

This episode I have a conversation with Adam Cheeseman, Superintendent for Doddridge County schools in West Virginia. We discuss trends in causes fro gun violence in schools, how school systems are addressing the issue, and how parents can be more supportive of our school staff. It does take a village and teachers are a part of that village. We need to care for everyone involved in the process of...

Quality character is essential when it comes to raising our children. We want our kids to grow up carrying our character not defending it. How are we treating others? How are we handling stress? How are we being honest? How are we treating the other parent? There's so much to consider, but if we are wise and work at it, we will have a character that our kids will carry at the end and they don't ha...

This was an interview recorded on June 2nd. There has been some delays in getting this episode uploaded. It is still relevant and necessary. Gun violence is a major issue facing America. Our kids are learning how to hide from active shooters in schools, kids in the inner city are walking on different sides of the street to avoid altercations, and much more. Our children are victims even if they ar...

In this current economic climate we want to be sure we are making wise decisions with our finances, especially when it comes to saving for our kid's education. Jim Uren, Financial Advisor for Phase 3 Advisory Services and Royal Alliance Services joins me to answer some questions about saving and specific funds to consider. Intro music by: IEarn Fist Check out his music and shoot some support his w...

The tragedy in Uvalde,Texas is weighing heavy on this nation. It’s weighing heavy on my mind and heart. We cannot stay silent and sit back while things like this occur. As parents, dads, we have a responsibility to care for our kids. Those children were our children. My heart goes out to the families who will be looking at toys in the yard this Memorial Day weekend and not celebrating the way many...

On this episode I have a great discussion with Alan Smyth, Co-Author of Men! Fight For Me The Role of Authentic Masculinity in Ending Sexual Exploitation and Trafficking. We speak on the importance of standing up and fighting for those who need our voices. Dads have a role to play in speaking and standing up.  Alan shares the 4 pillars of "authentic" manhood: ○ Accepts responsibility; ○ Leads...

It is so good to be back! I am finally back into the rhythm of life!  In this episode I am talking about maintaining a healthy rhythm, and regaining a rhythm.  If you like what you hear, rate and subscribe! Leave a comment. I would love to connect!

Just a word of encouragement for dads this Thanksgiving!

I wrote this children’s book and I think you might like it! https://amzn.to/3vni4Zg

Just saying hello again. It's been awhile and I want to remind you why I have this podcast and what it's about. I hope to have you continue on the journey with me.

In this episode I share my thoughts on the value of mental health, creating healthy boundaries, and encouraging our kids to do it well.

I am joined by Sean Galla , the founder of Mensgroup.com , and we discuss the importance of community for men, but especially for dads. I hope you enjoy this episode and consider getting into a group of men on your fatherhood journey.  Thank you to our sponsor The Fitness Rebellion where you can save 10% on a fitness coaching program using the BADOP referral code.

This is a great discussion with Jim Dalrymple, the founder of The Nuclear Meltdown Newsletter . He shares his thoughts on waiting to have children based on the article he wrote on the topic, what he learned about himself, and thoughts on deciding to wait. I hope you enjoy the episode! Remember to subscribe and share. Thanks to our sponsor: The Fitness Rebellion where you can get 10% off your fitne...

On this episode, I get to speak with author/speaker, Sue Donaldson on ways her father encouraged her and empowered her to be who she is today. There are some great stories and fantastic insight shared for dads raising daughters. There's also some encouraging words for dads raising sons, as well. Enjoy the show! https://welcomeheart.com/being-a-dad-on-purpose-podcast-with-bobby-benavides Remember,...

In this episode I have a conversation with my good friend, Ray Nelson from the 4th Quarter, LLC. He is a mentor, public speaker, community activist, leader, and most importantly, a father and husband. He cares deeply about his family and lives a life with purpose and conviction. In our discussion we focus on the importance of developing a mission statement for yourself as a parent, but also a miss...