Behind the Swipe

In this exciting episode of Behind the Swipe, we sit down with Sandra Mason, the vibrant and inspiring contestant from the recent season of The Golden Bachelor. Sandra shares her incredible journey, from her adventurous move to Atlanta, her bold decision to join the reality show, and her candid reflections on dating and relationships later in life. Join us as Sandra reveals her “why not?” attitude...

In this enlightening episode of *Behind the Swipe*, host Hoyt Prisock sits down with writer Betsy Morris to explore her deeply personal and inspiring journey back into the dating world after divorce. Betsy shares insights from her blog series, *Adventures in Online Dating*, touching on themes of overcoming anxiety, navigating expectations, creating an authentic profile, learning to filter potentia...

In this thought-provoking episode of Behind the Swipe, we sit down with Dr. Amy Robbins, a clinical psychologist and spiritual intuitive, to discuss how the awareness of death can shape our understanding of life and influence our relationships. Dr. Robbins shares her insights on spiritual compatibility, particularly the complexities and nuances for those over 50 navigating the online dating world....

Welcome to the premiere of "Julie's Journey: A Behind the Swipe Dating Makeover." In this enlightening first episode, host Hoyt Prisock and returning guest Cindy Hopper , a seasoned therapist from Atlanta, explore the critical first steps of re-entering the dating scene. Together, they delve into the emotional and practical aspects of crafting an authentic online dating profile for...

In this bonus episode of "Behind the Swipe," host Hoyt Prisock introduces an exciting new series titled "Julie's Journey," which promises to transform theoretical knowledge of online dating into practical, real-life application. The series will closely follow Julie, a vibrant and active single mom in her mid-fifties, as she reenters the dating world with a fresh commitment...

This week on Behind the Swipe, host Hoyt Prisock welcomes therapist Hilary Woodman, an expert in narcissistic personality disorder, for a deep dive into the complexities of narcissism in relationships. Hilary unpacks the clinical aspects of narcissism, distinguishing it from simple egocentrism, and sheds light on how these traits manifest in harmful ways within intimate relationships. Throughout t...

In this engaging episode of Behind the Swipe, titled "Talk It Out, Don't Tough It Out," host Hoyt Prisock sits down with therapist Armann Fenger to explore the critical early stages of relationships. The conversation focuses on the inevitable "glitch" — those initial moments of conflict or misunderstanding that test the budding connection between partners. Armann, with his...

In this special episode of "Behind the Swipe," host Hoyt Prisock takes us on a journey back through the pivotal moments of season one, weaving together the rich tapestry of online dating experiences for those venturing into love's digital frontier in their later years. Highlights include a deep dive into the nature of rebound relationships from episode two,  where the conversation t...

In this profoundly personal episode of Behind the Swipe, we delve into the world of early-stage dating relationships with the esteemed Wendy Palmer Patterson. With over 40 years dedicated to enhancing the fabric of romantic partnerships through Imago Therapy, Wendy's wisdom is a beacon for those navigating the often turbulent waters of love, especially in the digital age. As your host, I&apos...

In this week's episode of Behind the Swipe we delve into the intricate dance between love and the potent neurochemicals that guide our hearts and decisions in the realm of online dating, especially for those navigating the scene in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. Join host Hoyt Prisock and guest expert Dawn Maslar-Biggie, author of "Men Chase, Women Choose" and renowned as the Love Biol...

In this episode of Behind the Swipe, host Hoyt Prisock welcomes back Dr. Karin Luise to explore the process of healing from past emotional wounds stemming from relationships. Dr. Karin, an accomplished author and life coach, shares profound insights from both her professional expertise and personal experiences, offering listeners valuable guidance on navigating the journey of healing and self-disc...

In this episode of "Behind the Swipe," we delve into the transformative impact of AI on online dating, guided by the wisdom of Bill Gates who heralds AI as a pivotal breakthrough. We'll explore the nuances of generative AI, its role in enhancing dating profiles, and the ethical boundaries it tests. From the cinematic foresight of "Her" to practical applications like profil...

Ever wondered why sparks fly with some while with others it's a fizzling dud? With therapist Michelle Morris's expertise, we embark on a captivating exploration of attachment styles in relationships, discovering the profound ways our earliest bonds influence our pursuit of love and connection. Together, we tackle the transition from childhood patterns to adult relationships, offering a r...

Picture rediscovering intimacy after 40—does it spark anxiety or excitement within you? Together with the insightful Christine Baumgartner, we navigate the realms of sex and body confidence, tearing down the barriers of self-doubt and highlighting the universal quest for connection that transcends physical appearance. This candid conversation is an invitation to embrace vulnerability, understand t...

In this special Valentine's episode "Be Your Own Damn Valentine," Hoyt and guest co-host Sadie Marie from "Divorced and Happy" delve into the essence of self-love and empowerment. They explore the rich history of Valentine's Day, tracing its origins from ancient traditions to its current status as a day of romance, and challenge listeners to redefine the holiday as a...

Resistance to change is a natural human condition.  But if you are online dating in your forties, fifties or beyond, a change is exactly what you are looking for. In this episode,  with therapist Cindy Hopper, we uncover how adopting a beginner's mind and inviting discomfort into our lives can lead to profound growth. We're not just talking romance here; it's about smashing through...

Have you ever stumbled upon a profile that seemed too good to be true? Well, buckle up, as Bradley Richardson from Advanced Adulting and I, Hoyt Prisock, expose the dark underbelly of online dating scams that's snaring singles over 50. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, weaving through personal tales and expert advice to shield you from the sophisticated traps of catfishers and rom...

Christine Baumgartner , founder of The Perfect Catch , joins me this week to explore how online daters can dramatically improve their chances of finding that ideal romantic partner by focusing first on themselves, then  on the match they are hoping to find.  I call it reverse engineering online dating.   Christine brings her profound expertise and practical wisdom to the conversation, helping us s...

How do you date when you are either painfully shy or just introverted?  This episode focuses on the evolution of the self-help sub-genre that helps some men learn to better communicate in prospective romantic relationships. My guest today is Dale Valor.  He is the author of The Inner Game, a professional dating coach and wing man, AND a former rapper.  Dale's style isn't for everyone - b...

Have you ever questioned the concept of 'the perfect partner'? In many ways, we are all searching for that ideal person to share our lives with. Yet, we seldom pause to consider how our preconceived notions about perfection could be hindering our dating journey. Get ready to redefine your perception of dating as we firmly dispel the myth of the 'perfect partner', with the help...

Join us on a riveting journey alongside Sheri Jacobs , author of the Friendship Diet, as we unpack the nuances of ABC's groundbreaking show, The Golden Bachelor . This episode promises to be an eye-opener as we challenge societal norms and expectations, particularly for the older generation seeking love and companionship. We delve into how the show presents a beacon of hope for many, offering...

Online Dating is pretty much a DIY thing, right? Buckle up, because you're about to embark on an entertaining and enlightening journey with Jennifer Hurvitz , a dating coach and relationship expert who makes finding love online feel like a skill you can master rather than a game of luck. Jennifer, a best-selling author and the award-winning host of Doing Relationships Right , takes us through...

I hear from so many women that men just don't know how to build a great profile online.  In fact, worse than that...  I hear, "What were they thinking????"   In this episode, three online daters tell us what men are doing wrong in crafting their online dating profiles and what they can do to increase their chances of online success.  Meghan, Shay and Kathryn (along with a cameo appe...

Do you have a "Type?"  This week we explore how understanding your Enneagram personality type (and that of your prospective romantic partners) can impact your dating life.  My guest co-host this week is Enneagram teacher and coach Emily Wingfield.  I wanted to know if there was a "cheat code" for figuring out who you should and should not swipe right on with your dating app. At...

What if your online dating life is a FAIL?  This week, Atlanta matchmaker Sarah Kathryn Walmsley (1on1matchmaking.com) shares how matchmaking services can augment your online dating experience.