Behavior Gap Radio

In this special 1,300th episode, Carl kicks off a new series called Your Wise Money Friend. Episode one starts with a simple but powerful idea: A wise money friend doesn’t shame you. They don’t scold, lecture, or judge—they lean in with curiosity. Instead of asking, “Can you afford it?” They ask, “Tell me more.” Because real wisdom isn’t about telling you what to do—it’s about helping you explore...

In this kickoff episode, Carl introduces a new series called Your Wise Money Friend—a collection of short, gentle reflections to help you pause, notice your money patterns, and choose on purpose. No hype. No shame. Just tiny moments of clarity, like a quiet walk with someone who really gets it. Because money isn’t just math, it’s meaning. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekl...

It’s not about what you spent—it’s about what you felt. In this field episode from Los Angeles, Carl shares a shift in how he thinks about money decisions. Whether it’s a new truck or a fancy coffee, the real question isn’t “Can you afford it?” It’s “What are you hoping this will do for you?” Because every financial choice has a feeling underneath it—and that’s where the real insight lives. Want m...

Money isn’t math—it’s practice. In this episode, Carl reframes every financial decision as a chance to get more aligned with who you really are. Not perfect. Just intentional. Not based on someone else’s rules, but rooted in your own values. One choice at a time. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Pl...

What if every transaction became a moment of transformation? In this episode, Carl asks what would happen if your values showed up not after you spend, but right before—before the tap, the click, the buy. Because every transaction builds your story, and with one simple pause, you can start writing it on purpose. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up...

What if every transaction was a chance to practice your values? In this episode, Carl explores how even the smallest purchases—coffee, groceries, flights—can move from invisible habits to intentional choices. This isn’t about spending less. It’s about spending in alignment, where your money reflects the life you actually want to live. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly em...

So much of what we do with money is just autopilot—spend, save, stress, repeat. In this episode, Carl invites us to slow down, feel the pattern, and create space between the trigger and the choice. Because clarity doesn’t live in someone else’s advice—it lives in the feeling between the pattern and the pause. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up fo...

Most people didn’t choose their relationship with money—it was installed by accident. In this short episode, Carl unpacks how our money stories get shaped by childhood, culture, and random moments… and how those unexamined stories still run the show. The good news? You can rewrite the code. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl invites us to imagine a different kind of financial tool—one with a soul. Instead of pushing speed and convenience, what if your banking app paused to ask, “Is this you? Is this what you really want?” Not to judge, but to remind. What if every purchase included a breath—a moment of alignment? Soul and humanity at the center of your spending. Want more fr...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reframes the idea of “managing money” by asking a bold question: What if the real work isn’t about money at all? What if it’s about rewriting the invisible code running in the background—those old stories, patterns, and emotions driving your decisions? Because let’s be honest… you don’t need another budget. You need better code. Want more from Carl? Get...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl challenges the endless flood of financial advice by asking a deeper question: What if the problem isn’t that you don’t know what to do, but that you don’t know why you keep doing something else? Real change doesn’t come from another tip or trick—it comes from awareness. From pausing long enough to get underneath the behavior and uncover the belief drivin...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl continues exploring the idea of an emotional operating system for your financial life by asking: What if money is a mirror? A mirror that reflects not just numbers, but your fears, values, upbringing, and culture. Most of us were handed that mirror without ever being taught how to look into it, so we flinch, avoid, or judge. But what if we could learn to...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl introduces the idea he’s been wrestling with for nearly two decades: building an emotional operating system for your financial life. Money isn’t just numbers—it’s loaded with meaning, emotion, and identity. From love to shame and status to fear, Carl explores why money keeps us up at night and why asking how it feels might matter more than any spreadshee...

We’ve all heard it: “More money, more problems.” But what if that’s only one way to see it? In this episode, I share a conversation with Rabbi Shira Stutman that helped shift my perspective from viewing money as a burden to seeing it as a tool for possibility. It’s a simple lens change… but it might just change everything, especially if you’ve ever felt guilty, ashamed, or stressed about wanting m...

A real email exchange about a home repair gone wrong reveals something deeper: how writing without curiosity—especially when we’re certain we’re right—can turn a simple message into emotional kindling.

If you're frustrated by bottlenecks in your projects, teams, or creative work... look closer. It might be you. In this episode, Carl shares why that's actually good news—and how entrepreneurship, at its best, is a brutal but beautiful path to personal growth.

We all say money can't buy happiness. But deep down, are we hoping it can remove our unhappiness? In this episode, Carl flips the script—and asks what hole we're really trying to fill.

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores a deceptively simple question: What are you solving for? Whether it’s a mountain bike race, a business idea, or a client conversation, knowing the answer shapes everything—your tools, your preparation, and even your motivation. Carl shares how asking this question (and noticing when the answer changes) has guided his life over the past few years...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl takes us inside a classroom exercise that never fails to surprise him—and might surprise you, too. What’s the first thought or feeling that comes to mind when you see a dollar sign? From dumpster diving as a kid to growing up surrounded by wealth but told “we’re not like them,” Carl shares powerful stories about the money scripts we carry. This episode i...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a quote that hit him like a ton of bricks: “Sooner or later, you’re going to have to give up all hope for a better past.” What does that mean when it comes to money? A lot, actually. Carl dives into how we carry old stories—some ours, some inherited—and how they quietly shape our present. This one’s an invitation to drop the stick, stop rewriting...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a sketch—and a story—from his upcoming book, Your Money: Reimagining Wealth Through Simple Sketches, about the power of perspective. Whether it’s a rafting trip gone sideways or a financial challenge that feels overwhelming, sometimes the only way through is up. Carl invites us to rise above the chaos—walk the riverbank, take a breath, talk to a f...

Feeling stuck in a loop? Like every day is just… the same? In this episode, Carl explores what happens when purpose goes missing—and why the smallest spark can change everything. From “bullshit jobs” to freshman soccer referees, this one’s about reclaiming meaning in ordinary moments. You don’t need a big dramatic change. But you do need to decide not to throw in the towel.

What’s more heroic—dying for something or living for it? In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores why it’s often harder (and more meaningful) to show up in the quiet, inconvenient moments than it is to make one grand gesture. From NBA legend John Stockton’s quiet consistency to the daily act of texting a grieving friend, this is a reminder that true courage might just be found in the b...

Ever felt that spark when watching someone do something incredible—like you're catching a glimpse of pure passion in action? That feeling isn't random. It's a clue, a breadcrumb, guiding you toward what makes you come alive. In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reveals exactly how to decode these moments, uncover your own passion, and turn inspiration into action. Because the world doesn't...

Ever grab an electric fence? Carl has—and he says that’s exactly what money conversations can feel like when we don’t expect emotions. In this short episode of Behavior Gap Radio, he shares one simple idea that might change how you talk about money forever: expect feelings. Because money isn’t just numbers… it’s identity, power, fear, and love. When you expect the emotional charge, you won’t be sh...