Terry and Clair

Been there, done that, now what?

Education EN ↓ 11 episodes

Unfiltered. Unfinished. Real. This isn’t a guru podcast. It’s two people who’ve lived through chaos, survival mode, addiction, identity shifts and rebuilding from the ground up — now asking the question most people avoid: Now what? We talk about growth without pretending we’ve mastered it. Outgrowing old versions of yourself. Trusting calm when your nervous system prefers drama. ADHD brains. Relationships after chaos. The uncomfortable side of becoming better. It’s deep — but it’s not dull. There’s laughter. There’s calling each other out. There’s real talk without the fake motivation. Street...

Author

Terry and Clair

Category

Education

Podcast website

riverside.com

Latest episode

Jun 8, 2026

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Episodes

Been there - Ate that 08.06.2026

The conversation delves into the complex relationship between food and mental health, exploring the impact of #dopamine, #addiction, and emotional eating. It also addresses body image, self-esteem, and the challenges of food preparation and planning. Strategies for managing food cravings are discussed, emphasizing the importance of support and understanding. #mentalhealth #adhd #life Takeaways Foo...

Fixes that didn't fix you 22.05.2026

The conversation delves into the reality of living life with ADHD and addiction, exploring the messy middle of the journey. It discusses the search for external fixes and the role of spirituality in recovery, providing insights into the challenges and experiences of individuals navigating these complex issues. Takeaways Seeking external fixes The role of spirituality in recovery Chapters 00:00 The...

Social Anxiety 28.04.2026

This week's podcast conversation delves into the challenges of #social anxiety, #negative self-talk, #addiction, #alcoholism and the impact on #relationships. It explores the factors contributing to social anxiety, #copingmechanisms, and the struggle with #self-esteem and addiction. Terry and Clair discuss the need for understanding, support, and the complexity of #mentalhealth. Takeaways Navigati...

Celebrating Seven Years of Sobriety 18.04.2026

As they discuss Terry's 7-year sobriety birthday, the conversation covers the journey of #sobriety, personal growth, and the challenges faced in maintaining a #soberlifestyle. It delves into the #emotional and identity-related aspects of sobriety, as well as the impact on #relationships and experiences. The speakers reflect on the changes and #growth they have experienced over the years. Takeaways...

Coming back swinging 11.04.2026

The conversation explores the positive attributes of #recovery and the concept of #ADHD as a superpower. It delves into the #resilience and strength associated with ADHD, highlighting the highs and lows of the condition. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the transformative nature of ADHD and its impact on their lives. Takeaways ADHD as a Superpower Resilience and Stren...

ADHD Love Bombing 27.03.2026

The conversation delves into the complexity of relationships, exploring the impact of ADHD, addiction, attachment wounds, and the search for love and trust. It also highlights the phenomenon of love bombing and hyperfocus in relationships, shedding light on the challenges and dynamics of romantic connections. Takeaways Love bombing Hyperfocus in relationships #ADHD #ADDICTION #PODCASTING #PODCAST...

Rejection Sensitivity 15.03.2026

Terry and Clair discuss rejection sensitivity and its impact on their lives, relationships, and personal growth. They explore the connection between rejection sensitivity, trauma, attachment, and ADHD, and the challenges of self-improvement and self-acceptance. Takeaways Rejection sensitivity impacts relationships Self-improvement can be a lifelong journey Chapters 00:00 Understanding Rejection Se...

Sober dancing 06.03.2026

The conversation delves into the themes of self-discovery and acceptance, exploring the journey of #findingoneself, evolving, navigating #sobriety, and embracing the process of self-acceptance. It also touches on unlearning societal expectations and embracing the aging process. The dialogue provides insights into the complexities of personal growth and the challenges of self-acceptance. Takeaways...

Enmeshment? 27.02.2026

The conversation delves into the impact of #ADHD on #addiction, #self-sabotage, and #selfacceptance. It also explores the experiences of #ADHDdiagnosis, childhood #trauma, #grief, and #hyperfixations. The theme of understanding oneself and finding acceptance is prevalent throughout the discussion. Takeaways ADHD and its impact on addiction and self-sabotage The struggle with acceptance and underst...

Think like Tel 21.02.2026

The conversation delves into Terrys childhood trauma, family dynamics, and early introduction to alcohol and drug use. It then explores encounters with Alcoholics Anonymous and the Young Offenders Institution, followed by a discussion on rehabilitation and determination to change. The impact on family and personal growth is also highlighted. The conversation covers Terry's journey of transformatio...

Clair from where? 12.02.2026

The conversation delves into Clair's journey of recovery and the struggles with addiction. It explores the challenges faced, the turning points, and the reflections on the recovery journey. Takeaways Recovery Journey Struggles with Addiction Chapters 00:00 Reflecting on the Recovery Journey

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