BECOMING UNTRIGGERED

Are Men from Mars and Women from Venus? In this episode of Becoming Untriggered , we’re getting real about the differences between men and women—and how those differences can both challenge and strengthen our relationships. Drawing from our own experiences (like unpacking after a big move!) and our clients' stories, we uncover why men may seem withdrawn and women feel unheard. We’ll talk about tho...

In this episode of Becoming Untriggered , we delve into the complexities of managing relationships with in-laws, especially around parenting approaches. Join us as we discuss the common triggers that arise, from differing parenting styles to struggles with boundary-setting. We explore why these tensions often stem from deeper dynamics with our own parents and how these relationships can serve as a...

In this podcast episode, we explore whether gentle parenting actually works, diving into gentle or conscious parenting vs. authoritarian parenting, and their impact. Offering valuable parenting tips and exploring gentle parenting myths, we address common parenting mistakes including the balance between authority and collaboration. We also discuss why parents sometimes revert to authoritarian or au...

In this episode, we explore how childhood dynamics and parental influences shape adult relationships and parenting styles. The discussion delves into the effects of volatile and anxious mothers, as well as angry and absent fathers, on your attachment styles and relationship dynamics. Through psychodynamic coaching and inner child healing, we offer insights and healing techniques to address these d...

In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we discuss the back-to-school season and its impact on both children and parents. We explore how unprocessed childhood trauma can influence parents' reactions and provide practical tips for supporting both your child and inner child through this transition. The conversation explores understanding the inner child, the challenges of parenting, and how to crea...

In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we discuss the challenges of dealing with children's neediness. We explore the reasons behind why parents may find their children's neediness annoying, the childhood triggers linked to this, and how to overcome these feelings. This episode covers various ways children's neediness manifests, including clinginess, verbal demands, ungratefulness, and unhappine...

In this episode, we discuss how childhood trauma impacts relationship intimacy, with a focus on the challenges faced by couples after having kids. We delve into topics such as intimacy after giving birth, the influence of pornography on intimacy, and the effects of early sexual experiences on adult relationships.  We offer practical advice for new parents on maintaining intimacy and overcoming rel...

In this episode, we delve into surviving early parenthood and the importance of not losing yourself in the process. We discuss how prioritising self-care and being 'selfish' in relationships can prevent resentment and burnout. We also explore the negative effects of people pleasing, the crucial role of inner child work, and how understanding and addressing unprocessed traumas from childhood can he...

In this episode, we delve into the topic of stress in relationships and how to manage it effectively. We discuss the negative effects of stress and how it can manifest in daily life, often due to unprocessed trauma from childhood. By exploring inner child work and inner parenting, we provide practical tools to help you cope with stress, own it, and process it rather than projecting it onto your pa...

In this episode, we uncover why your kids fighting triggers you and give you practical tools on how to deal with your kids fighting.  We explore the common challenges faced by parents when their children fight, including sibling rivalry, name-calling, bullying and physical fighting. We delve into how these situations can bring up unprocessed childhood traumas and offer practical tools to help you...

In this episode of Becoming Untriggered, we dive deep into the common issues that lead to divorce and discuss how childhood traumas and unprocessed emotions can manifest as conflict in relationships. We also share personal experiences, insights on attachment trauma, and practical tools for reparenting your inner child to foster healthier, more present relationships. Tune in to learn how to navigat...

Welcome to Becoming Untriggered, the podcast for people who want to be better parents and partners. In each episode, you'll hear stories, practical tools, and strategies related to topics like healing your inner child, emotional regulation, overcoming childhood coping mechanisms, and so much more. Your hosts, Andrew Lynn and Lavinia Brown bring over 16 years of their own relationship experienc...