Becoming Her: Thriving in School, Life, and Career

Young ladies are searching for guidance, simple language, and tools they can use right away without feeling overwhelmed or overstepping as stated by Sheri Gazitt. Sheri is the author of Girl Drama Decoded and a coach working globally with parents and teens for more than 15 years. You will enjoy listening to Sheri discussing how to decode girl drama. Useful links have been included below. Social +...

What happens when one difficult class makes you question yourself? This honest conversation reflects on Amera’s junior year, academic struggles, and learning that success doesn't mean doing everything alone. Listen as Amera, a high school rising senior, shares how tutoring, perseverance, and planning helped her regain confidence as she prepares for graduation and college.

Today we are joined by Robin Sims-Allen, an inspiring entrepreneur, leader, wife, and mother who is helping women and young people use their voices, build confidence, and create opportunities in technology and business. Robin Sims-Allen is a powerhouse entrepreneur, a transformative leader, wife and mother of two dynamic teens.  Robin is the visionary behind Phoenix Marcus and Total HER. You will...

Today’s young ladies are carrying heavier emotional weights than ever before. Recent national surveys show that girls’ confidence has dropped significantly over the past few years, and more than half of teen girls report feeling persistent sadness or hopelessness. Many are also struggling with anxiety, body image pressures, and the constant comparison that comes with social media. These aren’t jus...

Today’s conversation is all about raising well-rounded young ladies. Research shows that while academics matter, success in life is also deeply influenced by what happens beyond the classroom. Activities like spiritual development, service, and hands-on life skills play a powerful role in shaping confident, grounded young women. Megan, we’re excited to learn more about your family and how you’ve i...

Today’s episode follows the inspiring journey of Savanhah — a 24-year-old married student, a devoted mom to a one-year-old son, and a proud first-generation college student. Her path wasn’t straightforward. After graduating high school unsure of what she really wanted to do, she stepped into the workforce for six to seven months. But it didn’t take long for her to recognize something important: to...

Today, we’re sharing the journey of Loretta — a brave, first-year internationalstudent from Mexico who began college during the height of the COVID-19pandemic. With Spanish as her first language, she stepped into an English-speaking classroom ready to learn, even when subjects like history felt overwhelming. Unable to work in her first year because of her student status, Loretta leaned into what s...

Tune in to meet Miranda. Miranda — a first-generation college student who stepped into her very first year of college during one of the most uncertain times in history: the COVID-19 pandemic. Despite the world shifting around her, Miranda pressed forward. Balancing a part- time job, navigating online learning, and figuring out whether 8-week or 16-week courses best fit her life, she learned to stu...

Tune in to meet Erica. Erica is a wife, a mother, and someone who refused to let her past define her future. After earning her GED, she made a bold decision—one that many dream of but few are brave enough to follow: she’s returning to college to build a better life for herself and her family. Her journey reminds us that it’s never too late to dream again… never too late to start over… and never to...

Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. It’s necessary. Your mind and your body need care, attention, and rest—just like your goals and relationships do. When you’re constantly pushing, pleasing, or pretending to be okay when you’re not, you eventually run out of energy. Let’s look at three concepts to protect your mind and body: Awareness, Setting boundaries and letting go of things you cannot con...

Today, we’re talking about something that could completely change your life having a system. Did you know that creating a system can help you avoid stress? Let’s be real — life can get overwhelming. School deadlines, family responsibilities, social media, friendships, and figuring out your next step — it’s a lot. But here’s the secret: successful girls don’t do everything — they plan whatmatters....

This episode is about something that shapes every part of our lives — making wise decisions. You see, life is full of choices — what friends to hang with, how to spend your time, whether to study or scroll, and what to believe about yourself. And here’s the truth: the choices you make today shape the woman you’ll become tomorrow. Now, here’s the truth: success isn’t just about grades, a résumé, or...

We’ve talked about what healthy friendships look like—taking time, being your real self and listening. But what happens when the relationship becomes draining, dramatic, or just…toxic? So today, I want to dive into something real -- learning how to step away fromrelationships that aren’t good for you. You might start to feel small, stressed, or constantly on edge. I know, sometimes you stay in fri...

Today’s episode we’re talking about something that shapes every part of ourlives—building strong, healthy relationships. Now, when I say “relationships,” I’m not just talking about dating. I’m talking about friendships, mentors, family connections, and even how you relate to yourself. The way we build relationships now—while we’re young—can impact our joy, peace, and success for years to come. We...

Today’s episode we’re talking about something every young woman faces at some point — challenges — and how you can rise above them with resilience. Life isn’t always easy. There will be moments that feel unfair, overwhelming, and just plain hard. Maybe you’re struggling in school, feeling misunderstood at home, dealing with friend drama or trying to move on from something that really hurt you. Ess...

Today’s episode is all about embracing your story — learning to stand in your truth, celebrating your strengths, and believing that you were created on purpose, with purpose. Sometimes, it’s easy to forget that. The world tells us to blend in, to fit someone else’s idea of what success or beauty looks like. Essie shares:  The Power of Self-Discovery  Letting Go of Comparison  Trying New Things...

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Episode 2 – Mindsets Part 2 Are you ready to unlockyour true strength? In this episode, Essie showshow having a Growth Mindset can help you conquer school challenges and more. Have you ever feltoverwhelmed by a tough assignment? This conversation will give you themotivation you need today. Essie shares: ·       How to turn yourobstacles into opportunities ·       How to look at setbacks ·       Th...

Your life will only rise as high as your mindset. In this episode, Essie dives into the truth that when you change the way you think, you change the way you live. If you’ve been feeling stuck, doubting yourself, or struggling to move forward, this conversation will give you the motivation you need today. Essie shares: Why your thoughts are the foundation of your reality How to recognize and replac...