Becoming Flame: Where Sensuality, Sovereignty, and Sacred Power Ignite

What if the business you built is successful, but no longer feels like you? In this conversation, Kait sits down with Marissa Liesenfelt, an 8-figure operator turned intuitive business mentor, to explore what happens when women outgrow the identities, strategies, and structures that once created their success. Marissa brings a rare blend of operational depth and energetic precision. She has built,...

Katerina Foltova joins Becoming Flame to talk about tantra as a spiritual technology, the cobra breath practice, heartbreak as initiation, and why your physical spine is the truest barometer of self-loyalty. Katerina's entry into tantra came through the Cobra Breath — a practice transmitted through the School of Ipsalut and the lineage of Babaji Nagaraj, one of the most ancient living traditions i...

Erotic Embodiment, Sensuality and the Power to Create In this episode, Kait Tregenza explores femininity, sensuality and sexuality as living forces of creation. This is not a conversation about performance or surface-level confidence. It is about reclaiming sensuality as a deep intimacy with self, a return to life force, and a way of relating to the body as a source of intelligence, power and crea...

Kait speaks with Kassandra Scardino about BioGeometry, resonance, energetic coherence and what it means to stop adapting to an incoherent world. Together, they explore how homes, land, food, water, technology and community spaces can either drain or support the body, and why harmony may need to become the first point of call, not the last resort. About Kassandra Scardino Kassandra Scardino is a he...

In this potent solo episode, Kait Tregenza explores what it means to stop creating from fear, scarcity, validation, and inherited programming, and to begin creating from the truth already alive within you. This is a conversation about attention, life force, and the ways we unknowingly feed the very systems that keep us disconnected from our power. Kait challenges the logic of competition, accumula...

In this episode, Nadine Lee shares the essence of womb wealth: creating from the body, living in alignment with the menstrual cycle, and allowing desire, joy and devotion to guide what gets birthed into the world. Nadine challenges the idea that feminine business is passive. For her, the feminine is creatrix energy. It is active, alive and deeply connected to purpose. When women stop copying what...

In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza breaks down what she means by emotional alchemy through one of the most charged emotions of all: rage. Rather than bypassing it, spiritualising it, or shrinking around it, she explores rage as information, energy and a catalyst for truth. This is a practical conversation about naming what you feel, reclaiming the parts of yourself that have been labelled too muc...

In this fierce and deeply moving conversation, Kait sits down with Claire Standen, the powerful woman demanding recompense for centuries of violence against women, to explore the bold campaign calling on the Church of Scotland to return a church to women as reparations for the Scottish witch trials. But this conversation goes far beyond history. Together they unravel the loss of feminine wisdom, t...

In this belated introductory episode, Kait Tregenza circles back to explain what it means to  Become Flame  and the deeper inquiry at the heart of the podcast: what happens when a woman stops abandoning her power and begins to meet the truth of what lives within her. This is a conversation about emotional depth, suppressed power and the fear of one’s own magnitude. Kait explores the unhumanity of...

What if your appetite is not something to suppress, but life force waiting to be transmuted? In this solo episode of  Becoming Flame , Kait Tregenza explores the deeper truth beneath greed, gluttony and over-desire, asking whether what we have been taught to shame might actually hold the blueprint for our power. Through personal story, reflection and alchemical inquiry, she unpacks how greed can d...

In this episode, Kait Tregenza explores the deeper relationship between erotic intelligence, feminine embodiment and the creation of coherent beauty. This conversation moves beyond surface ideas of attraction and asks what it means to become truly magnetic through self-trust, embodiment and alignment with nature. Kait weaves together themes of spagyric alchemy, plant medicine and the reframing of...

In this episode, Kait Tregenza explores the Sleeping Phoenix Incarnation Cross and the deeper shifts it signals, both collectively and within women. She weaves together themes of energetic transition, erotic feminine embodiment and the changing relationship women are being asked to have with their bodies, their power and their creative life force. The conversation also moves into the interface bet...

This episode is a short excerpt from Kait’s private monthly transmission container for women feeling a deep alignment to shift the axis of the earth into this new era. This piece felt important to share publicly right now, for all women. In this transmission, Kait explores bravery not as force, performance or fearlessness, but as the capacity to remain open. Open to truth. Open to feeling. Open to...

Upgrade Your Operating System: Why Female Biology Is the Business Strategy with Alexandria Kenyon What if the exhaustion so many women feel isn’t personal failure, but the result of trying to operate on systems that were never built for female biology? In this provocative and deeply expansive conversation, Kait sits down with psychic teacher and energetic mentor Alexandria Kenyon to explore female...

This episode moves straight into the territory most people avoid. Kait Tregenza sits with Masha Maria in a conversation that challenges the idea that love should feel soft, easy, or accommodating. Instead, they explore what happens when you are met in truth - and in that conversation, in walks a powerful archetype we just spontaneously jump into. Very quickly, the centre of this dialogue emerges a...

In this episode, Kait explores self-love not as a concept, but as a daily devotion. Through the lenses of motherhood, birthing and feminine power, this conversation moves into the deep relationship between self-love, source, the Earth and child love, whether that means tending to your younger self or loving your own child with greater presence. Kait reflects on birth as a profound initiation: the...

This conversation in two words: radical congruency. Jax Faulkner shares the moment her life split open, from waitress to transmitter, and the choice that followed. Not a vision, but a willingness to respond to what is present. Kait and Jax examine what it means to live in alignment when your reality is expanding faster than your conditioning can keep up. From a sudden energetic activation to sold-...

Feminism and Feminine Embodiment Are Not the Same In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza explores the distinction between feminism and feminine embodiment, unpacking how each arose, what each seeks to address and where they diverge. She reflects on feminism as a survival response within patriarchal and capitalist systems, while also examining the deeper power of feminine embodiment as a path of coher...

Compromise Is Not Love In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza challenges the idea that compromise is the hallmark of a healthy relationship. She explores how compromise can sometimes mask self-abandonment, doubt and disconnection from personal truth, and offers a different framework rooted in boundaries, clarity and unconditional love. This is a provocative conversation about abundance, codependency,...

Feminine Sensuality, Shadow and the Power to Create In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza explores feminine embodiment as a force of creation, coherence and power. She unpacks the distortion of divine femininity, the role of sensuality and emotion in the creative process, and the ways women have been taught to distrust what is most innate within them. This is a provocative conversation about sexuali...

In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza explores the deep imprint of the mother wound and the ways maternal relationships shape our sense of worth, identity, obedience and emotional safety. She unpacks how conditional love, ancestral patterning and early power dynamics can become embedded in the body, influencing everything from money to self-expression. This is a rich conversation on reparenting, rec...

The Power of Erotic Agency In this episode, Kait Tregenza is joined by Anisa Varasteh for a nuanced conversation on self-trust, erotic agency and the power of slowing down enough to make conscious choices. Together, they explore how childhood conditioning, attachment patterns and cultural messaging shape the way we relate to desire, boundaries and pleasure. This episode offers a grounded path back...

In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza unpacks the hidden emotional pattern beneath chronic capability. This is for the woman who is competent, dependable and endlessly resourceful, yet quietly exhausted by carrying too much for too long. Kait explores how childhood instability, unreliable caregivers and early parentalisation can condition someone to become the fixer, the strong one and the person wh...

From Birth Work to Stripping: Reclaiming the Forbidden Feminine In this episode, Kait Tregenza is joined by Caitlin Erica for a provocative conversation on birth, erotic power and the reclamation of the forbidden feminine. Caitlin shares the unlikely path that took her from birth work into stripping, and how that journey became an initiation into deeper feminine embodiment, self-trust and liberati...

In this solo episode, Kait Tregenza explores what it actually takes to live your passion beyond the fantasy of effortless manifestation. She unpacks the role of faith, emotional resilience and energetic alignment in bringing a vision into form, and offers a more grounded approach to purpose, creation and abundance. This is a conversation about moving one step at a time, trusting what you cannot ye...