Becoming Emotionally Available

What if feeling “different” was never the problem? In this episode of Becoming Emotionally Available, I sit down with Kenan to talk about disability, fear of judgment, emotional isolation, dating, rejection, and learning to trust your own timing instead of comparing your life to everyone else’s. We explore: the hidden cost of feeling different why people withdraw after embarrassment fear of vulner...

In this episode, we dive into honest conversations around relationships, emotional maturity, communication, and the patterns that quietly shape how we show up with others. My guest shares their personal experiences, challenges, and insights around navigating conflict, connection, healing, and growth — while we unpack what it really takes to build healthier relationships and have the uncomfortable...

I went on a date with a man who said all the right things, until dinner. What he said within 20 minutes revealed the biggest red flag in dating... and it shook me. But here's the real story: it's not just about him. It's about how we ignore our gut, move too fast, and call it chemistry when it's actually anxious attachment. If you've ever felt that tension between excitement and discernment, this...

I’m a relationship coach. I’ve done the work. And still … I almost dated a covert narcissist. In this episode, I share how it happened, what I missed, and the 6 big lessons I learned. Because even the “experts” get it wrong sometimes, and that’s okay. Join me on my upcoming workshop to create a clear vision and not miss these signs: www.insidesmatchjourney.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privac...

If your love goal is tied to a deadline, it might be keeping you stuck. In this episode, dating coach Dagmar Kusiak shares why focusing on outcomes (like getting married this year) backfires, and what to do instead. Learn how to Shift from pressure to purpose, Build a clear, honest relationship vision, Spot real emotional safety, and Ask the right questions early. Plus, get the scoop on Dagmar’s f...

Ever fallen hard for someone, only to find out they’re emotionally unavailable with a side of chaos? Yeah, me too. In this episode, I unpack why that “spark” often means familiar trauma, not true connection. We’ll dive into the neuroscience behind attraction, how your brain’s filter (the Reticular Activating System) keeps pulling you toward the wrong partners, and the 6 areas that actually matter...

In this episode, I open up about a recent 3-month dating experience that started with promise and ended with clarity. I share what drew me in, what I overlooked, and the subtle misalignment I didn’t want to see. You’ll hear the difference between emotional transparency and true vulnerability, and why chemistry isn’t the same as compatibility . More than anything, this is about getting honest, with...

If you’ve done the therapy, read the books, journaled your heart out, and still wonder where your person is, this episode is for you. Today, I’m talking with Dr. Corey Seemiller , author of The Soulmate Strategy , a powerful guide for people who are ready for deep, conscious love. She’s not just a speaker and thought leader, she’s someone who’s lived it. And in this episode, she’s sharing the one...

What happens when life flips your relationship upside down, when roles shift, plans shatter, and you're suddenly carrying more than you ever expected? In this deeply honest and hopeful episode, we sit down with Morgan Templar, whose story of love, loss, and loyalty will move you. She and her husband Steve faced sudden illness, financial strain, and massive life changes, but they stayed connected....

After the news of Charlie Kirk’s murder, I spiraled into a 12-hour binge of his debates. Not because I agreed with him, but because I was escaping my own fears. In this episode, I share how that binge taught me about the lies we tell ourselves, the radical truths that set us free, and how violence shows up not just in actions, but in the way we communicate. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy f...

Today on the podcast, I’m joined by entrepreneur and author Christopher Tricola. Chris’s journey is one of resilience, from surviving cancer to rebuilding after financial devastation. What makes his story powerful isn’t just the success he’s built, but how he’s learned to drop the armour, embrace vulnerability, and redefine what true strength really means. That shift has paid off—with a thriving b...

Do you hold back from sharing your needs because you’re scared of hurting someone or being “too much”? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore the fear of speaking up, the roots of why we stay silent, and how choosing vulnerability (even when it’s scary) can create deeper, more authentic connections. Whether it’s asking for a hug or setting a boundary, we’ll talk about how to start small, sp...

In this episode, fitness coach Elliot Hasoon opens up about the mindset shifts, therapy, and healing work that helped him move from dating burnout to deep connection and ultimately, to a happy marriage. We talk emotional availability, clarity, and the power of doing your inner work. Ready to date with more intention? Join my workshop at www.insidesmatchjourney.com to start attracting love that las...

Ever felt like your bank account knows more about your childhood than your therapist does? You’re not alone. In this heartfelt (and occasionally hilarious) episode, Dagmar sits down with financial expert Cherie Wagner to unpack the money beliefs we inherit, the shame we carry, and the weird things we do with our wallets because of it. From first paychecks to fights about Roth IRAs, this episode di...

In this episode, Dagmar Kusiak and guest Michelle Willard dive into the tough conversations you need before marriage: from money and kids to faith and boundaries. Learn why meeting your own needs first creates safer relationships and how to talk about the topics that often get avoided. Tune in for real stories, real tools, and real talk on building a secure, lasting partnership. Plus Michelle shar...

Turiya Hodge, a successful business owner and social media strategist, shares what it truly means to be emotionally available. She reveals the surprising parallels between the walls she built in business and in love and how learning to be vulnerable changed everything. Discover the business strategy that helped her shift her mindset on love. Turiya opens up about the steps she took to get past her...

In this very first episode, I get honest about why I started Becoming Emotionally Available and why it took me so long to get here. I’m sharing my personal journey through heartbreak, healing, and learning to open up emotionally. If you’ve ever felt stuck, scared to love, or unsure where to begin, this episode is for you. Let’s start this journey together. Ready to date with more intention? Join m...