Becoming Badass | Secure Love & Healthy Relationships

Are you constantly chasing love and fighting for connection, only to feel him pulling away even more? You might be caught in a Pursuer-Distancer dynamic—and it is HELL. If you feel like you're chasing love rather than experiencing it, you might be trapped in a common relationship cycle. In this video, I dive deep into the pursuer-distancer dynamic and explain why your attempts to communicate, expl...

Are you constantly chasing love and fighting for connection, only to feel him pulling away even more? You might be caught in a Pursuer-Distancer dynamic—and it is HELL. If you feel like you're chasing love rather than experiencing it, you might be trapped in a common relationship cycle. In this video, I dive deep into the pursuer-distancer dynamic and explain why your attempts to communicate, expl...

Do you feel like a supporting character in your own life? In this video, we explore why you must  Decenter Him  to reclaim your power and finally  become the main character  of your own story. When you stop revolving around him, you create the space for a truly  secure relationship  built on mutual respect rather than anxious attachment. We're diving deep into the psychology of the  Secure Woman  ...

Is communicating too much actually pushing him away? This video shows you how to show up as the high value woman you are and why " explaining yourself " is a low-value habit that kills attraction. I share my personal "Barbecue Story"—the exact moment I realized that  silence  was my greatest boundary—and how it completely transformed my relationships. ✨ Come join the FREE Private group here: ➡️➡️...

If you're DONE chasing love… DONE overthinking every text… DONE feeling disconnected, unseen, or like you're carrying the relationship alone… and you want to learn how to be so Magnetic that you're man cant get enough of you... ✨ Come join the FREE Private group here:  ➡️➡️ https://www.facebook.com/groups/healthyrelationshipsforwomen A space for women ready to become secure, deeply loved, emotion...

Stop Chasing, Start Attracting: The Power of the Secure Woman. Do you ever feel like the harder you try to hold on to a relationship, the further it slips away? In this video, we're diving deep into the psychology of the "Secure Woman"—the woman who knows her worth, understands her value, and never feels the need to chase. When you operate from a place of security, your energy shifts from desperat...

I thought I was showing up as a good mom because I loved my kids deeply… but I was missing one of the BIGGEST things that creates emotional closeness, trust, and safety in relationships. And the craziest part? This doesn't just affect your relationship with your kids… it affects your partner, too. In this Mother's Day episode, my 11-year-old daughter joins me to share what actually made her feel:...

Have the close, deeply connected, fulfilling relationship you want! for 1-1 coaching go to  https://sabrinaphoenix.com Are you exhausted from being the "manager" of your relationship? If you feel like things only happen because you make them happen, you aren't just tired—you're unintentionally killing the very attraction you're trying to build. In today's episode, we are breaking the "Fixer" habit...

Have the close, deeply connected, fulfilling relationship you want! for 1-1 coaching go to  https://sabrinaphoenix.com If you're waiting for him to change… hoping he'll finally become the man you know he could be this is what you need to hear.   There's nothing more addictive than potential. The "almost man"… the one who shows you glimpses of who he could be… but never fully becomes it. And the tr...

Want to go deeper? Go here to chat with me about 1-1 coaching: https://sabrinaphoenix.com/private-coaching If you feel like you're doing everything right in your relationship… and still don't feel chosen, this is why. Trying to fix what feels off, overgiving, and carrying the emotional weight doesn't create closeness — it creates pressure. And over time, you lose yourself inside the relationship....

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Be useless to men — and watch what changes. If you feel like you're always the one trying… fixing… holding the relationship together… and still don't feel chosen — this is for you. In this video, I break down: why trying harder is pushing you further away from feeling chosen how you've been taught to earn love by being "useful" and what actually shifts when you stop overgiving and come back to you...

Want deeper support? Go to https://SabrinaPhoenix.com . If you're the type of woman who cares too much and is too nice...you tend to overgive in relationships - this is for you. If you ever felt like you're doing everything right in your relationship… being understanding, low-maintenance, easy to love… …and still not feeling chosen, I'll share you why this keeps happening in your relationship and...

Schedule your Relationship Clarity Session here at https://sabrinaphoenix.com/private-coaching If you feel like you care too much, you're the rock, the one doing everything in your relationships… this episode is for you. You're checking in first. Trying to fix things when something feels off. Putting in more effort, more care, more energy… and still not feeling truly seen, chosen, or supported. Mo...

Do you ever feel like you're the one holding your relationship together? Texting first. Fixing problems. Keeping the connection alive. Many smart, capable women don't realize they've slowly stepped into the role of carrying the relationship — trying harder, giving more, and doing everything to keep the connection close. But the more you try to create closeness… the more exhausted and unseen you ca...

Do you feel the distance in your relationship and do all you can to close that gap? If you feel like you're doing everything to keep your relationship connected… you're not alone. Many smart, capable women find themselves working harder and harder in their relationships—checking in, initiating conversations, planning time together, trying to fix things when they feel off. And the more distance you...

If you're a smart, strong, successful woman and love still feels harder than it should… this episode is for you. We're talking about the pattern that quietly turns relationships into work: overfunctioning —being the "manager," the planner, the fixer, the one holding it all together. And why, when you're always leading the relationship, you end up feeling drained, resentful, and like you're doing e...

Valentine's Day can bring up a lot of emotions — especially if your life doesn't look the way you thought it would by now. If you're single, feeling lonely, in a relationship that feels distant, or quietly wondering why this day affects you more than you expected… this episode is for you. ✨  Take the Quiz Understand the pattern that's been keeping you stuck:👉 https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typeform.com/to/...

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Trying harder doesn't create the love you want — it quietly blocks it. If you're smart, capable, and doing everything right in your relationship — but still feeling unseen, unfulfilled, or emotionally drained — this episode is for you. ✨ Take the "What's Your Love Block?" Quiz (it's free) Discover the hidden pattern that's keeping you stuck in effort, overgiving, or chasing connection — and learn...

Stop Being Nice and Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible). You cant create fulflling, deeply connected relationships if you're stuck in people pleasing patterns . 🔗 Chosen: Next Level Love - A private space for women who are done trying harder to be loved. Inside, you'll learn how to stop people-pleasing and overgiving, build emotional security, and create deeply connected re...

Love isn't supposed to feel one-sided, exhausting, or like constant work. If you're smart, capable, and doing "everything right" in your relationship — but still not feeling supported, chosen, or met — this video is for you.   ✨ Take the What's Your Love Block? Take the QUIZ to discover your relationship pattern and how you may be accidentally blocking the love you want:   https://ajdm3t9gq5t.typ...

Everyone talks about New Year's resolutions — doing more, fixing yourself, becoming someone new. But what if that's not the problem? In this live, I talk about why real change doesn't come from pushing harder or setting more goals — it comes from learning how to reset instead of carrying guilt, disappointment, and self-judgment into the next chapter of your life.   ✨✨✨  Take the Love Block Quiz...

How to stop feeling lonely, disappointed, and stressed TF out on the holidays and find joy and happiness no matter how your life looks!! I used to sabotage my holidays by doing this! how comparing oneself to others can cause despair. how I approach new years resolutions I used to perpetually feel disappointed and lonely on the holidays to just enjoying it and being in the present moment with my fa...

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