Becoming A Writer

E47 - I Was Doing Everything Except Writing (And It Was Holding Me Back) Episode Summary In this episode, I reflect on my early attempt at building an audience through YouTube before becoming a writer. While the platform seemed like the logical path, I soon realized that creating videos drained my energy rather than fueling it. Through that experience, I discovered an important truth: I had become...

E46 - Excerpt from my book Soul Writer Vs Social Writer 📚 My non-fiction book for writers -Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot. Amazon US - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CL6JBL7M Amazon UK - https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CL6JBL7M Amazon India - https://www.amazon.in/dp/B0CL6JBL7M 🎧Free Audiobook -YouTube - https://www.youtub...

E45 - 13 Books Every Pantser And Discovery Writer Should Read. Resources Mentioned: Book 1 - Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Book 2 - Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon Book 3 - Show Your Work! by Austin Kleon Book 4 - Keep Going by Austin Kleon Book 5 - Becoming a Writer by Dorothea Brande Book 6 - The War of Art by Steven Pressfield Book 7 - Turning Pro by Steven Pressfield Book 8 - The Writer&...

E44 – What If Your Writing Isn't Unproductive — Just Misaligned? Episode Summary: In this episode, I reflect on a powerful insight I gained from the book How To Cultivate A Thriving Author Ecosystem by Russell Nohelty. The book outlines five different author archetypes—Desert, Grassland, Tundra, Forest, and Aquatic—and explains how each represents a distinct way writers naturally create, publi...

E43 - Are You Planning Your Writing As If Life Won’t Interfere? Episode Summary: In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on what happens when we plan our writing — and our lives — as if nothing will ever interfere. I entered 2025 with ambitious goals, only to watch every single one fall apart. Chronic health struggles, nervous system breakdown, unresolved trauma, and the long-term impact of liv...

E42 - Do You Regret Being A Writer? Episode Summary: In this reflective and deeply personal episode, Rubina revisits a decision she made in 2016—to step away from the expected path after college and pursue writing. As social media revives nostalgia for “simpler times,” she finds herself asking a question she recently voiced in therapy: Do I regret choosing to be a writer? Her answer is clear: Abso...

E41 - The Transformative Power of Journaling for Writers Episode Summary : In this episode, we explore how journaling can transform both your writing and your inner world. Beyond being a daily habit, journaling becomes a sacred practice that clears creative blocks, builds self-awareness, and strengthens your connection with your craft. Based on my experience, I share my favorite journaling methods...

E40 - Befriend Your Creative Fears. Episode Summary: After a health break, I return to explore the role of fear in a writer’s journey with you. Fear of judgment, rejection, or not being “good enough” can paralyze creativity, yet fear also signals growth. Through personal reflections, a cycling metaphor, and wisdom from Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, I share how we writers can reframe fear as a co...

E39 - Write Your Book Like You Read One—Let Your Words Surprise You. Episode Summary: In today’s episode, we dive into a refreshing mindset shift for writers: Write like you read . Whether you're crafting fiction or non-fiction, approaching your book with curiosity, imagination, and conversational flow can not only make the writing process more enjoyable, but also make your words resonate more...

E38 - "Who Will Read My Book?" Episode Summary: In this deeply personal and inspiring episode, I return after a healing hiatus to reflect on the transformative power of reading and the doubt that often haunts writers — Who will read my books? Through my own journey of dealing with PCOS, healing through books, and reconnecting with my love for reading, I remind you that if books have chan...

E37 - Living And Writing With Chronic Illness 💬Episode Summary: In this deeply personal episode, I share my 15-year battle with PCOS, the struggles I have faced in seeking medical help, and the impact it has had on my writing life. I discuss the emotional toll of dealing with a chronic illness, the frustrations of not being able to work at full capacity, and my journey toward healing. I also open...

E36 - Uncover the Goldmine of Ideas Waiting Patiently Within You. 💬Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore the concept of ideas being all around us and how writers can tap into them effortlessly. We discuss why writers struggle with the belief that they have no ideas and provide practical methods to find, generate, and track ideas for writing projects. 💬 Key Points Discussed: The power of l...

E35 - Turn Your Dream Into Reality: Complete Your First Draft This Year! 💬Episode Summary: In this episode, we discuss how to overcome the fear and uncertainty of writing a first draft and turn your dream of completing a book into reality. Using a combination of creativity and logical planning, you can create a writing routine that works for you and ensures steady progress. Whether you're a d...

E34 - 10 Writing And Creative Lessons I Learnt In 2024 - Part 2 🗨️Episode Summary: In this episode, we continue discussing the rest five Writing and Creative lessons I learned last year, covering insights on slowing down, enjoying the process, recognising my own expertise, embracing independence, and stepping into my author life. 🗨️Key Points Discussed: Slow Down, You Crazy Child - Reducing excess...

E33 - 10 Writing And Creative Lessons I Learnt In 2024 - Part 1 🗨️ Episode Summary: In the first episode of 2025 and the thirty-third conversation of the Becoming A Writer podcast, I share five of the ten writing and creative lessons I learnt in 2024. From finding the best time to write to understanding when to quit and pivot, this episode is filled with personal insights and actionable advice for...

E32 - You Don't Need More Writing Advice. You Need More Writing Action. ( Please note: The podcast is going on a winter break. Will be back on 1st Feb 2025.) Episode Summary: In this episode, we dive into a common trap many writers fall into: the advice blackhole. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the sheer volume of self-help resources available today. But at some point, we need to shift our focus...

E31 - Creative Gods Have A Different Plan For Your Writing Journey. Episode Summary: In this episode, I delve into the often overlooked and frustrating phases of a writer's journey where it feels like the universe is conspiring against you. Whether it's constant distractions, unexpected responsibilities, or just the sheer struggle of finding the right words, it can seem like every obstacle...

E30 - Publishing Your First Book Means Everything And Nothing. Listen to Soul Writer vs Social Writer Audiobook for FREE here. Episode Summary: In this episode, I reflect on the first anniversary of my non-fiction book, Soul Writer vs. Social Writer . After nearly a decade of hard work and dedication, the journey to becoming a published author has been both eye-opening and humbling. I share six va...

In celebration of the first anniversary of my non-fiction book for writers, Soul Writer vs. Social Writer, I am sharing the audiobook version of it for FREE! Thank you for listening to Soul Writer vs. Social Writer , written and narrated by Rubina Gauri Gomes. Ebook is available on Amazon. Amazon US Amazon UK Amazon India Synopsis – There are plotters and pantsers. Outliners and discovery writers....

E29 - Content Creation Turned Me Into A Shadow Writer. Episode Summary: In this episode, we explore a growing trend among content creators and how it may be affecting you as well. Have you noticed that many of your favorite YouTubers from pre-COVID days have become less active, retreating from the hustle of constant content creation? We're diving into why this is happening and what it means fo...

E28 - Writers, You Shouldn't Feel Guilty For Taking Breaks. Episode Summary: In this episode, I delve into the pervasive feeling of guilt that many writers and creatives experience when taking breaks. Drawing from personal experiences and insights, I explore the reasons behind this guilt, such as the pressure to constantly produce and the unhealthy comparisons with others. Inspired by conversa...

E27 - Sorry Ego, I Am Embracing The Change And Pivoting. Episode Summary - In this episode, I share my journey of navigating change in my creative life, inspired by the lessons from Dr. Spencer Johnson’s book Who Moved My Cheese? . I discuss how I’ve decided to let go of my Medium page, which has been underperforming, and shift my focus to my podcast and Substack, where I’ve found unexpected growt...

E26 - A Silly Trick That Will Get You Into The Writing Mood. 📚 My non-fiction book for writers - Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon US⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon UK ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon India⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🏡 My homes on the internet - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Medium⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Po...

E25 - Once You Accept You Are A Writer, You Are One For Life. 📚 My non-fiction book for writers - Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon US⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon UK ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon India⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🏡 My homes on the internet - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Medium⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ...

E24 - We Are Actually Doing Our Best - For Ourselves And Our Writing. 📚 My non-fiction book for writers - Soul Writer vs. Social Writer - Find Out Which One Are You?, Why Is It Important, and Finding Your Sweet Spot. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon US⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon UK ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon India⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🏡 My homes on the internet - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   |  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Medium⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcas...