Beauty in the Breakup

What is the difference between true caring and taking care of? And why does this make a difference in your life? Listen to this episode with special guest, Rachel O'Brien, and perceive the subtle shifts that new awareness gifts!

This episode is a Q&A replay with people joining from all over the world, translated by amazing translators! What questions do you have for me? What other areas would you like me to talk about? How much ease are you willing to have in relationships of all kinds?! www.beautyinthebreakup.com

Quickie Episode: Instead of bringing forward the scars of past relationships, what if you took the time to clear the past, and get reacquainted with who you really are before entering a new relationship? Have a listen and use the 6 questions before going on a date to have more ease and more fun! Buy the new book, Fun with Online Dating?! 7 Essentials for Creating Magical Connections, at beautyinth...

When something in her second marriage had to change, she found herself saying out loud, "I don’t want to be married anymore." Listen to her story and how she was able to break free of normal constraints, to allow the relationship to grow into a creation-ship of greater joy and possibility.

What if you’re not broken? You survived! The mess shows you the strength you actually are. Is now the time to let go of the pain and upset? What if there’s nothing you need to get over, only everything to get around? 

When going through the fog of separation and a possible breakup, how do you choose what's next? What tools can you use to gain clarity of the true YOU, and start moving in that direction? My guest and client Anthony joins me in this episode to share some of his journey and what had the greatest impact on him re-discovering himself. Interested in working with me? Book a Possibilities Sessions a...

Have you been repudiated? Have you experienced being totally dismissed, invalidated and rejected, while being held in "conversation"? What else is possible in these situations? How can you care for you and others? Check out the resources I mentioned on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjf5S0g5qcey0KjTpNSNu1sep0oo6ppid

This episode features special guest, Cassy Summers, from Canada! In this conversation we look at "Gaslighting" behavior: what it can show up as, why we become the target, and what else is possible to move beyond gaslighting. Find out more about Cassy: www.asifbymagic.space/Find Julie's events: www.julietutonenergy.com/event#relationship #breakupcoach #breakupedits #divorcecoaching #relationshipcoa...

What if you could choose what works for you without having to justify your choices? This episode is with special guest, Pam Houghteling, who shares that nothing was "wrong" and yet she knew that separating would create more for everyone. Reach Pam at www.pamhoughteling.com Reach Julie at www.beautyinthebreakup.com #relationship #breakupcoach #breakupedits #divorcecoaching #relationshipcoach #acces...

After a breakup, sometimes years later, when you suddenly remember the good parts of your relationship, or maybe your ex has found a new partner, what does that bring up for you? Do you go to doubting your choice? Do you have second thoughts about trying to make it work again? What if you didn't need to make each other wrong in order to leave the relationship? Although we have been told that styin...

Why do we keep choosing to go into relationships with people with Narcissistic personality disorder, and how can you move beyond it? We need to look at our conclusions that keep us from fully seeing what we are choosing. What is actually going on? What is the need to constantly justify their behavior? We don't want to be judgmental, so we disregard our awareness. We start to doubt ourselves, which...

What is the space of Allowance? When you take a fixed point of view you can't see other possibilities. Then we gather evidence to justify the rightness of our point of view. The way to be free is to have the ability to see all points of view, not just the ones we defend. This is what is called being in allowance. Allowance is everything is an interesting point of view. Begin to use the tool Intere...

When you begin to realize that you have outgrown the container that holds you a relationship, what choices do you have? Many think you have no choice, or that it must lead to a break up. But what else might be possible if you were to look at your choices, and really get clear on what you’d like your future to be? Step 3 of my book Beauty in the Breakup illuminates how to gain clarity for yourself....

When Plan A doesn't work out, for whatever reasons, it is possible to choose again, often from a place of more awareness. What might be possible with this, instead of making it wrong, making yourself a failure, etc.? This episode features my special guest Laleh Hancock, who speaks about being married twice and divorced twice, yet has a very different perspective and outlook. She sees both rela...

Where are you in your relationship? Contemplating a breakup is not something we tend to talk about. It starts with a foreboding sense deep within, which bubbles up more and more the longer you avoid it. What if avoiding what you know, avoiding your inner voice, your knowing of what is true for you, makes the boat sink deeper, faster? Avoiding what you know is the beginning of what is called "divor...

This episode features a special guest, founder and creator of the worldwide personal development system, Gary Douglas! Gary encouraged/asked/told me to write my book, Beauty in the Breakup, and I'm grateful for it has been a useful tool for many many people around the world, (including me!) Relationships can run their course, so what if it's not wrong to part ways when it's over? "You don't stop l...

What if you're not wrong? And what if you're also not right? How to untangle from your judgments and points of view that are limiting your ability to choose... Trying to choose what's right, and trying not to feel wrong, often leaves you in a place of no choice. What if, instead of using the lens of judgment of right/wrong, you chose what felt light or expansive? More about learning to navigate yo...

There’s an awful lot of anger around relationships and breakups, and I would like to see that change. Anger, rage, fury, and hate are some of the most toxic energies in the world. It’s toxic to our bodies. It’s toxic to our relationships and it’s toxic to our planet.  One of the difficulties in diffusing anger is assuming it’s just one thing. But it’s actually a number of different energies galump...

Contemplating a breakup isn’t something most people can talk about. I’d like to shine the light of new possibilities in this area.  What if no choice were wrong and no choices were right?  Might you be able to look at what choices would be correct for you? What if you had more awareness of what you truly desired, without the fear of making the wrong choice looming over your head? The tools I’ll be...

Whatever the status of your current relationship, holding on and trying to force it to work is not going to make it better. Rather, when you are willing to let go, is when you can have more ease. Are you willing to let go of what’s not working, start fresh, or create something new? How much more beauty would be possible in your future? Welcome to Beauty in the Breakup podcast, tools for moving bey...