Beauty in Battle Podcast

Send us Fan Mail One of our greatest needs in marriage is emotional connection.  But that's impossible if you're not first emotionally intelligent. In this episode we're going to look at the two parts of the brain - the emotional and the logical - and discuss how we can make sure the emotional side of us stays healthy and strong so we can remain connected to our spouse. We'll a...

Send us Fan Mail One of the best things we've done in our marriage that's helped us understand each other better is taking the Enneagram.  Knowing our enneagram types has given us new eyes to see each other and understand the core motivations that fuel our behavior. And, as many of you may not know, Tori is a certified Enneagram coach. As such, she has a deep understanding into this powe...

Send us Fan Mail Get our new book Beauty in Battle: Winning in Marriage by Waging a War by ordering HERE! How badly do you want the spark that started your relationship back? The power of desire is so important in a relationship because it's where it all starts. What's interesting is the longer you're married, (Can I get a witness?!) that desire begins to wane off. You can restore y...

Send us Fan Mail Get our new book Beauty in Battle: Winning in Marriage by Waging a War by ordering HERE! Conflict is the one topic that nobody wants to talk about, but everybody wants to talk about. And it comes down to one thing: Do you know how to fight well with your spouse? When we start talking about conflict, we have to remember who the real enemy is (hint: it's NOT your spouse!). It t...

Send us Fan Mail Seeing isn't just believing - it's behaving! If you want to see positive change in your marriage you have to adjust the way you see your relationship. How you see determines how you act. In this episode, we dive deep into practical ways you can change the way you view your spouse and your marriage so your relationship will thrive no matter how crazy and chaotic your life...

Send us Fan Mail You can harness and utilize dopamine (the feel-good chemical for your body) consistently for your marriage. Wait, what? Did you know that your brain releases dopamine when you pursue a goal? When you have that sense of fulfillment and accomplishment...when you achieve it. This is great news for married couples because when you pursue your spouse with a sense of winning their heart...

Send us Fan Mail You can't build a house without establishing a foundation first. In this episode, we'll dive deep into several fundamental concepts upon which you can build your marriage.  We'll also talk about how your marriage is a lot like a triangle. The closer you draw to God individually the closer you get to each other relationally. And when you do, everything in your marria...

Send us Fan Mail Do you remember where you were when 911 took place? We had only been married nine months, and the image of the weeks and months that followed etched in our memories forever. All of us as Americans felt so connected to each other, and for a brief moment in history, we put aside our differences and chose to fight alongside each other against an enemy who wanted to take us out.  We s...