Bearly Gays

  Is BDSM a lifestyle, or is it something that only belongs in the bedroom? In this episode of Bearly Gays , we're diving into one of the biggest questions in the kink community: the difference between BDSM as a lifestyle and BDSM as part of your sex life . We explore what it means to live a Dom/sub or power exchange dynamic outside of the bedroom, why many people choose to keep their kink an...

You've listened to podcasts, watched videos, read articles, and maybe fantasized about trying something new. But how do you actually take the next step? In this episode, we're building a practical roadmap for exploring the kink world safely, intentionally, and at your own pace.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Everybody starts somewhere. Whether you've been kink-curious for years or recently discovered that being called "good boy" unlocked a new achievement, this episode is your beginner's guide to entering the world of kink safely, responsibly, and without accidentally buying a dungeon on Amazon.  We'll discuss how to discover your interests, communicate with partners, explore...

 Join Logan & Shadow in this weeks episode  as we talk about Kink basics. A beginner-friendly guide to the wild, weird, and surprisingly wholesome world of kink. What is kink? Why do people enjoy it? Is it always sexual? What's the difference between a Dom, a Sub, and a Switch? And why does everyone seem to own rope suddenly?  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscrib...

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss power dynamics and how they play into every relationship but explicitly into a BDSM relationship. Find out where each of them stand on the importance of having a level playing field when starting out, especially when eventually the scales are going to be tilted. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform...

Join Logan & Shadow as we discuss building a solid foundation in your relationship before embarking on any advance kink journey. Find out what each of us brought to the table and what we feel made us the success so far. A solid foundation makes fore a more stable long term relationship.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTub...

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss Confessions and discussing your true feelings and sexual desires with your partner. We discuss taking things slowly and approaching the kink topics in ways that foster grown and exploring together. How can kink make you stronger? How can kink cause cracks in your relationship? Find out this and more on this episode of the Bearly Gays Podcast.  Check out our...

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss the recent kink in the roads that is taking the Bearly Gays podcast into a new direction. We talk about our plans moving forward and finding our place in a new space and community.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Logan & Shadow discuss how expensive it has become just to be even Bearly Gay. Costs are out of control. We explore ways to stay relevant but still stay withing your budget. Should everything be so expensive? What are some alternatives to breaking the bank. Find out on this episode of the Bearly Gays. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast plat...

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss how the passion in their relationship have evolved over time. They explore all the ways that their relationship might not fit the typical mold of passion. Does passion have to look like your parents relationship? How did they find new and exciting ways to keep the spark alive.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite...

Join Logan & Shadow as they dive a little deeper into toxicity and toxic traits in specific. We get down to it and even discuss our own "Toxic" traits. Which one of us is more toxic? Which one of us keeps the other in check? Find out on this weeks episode. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss pet peeves. One of them has more pet peeves than the other but the that is not the point of the conversation.🤣🤣🤣 We all have things that annoy us but how do we manage those with the people we love and care about? Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss toxicity in the gay community. What causes it? How to prevent it? How to deal with it? Why are gays naturally drawn to being toxic? All of these questions and more on this episode of the Bearly Gays podcast. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss being bearly fem and finding a healthly balance between masculine and feminine energy. Which one of us has more fem energy? Which one of us is the "Woman?" How can feminine energy be embraced more in our community? Join us as we explore these answers and more.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast...

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss stereotypes both in the gay community and the world at large. How do we feel about stereotypes? Which stereotypes do we embrace? Which ones do we try to avoid? We have alot of fun with this one. 🤣🤣 Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow this week as they discuss attending this years TBRU (Texas Bear Round-Up) in Dalla Texas. This being Shadows first time in attendance was truly a fun experience. Find out about all the fun and interesting things we did while visiting Dallas as well as the way out and back. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or Y...

Join Logan & Shadow as we discuss drama in the gay community and how trauma play a role in most drama. We explore the difference in Dram vs. Trauma and how to combat both. Sometime its hard to deal with trauma and that leads to unnecessary trauma. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as the discuss Trauma and how the navigate it together. Everything from Childhood Trauma to Relationship Trauma. We will explore all the ins and out of past and present drama.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow this week as we discuss what make our relationship work. We discuss learning and growing together. Find out how we navigate the boundaries and learning curves of the last 10+ years together. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss the dynamics of keeping certain things private. In a relationship where almost everything seems so public and visible we have to work extra hard to be diligent about keeping the important things private. Healthy boundaries are key to our success and ability to thrive as a couple. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorit...

Join Logan & Shadow this week as we discuss the balance between being a visible couple in the LBGT Bear community and still maintaining our individuality. Where  do we lean into the couple persona and where do we lean into the individuality? How to we navigate single spaces as a couple? We explore several aspects of our relationship dynamics as a couple and keeping our individuality along the...

Join Logan & Shadow this week as we discuss our love languages and how we navigate them. Each person experiences and shows love in different ways and it is imporant to learn about your partners preferences. How do you show love? What makes you feel loved? Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as we discuss evolution and how it effects our lives and relationship. What have we learned from evolution? What are we anticipating from our next evolution levels? We explore many aspects of growing and evolving together.  Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

Join Logan & Shadow as we celebrate the official one year anniversary of the start of the Bearly Gays Podcast. We will discuss what we have learn and the challenges we have overcome so far. Where will this podcast go in 2026? What episodes do we have planned? Find out on this weeks episode. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or You...

Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss honesty and how it factors into their relations and daily lives. They explore honesty with each other and family and friends. This episode is more on the serious side then previous ones but honesty is an important aspect of any relationship. Check out our socials at www. BearlyGays.com . Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.